Harmony Sometimes
Big Scary Lyrics


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Mud for the connoisseur
Your distaste was palpable
My mistake was shun-able
Damn, I hate this episode

But I was vulnerable
I desired your resolve
I secretly hoped that you chose
When you stood by my side

Now I just wait for the next high
Sleep through the first four nights
And when all is aligned
Attainment will be mine
Attainment will be mine

I want your attention
I want a body
So you'll want my body
But I also want to say no

And I've enjoyed the feeling
When you and I we're kidding
It's fun for the time being
But will it ever serve me
I'm barely able to decide

Now I just wait for the next high
Sleep through the first four nights
And when all is aligned




Attainment will be mine
Attainment will be mine

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Big Scary's song "Harmony Sometimes" appear to be exploring themes of vulnerability, desire, and ambivalence in romantic relationships. The first verse, "Mud for the connoisseur / Your distaste was palpable / My mistake was shun-able / Damn, I hate this episode," suggests the singer may have made a misstep in the relationship and is now feeling regret or disappointment. They seem to feel their partner is discerning and critical, noting their "distaste," and that the situation could have been avoided ("shun-able").


The second verse, "But I was vulnerable / I desired your resolve / I secretly hoped that you chose / When you stood by my side," reveals the singer's vulnerability and desire for their partner's validation and affirmation. They express a sense of insecurity, hoping their partner will choose them and stand by their side. However, the chorus, "Now I just wait for the next high / Sleep through the first four nights / And when all is aligned / Attainment will be mine," suggests the singer may be relying on the relationship for temporary highs or validation, rather than seeking a deeper or more sustainable connection.


The third verse, "I want your attention / I want a body / So you'll want my body / But I also want to say no," further complicates the singer's feelings. They seem to want both physical desire and emotional intimacy, but also express a desire for agency and control ("I also want to say no"). The final lines, "But will it ever serve me / I'm barely able to decide," indicate the singer is struggling to determine if the relationship is truly fulfilling for them or if they are simply caught up in the fleeting moments of connection.


Overall, the lyrics to "Harmony Sometimes" seem to capture the complexities and contradictions of human relationships, particularly the push and pull between desire, vulnerability, and agency.


Line by Line Meaning

Mud for the connoisseur
Refined dirt for those with a sophisticated taste


Your distaste was palpable
You strongly disliked it and it was evident


My mistake was shun-able
My misstep was avoidable


Damn, I hate this episode
I really dislike this situation


But I was vulnerable
However, I was exposed and susceptible


I desired your resolve
I wanted your determination and firmness


I secretly hoped that you chose
I had a hidden wish that you selected me


When you stood by my side
When you supported me


Now I just wait for the next high
I now anticipate the next pleasurable experience


Sleep through the first four nights
I'll ignore the initial discomfort and unrest


And when all is aligned
And when everything is in order


Attainment will be mine
I will achieve what I desire


I want your attention
I want you to focus on me


I want a body
I want a physical presence


So you'll want my body
So that you'll desire me physically


But I also want to say no
But I also want to be able to refuse


And I've enjoyed the feeling
And I've savored the sensation


When you and I we're kidding
When you and I were joking around


It's fun for the time being
It's enjoyable for the moment


But will it ever serve me
But will it ever benefit me in the long run


I'm barely able to decide
I'm hardly capable of making a choice


Attainment will be mine
I will achieve what I desire


Attainment will be mine
I will achieve what I desire




Writer(s): jo syme, tom iansek

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