But Not For Me
Bing Crosby Lyrics


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They're writing songs of love, but not for me.
A lucky star's above, but not for me.
With love to lead the way
I've found more clouds of gray
Than any Russain play could guarantee.
I was a fool to fall and get that way,
Heigh-ho! Alas! And also, lack-a-day!
Although I can't dismiss the mem'ry of his kiss,
I guess he's mot for me.

He's knocking on a door, but not for me.
He'll plan a two by four, but not for me.
I know that love's a game;
I'm puzzled, just the same,
Was I the moth or flame?
I'm all at sea.
It all began so well, but what an end!
This is the time a feller needs a friend,




When ev'ry happy plot ends with the marriage knot,
And there's no knot for me.

Overall Meaning

In Bing Crosby's song "But Not For Me," the lyrics describe the feelings of someone who finds themselves alone despite others finding love. The singer laments that despite songs being written about love, they are not written for them. They point out that although a lucky star may be above, it is not shining down on them. They have found more clouds of gray than any Russian play, indicating that their experience with love has been more sorrowful than joyful.


The singer acknowledges that they were foolish to fall in love and get carried away because the object of their affections is not interested in them. The memory of their love remains, but the singer knows that it cannot come to fruition. The object of their affection is knocking on a door, but not for them; they plan a future, but not with the singer. The singer is puzzled about whether they were the moth or the flame, indicating they are unsure if they were the one pursuing love or the one being pursued.


The lyrics continue, speaking to the disappointment of a failed romance. The singer knows that love is a game, yet they are still heartbroken that their relationship has come to an end. They need a friend to help them through this difficult time. Despite seeing others getting married and starting their lives together, the singer knows that there is no knot for them, meaning they will not be tying the knot in marriage with their love interest.


Line by Line Meaning

They're writing songs of love, but not for me.
People are writing songs about love, but none of them are for me. I do not have a lover or partner to dedicate a love song to.


A lucky star's above, but not for me.
There may be a lucky star shining above, but it doesn't seem to be shining on me. I am not lucky in love or life in general.


With love to lead the way I've found more clouds of gray Than any Russain play could guarantee.
Despite being guided by love, I have found more sadness and disappointment than any Russian playever could guarantee. Love has not brought me much happiness.


I was a fool to fall and get that way, Heigh-ho! Alas! And also, lack-a-day! Although I can't dismiss the mem'ry of his kiss, I guess he's mot for me.
I feel foolish for falling in love and ending up hurt. While I cannot forget the memory of his kiss, I know deep down that he is not the one for me.


He's knocking on a door, but not for me. He'll plan a two by four, but not for me. I know that love's a game; I'm puzzled, just the same, Was I the moth or flame? I'm all at sea.
Someone may be pursuing love, but not with me. They may have plans and intentions, but they don't involve me. I am confused about this game of love, wondering if I am the one chasing after love or if I am the object of someone else's affection. I am lost and unsure of where I stand.


It all began so well, but what an end! This is the time a feller needs a friend, When ev'ry happy plot ends with the marriage knot, And there's no knot for me.
Things started off well, but it all ended badly. This is the time when someone like me needs a friend, someone to talk to or support me. It seems like everybody else is finding someone to commit to and get married to, but not me.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: George Gershwin, Ira Gershwin

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