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Billy Joel Lyrics


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Well, we all have a face
That we hide away forever
And we take them out and show ourselves
When everyone has gone

Some are satin, some are steel
Some are silk and some are leather
They're the faces of the stranger
But we love to try them on

Well, we all fall in love
But we disregard the danger
Though we share so many secrets
There are some we never tell

Why were you so surprised
That you never saw the stranger?
Did you ever let your lover see
The stranger in yourself?

Don't be afraid to try again
Every one goes south
Every now and then
You've done it, why can't someone else?

You should know by now
You've been there yourself
Once, I used to believe
I was such a great romancer

Then, I came home to a woman
That I could not recognize
When I pressed her for a reason
She refused to even answer
It was then, I felt the stranger
Kick me right between the eyes

Well, we all fall in love
But we disregard the danger
Though we share so many secrets
There are some we never tell

Why were you so surprised
That you never saw the stranger
Did you ever let your lover see
The stranger in yourself?

Don't be afraid to try again
Everyone goes south
Every now and then
You've done it why can't someone else?

You should know by now
You've been there yourself
You may never understand
How the stranger is inspired

But he isn't always evil
And he isn't always wrong
Though you drown in good intentions
You will never quench the fire




You'll give in to your desire
When the stranger comes along

Overall Meaning

The theme of the song 'The Stranger,' written by Billy Joel, is about how each one of us has a hidden face that we keep hidden from the public. The song talks about how we all have different faces that we put on at different times, and some of them are satin while others are steel, silk and leather. We love to try on these faces of strangers as they allow us to be someone different from who we usually are. The lyrics report a failure in communication between two people who are supposed to be in love, and they reveal how one can never truly know everything about someone, no matter how much they think they do.


The song is about how people face changes over time and how they react to different situations. It also highlights how human beings continually fall in love with new people, even though they know there is always a danger associated with that. The song talks about how some people keep secrets and how there are some secrets that we never tell anyone. It stresses the fact that you should never be afraid to try again, and everyone goes through hard times.


Line by Line Meaning

Well, we all have a face
Everyone has a side of themselves that they keep hidden from others


That we hide away forever
This side of ourselves is something we keep hidden, sometimes even from ourselves, forever


And we take them out and show ourselves
Occasionally, we reveal this 'hidden' side of ourselves to others when we feel safe to do so, when no one is around to judge us


When everyone has gone
We only reveal this 'hidden' side of ourselves when there is no risk of anyone else 'discovering' us


Some are satin, some are steel
Our hidden sides can be different for each individual, some being softer and more delicate ('satin') and others being tougher and stronger ('steel')


Some are silk and some are leather
Just like the previous line, our hidden sides can take many different forms and can be rough ('leather') or smooth ('silk')


They're the faces of the stranger
These hidden sides can create a sense of unfamiliarity or even estrangement in ourselves and others


But we love to try them on
Despite this sense of unfamiliarity or estrangement, we often relish the opportunity to experience these hidden sides of ourselves


Well, we all fall in love
Everyone experiences love at some point in their life


But we disregard the danger
Despite knowing the potential risks and consequences of love, we still pursue it


Though we share so many secrets
In relationships, we often share a lot of personal information and experiences with our partner


There are some we never tell
However, there are some things that we keep hidden from our partner, even in a close relationship


Why were you so surprised
The singer is asking why someone was surprised to find that their partner had a 'hidden' side of themselves that they were unaware of


That you never saw the stranger?
The 'stranger' in this context refers to the partner's hidden side that the singer is surprised to discover


Did you ever let your lover see
The singer is asking if the person ever allowed their partner to see their own hidden side


The stranger in yourself?
The 'stranger in yourself' is referring to the person's own hidden side that they keep hidden from others


Don't be afraid to try again
The artist is urging the listener not to be afraid to pursue love again, even if they have experienced heartbreak in the past


Everyone goes south
The singer is acknowledging that everyone experiences difficult times ('going south') in their life


Every now and then
These difficult times can happen periodically


You've done it, why can't someone else?
The artist is saying that the listener has overcome difficult times before, so they are capable of doing so again


You should know by now
The artist is implying that the listener should be aware of their own ability to overcome challenges


You've been there yourself
The artist is suggesting that the listener has experienced difficult times in their life before


Once, I used to believe
The singer is expressing that they used to believe something different, before experiencing what they are currently discussing


I was such a great romancer
The artist is saying that they used to be great at wooing their partner or being romantic


Then, I came home to a woman
The singer is describing a specific incident in their own life where their personal relationship changed


That I could not recognize
The singer is acknowledging that their partner changed in some way that they were unable to identify or understand


When I pressed her for a reason
The singer is describing their own attempt to understand why their partner changed


She refused to even answer
The artist's partner did not respond to their attempts to communicate or understand


It was then, I felt the stranger
The artist is acknowledging that this event caused them to feel a sense of unfamiliarity or strange behavior in their partner


Kick me right between the eyes
This is an idiom that means the event was unexpected and extremely painful


You may never understand
The singer is acknowledging that some things in life may never be fully understood or explained


How the stranger is inspired
The 'stranger' refers to a hidden side of oneself, and the artist is discussing how this side is created or influenced


But he isn't always evil
The artist is suggesting that this hidden side may not always be negative or harmful ('evil')


And he isn't always wrong
Similarly, the artist is suggesting that this hidden side may also not always be incorrect or negative


Though you drown in good intentions
The singer is warning that sometimes having good intentions can cause more harm than good


You will never quench the fire
The artist is suggesting that once the 'fire' of a particular emotion or feeling is lit, it cannot be extinguished


You'll give in to your desire
The singer is saying that eventually, most people will give in to their desires, no matter how hard they try to fight them


When the stranger comes along
The 'stranger' in this case refers to a moment or situation where the hidden side of oneself is revealed or expressed




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Comments from YouTube:

Riccardo Angeli

Fenomenale Billy Joel

Will Liang

thanks for these as well. had no idea he's so funny! loved the elves coming out in the head at night analogy

Beni Ran

@kattatonic1 exactly same with me. Thank you

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