The Marriage
Billy Bragg Lyrics


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I understand you needing
And wanting is no crime
But I can't help feeling
That you and your mother are just wasting your time

Choosing Saturdays in Summer
I dare you to wear white
Love is just a moment of giving
And marriage is when we admit our parents were right

I just don't understand it
What makes our love a sin
How can it make that difference
If you and I are wearing that bloody, bloody ring?

If I share my bed with you
Must I also share my life?
Love is just a moment of giving
And marriage is when we admit our parents were right

You just don't understand it
This tender trap we're in
Those glossy catalogs of couples
Are cashing in on happiness again and again

So drag me to the altar
And I'll make my sacrifice
But love is just a moment of giving
And marriage is when we admit our parents were right
Marriage is when we admit our parents were right




I say marriage is when we admit our parents
Were probably right

Overall Meaning

In Billy Bragg's song, The Marriage, the lyrics depict the internal conflict the singer has over the idea of marriage. The first two lines of the song set the overall tone, with the singer acknowledging the wants and needs of their partner but expressing frustration that they and their partner's mother, who seems to be urging them towards marriage, are "wasting their time." They go on to challenge their partner to defy societal conventions and wear white at their wedding. Then they question the notion of love as a sin and draw attention to the arbitrary nature of marriage as a societal institution.


The singer ultimately accepts the idea of marriage as a necessary sacrifice, but only after acknowledging that it is often parents who push their children into the institution of marriage, highlighting a tension between tradition and individual choice.


The song offers a nuanced perspective on marriage, examining the often-unspoken tensions between societal and personal expectations of love and commitment.


Line by Line Meaning

I understand you needing
I comprehend that you feel the need


And wanting is no crime
To desire something is not a wrongdoing


But I can't help feeling
However, I cannot help but sense


That you and your mother are just wasting your time
That both you and your mother are frittering away your time


Choosing Saturdays in Summer
Opting for summer weekend dates


I dare you to wear white
I bet you won't wear white


Love is just a moment of giving
Love is nothing but a transient act of generosity


And marriage is when we admit our parents were right
And when you get married, that's when you concede that your folks were right


I just don't understand it
I just can't wrap my head around it


What makes our love a sin
What is it that makes our love abhorrent


How can it make that difference
How could that even matter


If you and I are wearing that bloody, bloody ring?
Just because we're wearing that damn ring?


If I share my bed with you
If I share a bed with you


Must I also share my life?
Does that mean I also need to share my entire existence with you?


You just don't understand it
You just fail to realize


This tender trap we're in
The precarious predicament we're in


Those glossy catalogs of couples
Those slick magazines of couples


Are cashing in on happiness again and again
Are repeatedly capitalizing on people's joy


So drag me to the altar
So take me forcibly to the wedding altar


And I'll make my sacrifice
And I'll offer my tribute


Marriage is when we admit our parents were right
Wedlock is the point at which we acknowledge that our parents were correct


I say marriage is when we admit our parents
My belief is that marriage is when we acknowledge our parents


Were probably right
Were likely correct




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Written by: Billy Bragg

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