Honesty
Billy Joel Lyrics


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If you search for tenderness
It isn't hard to find
You can have the love you need to live
But if you look for truthfulness
You might just as well be blind
It always seems to be so hard to give

Honesty is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what I need from you

I can always find someone
To say they sympathize
If I wear my heart out on my sleeve
But I don't want some pretty face
To tell me pretty lies
All I want is someone to believe

Honesty is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what I need from you

I can find a lover
I can find a friend
I can have security until the bitter end
Anyone can comfort me
With promises again
I know, I know

When I'm deep inside of me
Don't be too concerned
I won't ask for nothin' while I'm gone
But when I want sincerity
Tell me where else can I turn
'Cause you're the one I depend upon

Honesty is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue




Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what I need from you

Overall Meaning

The song "Honesty" by Billy Joel is a reflection on the difficulty in finding truthfulness in relationships. The opening lines suggest that one can easily find tenderness and love, but truthfulness is a rare quality to come across. The songwriter points out that people are often hesitant to be honest and true, and that it is difficult to give someone the truth even when they ask for it. The chorus reiterates the loneliness of honesty and the rarity of the trait in the world.


The second verse expresses the songwriter's desire for someone who believes in him, rather than just sympathizing with him. He wants someone who is truthful and sincere, rather than someone who tells him pretty lies. He clarifies that he can find lovers and friends, but honesty is what he needs most from his partner. The bridge hints that the songwriter is a private person, but when he wants someone to hear him out and believe him, he turns to his partner.


The song as a whole communicates the importance of honesty in relationships and the difficulty in finding it. The songwriter wants someone who is truthful and sincere, who will believe him and not just offer sympathy. He recognizes that honesty is a lonely word and that people are often untrue, but he depends on his partner to be there for him when he needs someone to turn to.


Line by Line Meaning

If you search for tenderness
If you're looking for love and affection


It isn't hard to find
It's not difficult to find someone who will show you kindness and compassion


You can have the love you need to live
There are people out there who can provide you with the love you need to be happy and fulfilled


But if you look for truthfulness
However, if you want someone who will be honest with you


You might just as well be blind
It's hard to find someone who is truly honest, so it can feel like you're searching blindly


It always seems to be so hard to give
People find it difficult to be truthful because the truth can be hard to hear and admit


Honesty is such a lonely word
Being honest can be isolating because it's hard to find others who will be honest with you


Everyone is so untrue
Many people are not truthful, which makes it even harder to find someone who will be honest with you


Honesty is hardly ever heard
People don't always feel comfortable sharing their true thoughts and feelings


And mostly what I need from you
The singer is specifically asking for honesty from the person he's addressing


I can always find someone
The singer knows he can always find someone to provide him with comfort


To say they sympathize
People will often offer sympathy and compassion


If I wear my heart out on my sleeve
If he's open about his feelings


But I don't want some pretty face
But he doesn't want someone who will just tell him what he wants to hear


To tell me pretty lies
He wants someone who will be truthful, even if it's not what he wants to hear


All I want is someone to believe
The singer wants someone he can trust and who will be honest with him


I can find a lover
He can find someone to have a romantic relationship with


I can find a friend
He can find someone to be his friend


I can have security until the bitter end
He can have a sense of security in his relationships


Anyone can comfort me
Anyone can offer him comfort


With promises again
People often make promises they can't keep


I know, I know
The singer is aware of this pattern


When I'm deep inside of me
When he's introspective and contemplative


Don't be too concerned
He doesn't want anyone to worry about him


I won't ask for nothin' while I'm gone
He won't ask for anything while he's absent


But when I want sincerity
But when he wants someone to be genuine with him


Tell me where else can I turn
He's asking the person he's addressing to be honest with him


'Cause you're the one I depend upon
He's stating that he's depending on this person to be truthful with him


Honesty is such a lonely word
The song title is repeated to emphasize that honesty can be isolating


Everyone is so untrue
Again emphasizing that many people are not truthful


Honesty is hardly ever heard
Reiterating that people don't always feel comfortable sharing their true thoughts and feelings


And mostly what I need from you
A clear request to the person he's addressing to be honest with him




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Songtrust Ave, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Billy Joel

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@user-nm1he9ec1u

If you search for tenderness
It isn't hard to find
You can have the love you need to live
But if you look for truthfulness
You might just as well be blind
It always seems to be so hard to give
Honesty is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what I need from you
I can always find someone
To say they sympathize
If I wear my heart out on my sleeve
But I don't want some pretty face
To tell me pretty lies
All I want is someone to believe
Honesty is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what I need from you
I can find a lover
I can find a friend
I can have security until the bitter end
Anyone can comfort me
With promises again
I know, I know
When I'm deep inside of me
Don't be too concerned
I won't ask for nothin' while I'm gone
But when I want sincerity
Tell me where else can I turn
'Cause you're the one I depend upon
Honesty is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what I need from you



All comments from YouTube:

@michaeltanon-jl9dt

Who's in 2024?

@elianagomes6268

Eu, sempre gostei dessa música.

@MALTESEFALCON1

Trump 24

@Tomedu2021

🙋🏻‍♂️

@moonturner7617

Me trajo un capitulo de Succession 🥴

@katehudson6490

Me….still true

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@miltongamez6908

Honestly still brings back memories in January 2024.... 😢

@BelindaBaites

THANK you for sharing.
How bout in January 1978. We all remember every note

@user-kh2yx8rq8h

幼い頃にこの曲が大好きでした。子供ながらに英語も分からないのになぜか胸が切なくなるような締め付けられるような感覚がありました。本当に名曲です。私の中でずっとこの曲は生きています。

@Doctor_Sound

Согласен на все 100

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