All my life
Billy Joel Lyrics


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Got a call from an old friend we'd used to be real close
Said he couldn't go on the American way
Closed the shop, sold the house, bought a ticket to the west coast
Now he gives them a stand-up routine in L.A.

I don't need you to worry for me 'cause I'm alright
I don't want you to tell me it's time to come home
I don't care what you say anymore this is my life
Go ahead with your own life leave me alone

I never said you had to offer me a second chance
I never said I was a victim of circumstance
I still belong
Don't get me wrong
And you can speak your mind
But not on my time

They will tell you you can't sleep alone in a strange place
Then they'll tell you can't sleep with somebody else
Ah but sooner or later you sleep in your own space
Either way it's O.K. you wake up with yourself

I don't need you to worry for me 'cause I'm alright
I don't want you to tell me it's time to come home
I don't care what you say anymore this is my life
Go ahead with your own life leave me alone

I never said you had to offer me a second chance
I never said I was a victim of circumstance
I still belong
Don't get me wrong
And you can speak your mind
But not on my time





I don't care what you say anymore this is my life
Go ahead with your own life leave me alone

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Billy Joel's song All My Life touches on themes of individualism, independence and self-discovery. The song starts with Joel receiving a call from an old friend who has decided to abandon the typical American way of life to pursue a career in stand-up comedy in Los Angeles. Although the decision may seem risky and unconventional, Joel assures his friend that he doesn't need to worry for him, because he knows what he's doing and that he's happy with the choices he's made. He also asserts that he doesn't need anyone else telling him what to do with his life, highlighting the importance of autonomy and self-determination.


The chorus is a defiant expression of his individuality, and a rejection of the notion that people have the right to dictate how he should live his life. He asserts that he still belongs, meaning that he's not lost, but that he just wants to live life on his own terms. The song's final verse talks about the importance of finding oneself, and how sometimes it's necessary to go through uncomfortable or uncertain situations in order to do so. Ultimately, the song's message is about taking control of one's life and pursuing one's own dreams, without fear of judgment or ridicule from others.


Line by Line Meaning

Got a call from an old friend we'd used to be real close
I received a call from someone who I used to be very close with in the past.


Said he couldn't go on the American way
He expressed his dissatisfaction with the way things were going in his life in the US.


Closed the shop, sold the house, bought a ticket to the west coast
He made drastic changes in his life such as selling his property and moving to the west coast.


Now he gives them a stand-up routine in L.A.
He started to perform comedy in Los Angeles.


I don't need you to worry for me 'cause I'm alright
I don't want anyone to be concerned about my current situation because I'm doing well.


I don't want you to tell me it's time to come home
I'm happy where I am and I don't want anyone to pressure me to return home.


I don't care what you say anymore this is my life
I'm taking control of my life and I don't care about other people's opinions.


Go ahead with your own life leave me alone
I want people to let me live my own life without interference or judgement.


I never said you had to offer me a second chance
I'm not expecting anyone to give me another opportunity.


I never said I was a victim of circumstance
I don't blame my situation on outside factors beyond my control.


I still belong
Despite my unconventional choices, I still feel like I belong somewhere.


Don't get me wrong
I don't want others to misunderstand my intentions or feelings.


And you can speak your mind
I'm open to hearing other people's opinions and viewpoints.


But not on my time
However, I prefer people to express their opinions in a timing that works for me or in a respectful manner.


They will tell you you can't sleep alone in a strange place
Sometimes others may discourage you from doing things that they think are risky or unconventional.


Then they'll tell you can't sleep with somebody else
However, other people's opinions shouldn't dictate who you choose to spend your time with.


Ah but sooner or later you sleep in your own space
Eventually, you'll have to prioritize your own preferences and choices.


Either way it's O.K. you wake up with yourself
Regardless of the choices you make, ultimately you have to deal with the consequences and live with yourself.


I don't care what you say anymore this is my life
I'm taking ownership of my life and no one else gets to make decisions for me.


Go ahead with your own life leave me alone
I want people to let me live my life on my own terms.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Billy Joel

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Ron Freilich

All my life
I've searched this whole world through.
Try as I might
To find someone like you.

Years drifted by
But it was always on my mind.
I didn't know just how long I'd go
Until I ran out of time.

All my life
I've hurt the ones who cared.
One by one
No loving heart was spared.

I've been a wild and restless man
But still a man who needs a wife.
That was my dream and now it seems
You've taken all my life.

For as long as I could
My intentions were good.
I assumed my affairs
Would be fine.

But I know very well
There's a long road to hell
That's been paved with
Intentions like mine.

All my life
I've paid for my mistakes.
After a while
The strongest spirit breaks.

I've had heartache and pain
That cut me deeper than a knife.
Ah, but those days are done
'cause you're the one
I've wanted all my life

And I know very well
There's a long road to hell
That's been paved with
Intentions like mine.

All my life
My stars were surely crossed.
Now and then
I missed the love I lost.

But all that changed
The day you said you'd be my wife.
Who could have known
That finding you would only take me
All my life.



All comments from YouTube:

Karen Cyr

I met him in Boston. He was so down to earth and I was able to get his autograph. Thrilled back then..-

Carol Glynn

I like this song...It's where I'm at right now & where I've been except for the ending...still waiting... Billy has always had a way of speaking to me through his lyrics. Never met the man, but have been a fan since the 70's & have been to countless concerts. Always looking for music he's created, but maybe not yest released.

Andreas Hoppe

Agreed, he's always telling stories through his lyrics. It's incredible. Stories full of wisdom…

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Joe Scanlon

LOVE THIS SONG!!!

Tomoko Kuroki

This song comes to my mind when I think of crooners. I know some people don't like it, but it's a dang good pastiche of Sinatra/Cole/Martin/etc, fitting of his aging self at the time. Glad he gave us one more song for his discography.

MargeM304

Perfect song for a mature couple’s wedding first dance.

Peter Mondini

THIS SONG WILL LAST FOREVER !!!

wesley Ryan

Great singer,one of my favorite,great song,yes!there is a touch of old,gone but not forgotten Frank Sinatra.

Ron Freilich

All my life
I've searched this whole world through.
Try as I might
To find someone like you.

Years drifted by
But it was always on my mind.
I didn't know just how long I'd go
Until I ran out of time.

All my life
I've hurt the ones who cared.
One by one
No loving heart was spared.

I've been a wild and restless man
But still a man who needs a wife.
That was my dream and now it seems
You've taken all my life.

For as long as I could
My intentions were good.
I assumed my affairs
Would be fine.

But I know very well
There's a long road to hell
That's been paved with
Intentions like mine.

All my life
I've paid for my mistakes.
After a while
The strongest spirit breaks.

I've had heartache and pain
That cut me deeper than a knife.
Ah, but those days are done
'cause you're the one
I've wanted all my life

And I know very well
There's a long road to hell
That's been paved with
Intentions like mine.

All my life
My stars were surely crossed.
Now and then
I missed the love I lost.

But all that changed
The day you said you'd be my wife.
Who could have known
That finding you would only take me
All my life.

Lord Garmadon259

What a great coda to his career.

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