A Matter Of Trust
Billy Joel Lyrics


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One, two
One, two, three, four

Some love is just a lie of the heart
The cold remains of what began with a passionate start
And they may not want it to end
But it will it's just a question of when
I've lived long enough to have learned
The closer you get to the fire the more you get burned
But that won't happen to us
'Cause it's always been a matter of trust

Now I know you're an emotional girl
It took a lot for you to not lose your faith in this world
But I can't offer you proof
But you're going to face a moment of truth

It's hard when you're always afraid
You just recover when another belief is betrayed
So break my heart if you must
It's a matter of trust

You can't go the distance
With too much resistance
I know you have doubts
But for God's sake don't shut me out

This time you've got nothing to lose
You can take it, you can leave it, whatever you choose
I won't hold back anything
And I'll walk away a fool or a king

Some love is just a lie of the mind
It's make believe until it's only a matter of time
And some might have learned to adjust
But then it never was a matter of trust

I'm sure you're aware love
We've both had our share of
Believing too long
When the whole situation was wrong

Some love is just a lie of the soul
A constant battle for the ultimate state of control
After you've heard lie upon lie
There can hardly be a question of why

Some love is just a lie of the heart
The cold remains of what began with a passionate start
But that can't happen to us
'Cause it's always been a matter of trust

It's a matter of trust
It's always been a matter of trust




It's a matter of trust
'Cause it's always been a matter of trust

Overall Meaning

In Billy Joel's A Matter of Trust, the singer-songwriter tackles the topic of love, and the need for trust in a relationship. The song speaks to the difficulties of maintaining faith in love when one has been hurt before, but argues that trust is essential for a relationship to thrive. The opening lines suggest that some love is "just a lie of the heart," and that even relationships that begin passionately can ultimately end in coldness. However, the singer asserts that his relationship with his partner is different, as it has always been built on trust.


The song acknowledges the emotional struggle that many people face when it comes to trust, especially if they have been hurt in the past. The lyrics suggest that it can be hard to let someone in, to believe that they won't betray you. However, the singer urges his partner not to let that fear hold her back, and to take a chance on their relationship.


Ultimately, A Matter of Trust speaks to the importance of honesty and openness in relationships. The song argues that true love requires trust and that, while it can be hard to give oneself over to another person, it is ultimately worth it to take that risk.


Line by Line Meaning

Some love is just a lie of the heart
Sometimes love is just a false feeling that is born from the heart


The cold remains of what began with a passionate start
This false feeling is what remains after the initial burst of passionate love has faded away


And they may not want it to end
Despite this, the persons involved in this false love may not want it to end


But it will it's just a question of when
However, it is inevitable that the end will come, the only question being when


I've lived long enough to have learned
Looking back at my own life, I have learned this truth


The closer you get to the fire the more you get burned
The more involved you become with passion, the more it will hurt you in the end


But that won't happen to us
However, this will not happen to us


'Cause it's always been a matter of trust
Because our relationship has always been built upon trust


Now I know you're an emotional girl
I realize that you are an emotional person


It took a lot for you to not lose your faith in this world
It has taken much effort from you to still have faith in the world and in love itself


But I can't offer you proof
Although I cannot offer you proof or evidence of our love


But you're going to face a moment of truth
You will eventually face a moment where you will need to confront this truth


It's hard when you're always afraid
It is difficult when fear is a constant presence in your life


You just recover when another belief is betrayed
You can only recover from the pain of another belief being shattered and betrayed


So break my heart if you must
If necessary, break my heart


It's a matter of trust
Because trust is the foundation of our love


You can't go the distance
You cannot sustain a lasting, meaningful relationship


With too much resistance
If you are constantly resistant and closed off


I know you have doubts
I know that you have doubts and feel uncertain


But for God's sake don't shut me out
Please do not shut me out of your life and heart


This time you've got nothing to lose
This time, you have nothing left to lose


You can take it, you can leave it, whatever you choose
You can choose to take a chance on our love or to leave it behind


I won't hold back anything
I will not hold back anything in my heart or in my love for you


And I'll walk away a fool or a king
I am willing to take a risk and either succeed or fail in our love


Some love is just a lie of the mind
Love can sometimes be a false feeling created by the mind


It's make believe until it's only a matter of time
This love is a fantasy that will eventually fade away


And some might have learned to adjust
Some people may have learned how to adapt their feelings to fit reality


But then it never was a matter of trust
However, this adaptation was not based on true trust and faith in love


I'm sure you're aware love
I believe that you are aware, my love


We've both had our share of
We have both experienced


Believing too long
Holding onto beliefs for too long


When the whole situation was wrong
In situations that were clearly not right for us


Some love is just a lie of the soul
Sometimes, even the soul can be deceived by a false love


A constant battle for the ultimate state of control
This false love is a constant struggle for power and control


After you've heard lie upon lie
After experiencing countless lies and deceptions


There can hardly be a question of why
There is no longer any question as to why this love is false and untrue


But that can't happen to us
This will not happen in our relationship


'Cause it's always been a matter of trust
Because trust has always been at the center of our love


It's a matter of trust
Our relationship is built solely upon trust


It's always been a matter of trust
Trust has always been the foundation of our love


It's a matter of trust
Our love requires complete faith and trust in one another




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Billy Joel

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you cringed?

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@carlosrobertocastrosanchez9265

One, two, a-one, two, three, four
Some love is just a lie of the heart
The cold remains of what began with a passionate start
And they may not want it to end
But it will it's just a question of when
I've lived long enough to have learned
The closer you get to the fire, the more you get burned
But that won't happen to us
'Cause it's always been a matter of trust
Now I know you're an emotional girl
It took a lot for you to not lose your faith in this world
Well, I can't offer you proof
But you're gonna face a moment of truth
It's hard when you're always afraid
You just recover when another belief is betrayed
So break my heart if you must
It's a matter of trust
You can't go the distance
With too much resistance
I know you have doubts
But for God's sake, don't shut me out
This time you've got nothing to lose
You can take it, you can leave it, whatever you choose
I won't hold back anything
And I'll walk a way a fool or a king
Some love is just a lie of the mind
It's make-believe until it's only a matter of time
And some might have learned to adjust
But then it never was a matter of trust
I'm sure you're aware, love
We've both had our share of
Believing too long
When the whole situation was wrong
Some love is just a lie of the soul
A constant battle for the ultimate state of control
After you've heard lie upon lie
There can hardly be a question of why
Some love is just a lie of the heart
The cold remains of what began with a passionate start
But that can't happen to us
'Cause it's always been a matter of trust
It's a matter of trust
Oh, it's been a matter of trust
It's a matter of trust
'Cause it's always been a matter of trust



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This is my favorite Billy Joel song..Who agrees with me?

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@alexanderzinchenko8694

Am I the only one in Moscow, Russia, enjoying this video in March 2024?… I do remember watching this song on Soviet TV in late 1980s when I was a kid. It was awesome! Thumbs up to this song. And great remembrance of that time in 1980s when the grass was greener, the sky was bluer and we all were much younger 👍👍👍

@hollymiser5503

I'm in the USA, but you're not the only one enjoying this awesome video. Your description of days gone by is perfect!!

@milawanklyn5581

Alex am listening this music and dance over several decades

@milawanklyn5581

I landed in Australia 1980 this was the music since then loved listening to it

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