Only A Man
Billy Joel Lyrics


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Only a man whose broken can appreciate the awful thing I feel
Only a man whose world is always real can ever know
And who could understand the all consuming pain
Only a man whose weeping in the rain knows where to go

And it's not easy
When you realize that you are on your own
No no, it's not easy
When you face the thought of living all alone

Only a man who wanders through the emptiness through every passing day
This is the man whose eyes know what to see and what to say
And who could ever know the feeling in my heart
Only a man whose hopes and dreams are broken all apart

And it's not easy
When you reach out in the dark to touch a face
No no, it's not easy
When instead you touch a pillow in her place

Na na na na na na na na
Na na na na na na na na na na
Na na na na na na na na na na
Na na na na na na na na
Na na na na na na na na na

And it's not easy
When you think about the way she combs her hair
No no, it's not easy
When the memory of her is everywhere

Only a man who lies awake and wonders will he never smile again
And this is the only man whose lonely nights can never end
And if you want to know what kind of man he'll be
Oh listen my friend I'll tell you all you'll have to know is me

And it's not easy, no no, it's not easy




Oh, it's not easy, why, no, why, well it's not easy
No, tell me, no, no, no

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Billy Joel's "Only a Man" are a reflection of the pain one feels after experiencing a heartbreak. The song talks about how only a man who has been broken and who lives in the real world can truly understand the all-consuming pain and loneliness that lingers after a relationship ends. The sense of emptiness that one experiences is also present, as only a man who wanders through the emptiness of life knows what to see and say. The song speaks about feeling lost and alone, reaching out in the dark only to find a pillow instead of the person that was once there.


The lyrics of the song are powerful as they convey the intensity of the emotions that one feels after a breakup. The repetition of the line "No no, it's not easy" emphasizes how difficult it is to deal with heartbreak and move on. The use of the word "only" on several occasions emphasizes how rare it is to find someone who truly understands what one is going through.


In conclusion, Billy Joel's "Only a Man" is a powerful song that reflects the pain and heartbreak that one feels after a relationship ends. The lyrics are a reflection of the myriad emotions that one can experience, such as loneliness, emptiness, and the difficulty in moving on.


Line by Line Meaning

Only a man whose broken can appreciate the awful thing I feel
The feeling of being broken is necessary to understand the depth of pain someone else is experiencing


Only a man whose world is always real can ever know
Those who deal with reality and its hardships can truly comprehend the struggles of others


And who could understand the all consuming pain
Finding someone who can empathize with the extent of emotional pain is a daunting task


Only a man whose weeping in the rain knows where to go
One who has felt profound sadness is the only person who knows how to cope with it


And it's not easy When you realize that you are on your own
Being alone in hard times is a difficult reality to face


Only a man who wanders through the emptiness through every passing day
One who navigates through the void of loneliness on a daily basis is the only person who can truly empathize


This is the man whose eyes know what to see and what to say
Their experience has given them the ability to perceive the emotions of others and respond appropriately


And who could ever know the feeling in my heart
Finding someone who truly comprehends the tangled bundle of emotions inside is next to impossible


Only a man whose hopes and dreams are broken all apart
Having one's aspirations dashed furthers their understanding of life's difficulties


And it's not easy When you reach out in the dark to touch a face
Reaching out for comfort, but instead encountering emptiness, exacerbates feelings of loneliness


No no, it's not easy When instead you touch a pillow in her place
The void left by departed loved ones is acutely felt in the little reminders of their absence


And it's not easy When you think about the way she combs her hair
Simple memories of the departed can trigger overwhelming emotions of sadness and loneliness


When the memory of her is everywhere
Memories of the departed are omnipresent, making the journey towards closure a challenging one


Only a man who lies awake and wonders will he never smile again
The fleeting thought of never feeling happiness again is a common one, especially among those dealing with heartbreak


And this is the only man whose lonely nights can never end
The loneliness eats at them and they cannot find solace or release from their emotions, making their pain perpetual


And if you want to know what kind of man he'll be Oh listen my friend I'll tell you all you'll have to know is me
The only way to truly understand the depth of pain someone is experiencing is to listen to their story and empathize with their experience


And it's not easy, no no, it's not easy Oh, it's not easy, why, no, why, well it's not easy No, tell me, no, no, no
Reflecting on the hurdles of heartbreak is not an easy feat, and the lyrics encapsulate the pain and isolation of the experience




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