Mean to Me
Billie Holiday Lyrics


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You're mean to me
Why must you be mean to me?
Gee, honey, it seems to me
You love to see me cryin'
I don't know why
I stay home each night
When you say you phone
You don't and I'm left alone.

Sing the blues and sighin'
You treat me coldly each day in the year
You always scold me
Whenever somebody is near, dear
I must be great fun to be mean to me




You shouldn't, for can't you see
What you mean to me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Mean to Me by Billie Holiday Teddy Wilson and his Orchestra depict a relationship that is fraught with pain and heartache. The singer sings about their lover who is consistently unkind, leaving them feeling sad and alone. Despite the pain, the singer remains devoted and unable to leave, as reflected in the line, "I don't know why I stay home each night when you say you phone, you don't and I'm left alone."


The chorus of "You're mean to me, why must you be mean to me?" reveals the singer's confusion and hurt, wondering why their lover continues to act in a manner that causes suffering. The line "You love to see me cryin'" suggests a sadistic pleasure taken by the lover in the suffering of their partner. The final lines, "You shouldn't, for can't you see what you mean to me" express a plea for the lover to understand the depth of hurt they are causing and to treat the singer with kindness and love.


Line by Line Meaning

You're mean to me
You treat me badly


Why must you be mean to me?
What makes you act unkind towards me?


Gee, honey, it seems to me
It appears to me, my dear


You love to see me cryin'
You enjoy seeing me in tears


I don't know why
I am puzzled as to why


I stay home each night
I choose to remain at home every evening


When you say you phone
When you promise to call me


You don't and I'm left alone.
You fail to keep your promise and I am left by myself


Sing the blues and sighin'
I express my sadness through singing the blues and sighing


You treat me coldly each day in the year
You show me no warmth or kindness during every day of the year


You always scold me
You frequently criticize me harshly


Whenever somebody is near, dear
Especially when someone else is present, my dear


I must be great fun to be mean to me
It must be quite entertaining for you to treat me badly


You shouldn't, for can't you see
It is not appropriate for you to behave this way towards me, and don't you realize


What you mean to me
How much I care about you




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@caballerokebab

I see I wasn't the only one brought to this song because of Charles Bukowski

@jamajnasoares5702

Amen to that

@RobDeLarge

Same here.

@omarkuriansky7091

creo que es mi padre

@L4Z3RB0Y

🙋‍♂️same.. take me about 5 minutes haha

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@@L4Z3RB0Y less :)

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@yogeshtak9223

Born into this.

@jamajnasoares5702

This.

@yeh2756

Made out of this.

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Born this way, to sing lady gaga

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