Fear Is a Man's Best Friend
Billy Bragg Lyrics


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Standing waiting for a man to show
Wide-eyed, one eye fixed on the door
This waiting's killing me
It's getting me down
Day in day out
My feet are wearing holes in the ground

Darkness, woman and a bedroom floor
Want someone to hold me close forever more
I'm a sleeping dog
But you can't tell
When I'm on the prowl
You'd better run like hell

You know it makes sense, don't you think about it
Life and death are things we only do when we're bored
Say fear is a man's best friend
Say fear is a man's best friend
Say fear is a man's best friend
You add it up it brings you down
You add it up it brings you down

Home is living like a man on the run
Days leading nowhere
"Where to my son ?"
We're already dead
But not yet in the ground




Come on, hold my shaking hand
And I'll show you around

Overall Meaning

The opening lines of the song "Standing waiting for a man to show, Wide-eyed, one eye fixed on the door, This waiting's killing me, It's getting me down, Day in day out" indicate the agony of anticipation which presents as a form of anxiety. The persona is portrayed as waiting pessimistically for something, possibly a man who he or she thinks may be a savior. They feel trapped, powerless, and unable to make choices. This anxiety is coupled with dark implications that suggest death and decay, "My feet are wearing holes in the ground." The next stanza depicts melancholy and loneliness seeking solace by wanting someone to hold them close forevermore, but the misery is asphyxiating, "I'm a sleeping dog, but you can't tell, When I'm on the prowl, You'd better run like hell."


The chorus elucidates that fear is an intrinsic part of human existence, and men depend on this fear to live; fear drives men, as they can only think of the danger and experience fear. The lyric 'Life and death are things we only do when we're bored' highlights the nihilistic worldview that men have no inherent purpose or meaning but are driven by fear. The verse "Days leading nowhere, "Where to, my son?" We're already dead, but not yet in the ground" abstractly suggests the persona's life as an aimless and meaningless existence, expressing their fears of death and the passage of time. Still, ultimately this fear perishes, and life is left to the decisions we make along the way that solidify the path of our lives.


Line by Line Meaning

Standing waiting for a man to show
I am anxious and eagerly waiting for somebody to arrive.


Wide-eyed, one eye fixed on the door
I am keeping a strict watch over the door with wide-open eyes.


This waiting's killing me
This lengthy waiting is causing me distress.


It's getting me down
It's making me feel low and dejected.


Day in day out
This is an everyday occurrence.


My feet are wearing holes in the ground
I have been pacing so much that my shoes are beginning to show signs of wear and tear.


Darkness, woman and a bedroom floor
The context here is sexual encounters in a dark setting.


Want someone to hold me close forever more
I crave for intimacy and long for a companion to cling onto for life.


I'm a sleeping dog
I may be calm and still, but don't underestimate me.


But you can't tell
My appearance may conceal my true nature.


When I'm on the prowl
When I am active, I am a formidable force to be reckoned with.


You'd better run like hell
You better be prepared to flee from me when I am active.


You know it makes sense, don't you think about it
This statement is an appeal to the listener’s sense of logic and reason.


Life and death are things we only do when we're bored
The lyrics criticize the monotony of everyday life.


Say fear is a man's best friend
The song's central theme is expressed by this line - suggesting that being afraid is a natural component of human experience.


You add it up it brings you down
This is a warning not to allow fear and paranoia to hold sway over our lives.


Home is living like a man on the run
This expresses a sentiment of homelessness or restlessness.


Days leading nowhere
A feeling of being stuck in a rut or aimlessness.


"Where to my son ?"
The singer is lost and unable to navigate himself out of this situation.


We're already dead
Life has already taken its tole on him.


But not yet in the ground
Although life may feel bleak, there is still time to turn things around.


Come on, hold my shaking hand
A note of vulnerability combined with a plea for help.


And I'll show you around
An invitation to experience the singer's world.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: JOHN DAVIES CALE

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Andy McDougall

Lou Reed is an actor, Tom waits is an actor. They're poets for my generation. Those who've been nowhere, seen nothing, and know everything, cause they've seen it on television. On the other hand..... Billy Bragg is just, well.... Billy Bragg. Fear IS the average mans best friend while courage to be oneself is, for better or worse, his. Get stuck in billy.

R. ROOKSBY

What's wrong with it? I like both versions...

huji891

sorry, this version does great injustice to John Cale's original (and actually i heard it before the original back then when it was issued, i believe on one of Bragg's peel Sessions)

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