Big Head Todd and The Monsters – singer-guitarist Todd Park Mohr, bassist-singer Rob Squires, drummer-singer Brian Nevin and keyboardist-guitarist-singer Jeremy Lawton -- could have begun resting on their laurels back in 1993, when their Top 10 singles “Bittersweet,” “Broken Hearted Savior,” “Circle” and “It’s Alright” pushed the album Sister Sweetly to platinum certification. However, Mohr says, “I’ve fought throughout our career not to be a one-trick pony, to be the kind of band that has depth and diversity in its catalogue. I’m a fan of this band, and I’m constantly looking forward to what comes next.”
The essence of Big Head Todd and The Monsters – a rootsy, emotionally direct variety of rock ’n’ roll that lends itself particularly well to a live setting – has been winning fans since Mohr, Rob Squires and Brian Nevin started playing together in high school (Jeremy Lawton joined in 2004). Needless to say, the three never expected to be in the same band at this late date, but, as Mohr points out, “It was a really fortunate combination of musical personalities, and we’re still partners in every sense of the word.”
The band spent seven years developing their chemistry and amassing a following, boosted significantly by the independent releases Another Mayberry (1989) and Midnight Radio (1990), before being “discovered” by the listening public at large with 1993’s Sister Sweetly. After a major-label stint (Sister Sweetly, 1994’s Stratagem, 1997’s Beautiful World), during which the trio increasingly found itself frustrated artistically, they reclaimed their independent status (2001’s Riviera, 2004’s Crimes of Passion). “If it were not for our ability to do things for ourselves, we would have disappeared a long time ago,” Mohr allows.
her own kinda woman
Big Head Todd and the Monsters Lyrics
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Spread her wings and she'll fly
You know it's hard to be free
When you slave to get by
This time ain't gonna let it get me down
It ain't too late to start again,
She said she wants to be her own kinda woman now
I don't care what she says
Ain't no love when your poor
I can't get to my bed
She won't unlock the door.
This time ain't gonna let it get me down
It ain't too late to start again,
She said she wants to be her own kinda woman now
On my way I roll on
Wipe the dust off my shoes
Greyhound bus run til dawn
Flower child dust my blues
I ain't gonna let it get me down
It ain't too late to start again,
When she's checking' in, I'll be checking' out
I'm going to find myself another friend.
She said she wants to be her own kinda woman now
The lyrics to Big Head Todd And The Monsters's song "Her Own Kinda Woman" express the singer's admiration and support for a woman who wants to be independent and free. He encourages her to spread her wings and fly, even if it means leaving him behind. Although he loves her, he recognizes that poverty and financial struggles can make it difficult to feel truly free. He understands the challenges she faces but assures her that he will not stand in her way. Instead, he will find his own way and continue on his journey in search of new experiences and friendships.
The upbeat tempo and lively guitar riffs of the song reflect the singer's determination to overcome obstacles and move forward. The lyrics capture the spirit of the 60s and 70s counterculture, which celebrated individuality and personal freedom. The Flower Child reference in the last verse is a nod to this era of peace, love, and social change.
Line by Line Meaning
I won't stand in her way
I won't prevent her from achieving her goals
Spread her wings and she'll fly
She has potential to succeed if she is permitted to explore opportunities
You know it's hard to be free
It's challenging to enjoy freedom in a system that resembles slavery
When you slave to get by
Living from paycheck to paycheck is similar to slavery, which compromises freedom
This time ain't gonna let it get me down
I won't let challenges or difficulties overwhelm me
It ain't too late to start again
It's possible to make a fresh start no matter how challenging the present circumstances may be
She said she wants to be her own kinda woman now
She desires to follow her heart and be herself
I don't care what she says
Her opinions or desires don't affect me
Ain't no love when your poor
Love may be difficult to come by when one is financially struggling
I can't get to my bed
Sleep eludes me due to emotional stress
She won't unlock the door
She won't allow me to access the emotional space I desire
On my way I roll on
I move forward despite obstacles and setbacks
Wipe the dust off my shoes
I get back on my feet and keep going
Greyhound bus run til dawn
Traveling by foot or by bus is preferable to giving up
Flower child dust my blues
Spiritual or natural remedies can help alleviate sorrow or pain
When she's checking' in, I'll be checking' out
I'll move on when she's no longer interested in being with me
I'm going to find myself another friend
I'll seek out a companion who appreciates me for who I am
Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: TODD PARK MOHR
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Christopher Wilkerson
This song is phenomenal. Love the album version — REALLY love this live take. Good Lord, this one smokes! As the old Cajun Cook, Justin Wilson, used to say: “A person don’ like dat? Don’ let ’me into yo’ house!”
jomar
Great song!!! Todd and the drummer kick ass!!
Beth Lakes
Seen them in concert eight times and they are awesome playing at any size venue. Flower child "that's my boo" dust my broom!
Cool tunes
No band puts on a better show!!
Jeanie
Okay, that guy on sax is the BOMB! He's just GREAT!
Fred Thomas
A long way from FAC! So great to see these guys get to this level. Don't Stop!