By the Way
Big Wreck Lyrics


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One two three four
So you would be my one bad thing
Never when you tried
I let the fire burn out again
And then inside

So let my tears be realized
Before my eyes are turned
And every lie I've tried before
Won't work no more I've learned

Drowning or bathing
I've found out
What you meant
By the way

Knowledge unexpectedly
That you and me could be
Quiet the voices in my head
Warm my bed tonight
So you could be my one again
Never when you tried

Drowning or bathing
I've found out




What you meant
By the way

Overall Meaning

The opening lines of the song By The Way by Big Wreck sets up a mood of regret and reflection. The singer reiterates how letting go of someone you love can be incredibly difficult, particularly when you know you could have made it work if you had tried harder. The lyrics, "So you would be my one bad thing, never when you tried" indicate that maybe the relationship was doomed from the start and the singer recognizes that his/her partner was never really invested in making it work. The fire that was once burning bright between them has been extinguished and the singer is left in a place of emotional turmoil, of regret and loss.


The lyrics "So let my tears be realized before my eyes are turned, and every lie I've tried before won't work no more I've learned" implies that the singer is finally coming to terms with the reality of the situation. They are acknowledging that they need to deal with their emotions rather than turning a blind eye to them, and that no amount of deception can make it okay. The lines "Drowning or bathing, I've found out what you meant, by the way" suggest that the relationship is either a source of emotional rejuvenation or emotional turmoil, they have both made an impact on each other's lives.


Overall, By The Way is a heartfelt and nostalgic take on love and loss. The lyrics capture a sense of longing and melancholy that is emblematic of relationships that have failed and reminds us of the pain of letting go.


Line by Line Meaning

One two three four
Beginning of the song, starting the count in a deliberate manner


So you would be my one bad thing
Referring to a person who causes trouble, but still wanted and needed in life


Never when you tried
The trouble caused is never intentional or wanted by the person causing it


I let the fire burn out again
Relationships and passions can require attention, if left ignored they die out


And then inside
Highlighting the emotional toll loneliness can have


So let my tears be realized
Expressing the need to acknowledge and process personal pain


Before my eyes are turned
Wanting to face emotionally tough situations before it's too late


And every lie I've tried before
Describing past attempts to avoid the truth of tough situations


Won't work no more I've learned
Acknowledging the need for honesty and facing problems head on


Drowning or bathing
Comparing the choice to either be consumed by personal pain or to cleanse oneself from it


I've found out
Implying realization and acceptance of a personal truth


What you meant
Discovering a truth about a person or situation


By the way
Indicating that this truth was conveyed casually or unintentionally


Knowledge unexpectedly
A realization which happened by chance or without intention


That you and me could be
Realizing that a positive relationship is possible between two people


Quiet the voices in my head
Finding peace and calm within oneself, and the ability to think clearly


Warm my bed tonight
Wanting comfort and companionship


So you could be my one again
Referring back to the person who was once a source of trouble, but now seen as a source of comfort and love




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: IAN THORNLEY

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