How Important Can It Be
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How Important can it be
That I tasted other lips?
That was long before you came to me
With the wonder of your kiss
So the story got around
Of na old romance and me
But it happened oh! so long ago
How Important cant it be?
Mine was a young and a foolish heart
Seeking love at ev'ry turn
But I have grown so much wiser now
Even foolish hearts can learn
Let the past just fade away
Why get lost in yesterday?




The important thing is here and now
And our love is here to stay

Overall Meaning

In Bing Crosby’s song “How Important Can It Be,” the singer reflects on a previous relationship in which he had kissed and loved other women before finding the “wonder” of his current partner’s kiss. The story of his past romance and indiscretions has spread, but he asks how important it can be now that he has found happiness and love in the present.


The lyrics suggest that the singer has matured and learned from his past, as his “foolish” heart has become wiser. He urges the listener to let go of the past and focus on the present, reminding them that the important thing is that they are happy and in love now.


The song touches on themes of forgiveness, growth, and the idea that our past experiences shape who we are but do not define us. It offers a message of hope and optimism, encouraging listeners to leave behind mistakes and focus on the good that is in their lives currently.


Line by Line Meaning

How Important can it be
How much value do we give


That I tasted other lips?
That I experienced other love interests?


That was long before you came to me
That was prior to your love coming into my life


With the wonder of your kiss
With the amazing sensation of your kiss


So the story got around
So the rumor spread


Of na old romance and me
About a previous romance and me


But it happened oh! so long ago
But it occurred many years ago


Mine was a young and a foolish heart
I was foolish and immature in love


Seeking love at ev'ry turn
Looking for love at every opportunity


But I have grown so much wiser now
But I have become much smarter these days


Even foolish hearts can learn
Even inexperienced hearts can learn from their mistakes


Let the past just fade away
Let the previous experiences be forgotten


Why get lost in yesterday?
Why dwell on the past?


The important thing is here and now
The essential matter is this moment


And our love is here to stay
And our love will last forever




Lyrics © Kanjian Music, CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Bennie Benjamin, George David Weiss

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@ModernBingFan

Here’s some quotes left out of the video.

Mary Frances Crosby, Bing's only daughter from his second family:
“After Gary’s book came out, we were having lunch and he felt the need to talk to me about it. I didn’t bring it up & he said ‘You know, it didn’t really go down that way. I just….you know, they said it would be a good idea – it would sell a lot of books.’ I just remember looking at him and thinking ‘you ****!’. How could you do that to your Dad, to your family, to his legacy? And as a family we just figured the more we left it alone the sooner it would go away and of course, in retrospect, that was a huge, incredible mistake, because it’s one of the that things people think of when his name comes up. Not this incredible legacy of good deeds and beautiful music, but ‘he’s the guy who hit his kid’”

Another from Mary Frances:
"I had lunch with Gary right after he wrote and released the book. And Gary said to me that the publishers had told him ‘the worse it was the more books would sell’ and he was very clear about why he did it and what he did. And years later he apologised profusely to us but by then the damage was done.”

Steven Crosby, Gary Crosby's son:
"This was one man's view of his life. And this one man, whom I loved dearly, struggled with alcoholism and worked through a lot of demons in his life. You've got to keep in mind that he was the oldest son of an Irish father who was one of the most sought-after people in the world. My dad had some tough times with his father, and I think his father did the best he could raising four very strong-willed boys."

Phillip Crosby, one of the twins from Bing's first family:
"My dad was not the monster my lying brother said he was, He was strict, but my father never beat us black and blue and my brother Gary was a vicious, no-good liar for saying so. I have nothing but fond memories of dad, going to studios with him, family vacations at our cabin in Idaho, boating and fishing with him. To my dying day, I'll hate Gary for dragging dad's name through the mud. He wrote it [Going My Own Way] out of greed. He wanted to make money and knew that humiliating our father and blackening his name was the only way he could do it. He knew it would generate a lot of publicity and that was the only way he could get his ugly, no-talent face on television and in the newspapers. My dad was my hero. I loved him very much. And he loved all of us too, including Gary. He was a great father."

Barbara Cosentino, Gary Crosby's first wife:
"I do not know if what's in the book is true but he never said anything to me about whippings. I think it all got a little out of hand. I certainly never witnessed
anything between him and his father. I couldn't believe it when I read the book because it just didn't sound like Gary. I can't pinpoint it. Gary said to me
before I read it, 'It's not the same book I wrote.'"

Kathryn Crosby, Bing's second wife:
"The whole thing was in Gary's head. The book is a document from a creature who's full of hate. Gary has been telling everybody these things since he was a
little boy. Gary has a problem. He needed a great more love than Bing could give him. Some people cannot share love. To share love with the rest of the world was intolerable for Gary…..The book was published as an exploitive piece to make money. But yes, I'm sure Gary said all those things (the book was actually written by Ross Firestone).There's no limit to what Gary will say about anyone or anything. I just know no friend of Bing's could have written a piece like this. It's almost like those demon movies when children are talking filth. What a shame it is. Bing thought Gary had a good voice and a good chance at a career. Gary can be utterly charming. He spent three months with me last year recovering from a heart-bypass operation. But he must never be allowed to do this to his father."

Lindsay Crosby, Bing's youngest son from his first family:
"He was a good father. It was a happy childhood. We had our differences, but we were raised to respect our parents, to do what they said. If we didn't, we got punished."

Dennis Crosby, the other of the twins, said he had a "good childhood….It was strict, but I didn't see any of that (violent beatings) around me.” Dennis also denied that his father drove his Mother Dixie to drink and had other women: "He had to do what he had to do because of the business he was in. That involved going away. She didn't like that and she didn't want to go, but that was between them. Yes, she was an alcoholic, a nice one. I liked her," said Dennis. As for the book, "It's Gary's business. If people want to read it and believe it, it's their own prerogative. I don't hold grudges. I think Gary is fine except he has one heck of a temper. If he could control that he'd be fine."

Harry Crosby, Bing's youngest son from his second family:
"I don’t know where it came from. I only know my own experience with my dad which was one of love, ¬ support, friendship and respect,” he says. My dad never pushed us into music or entertainment – we were exposed to it and I loved working together.”

Here's what Bing's youngest son from his second family, Nathanial, had to say, “Dad was a very humble man and demanded that we have the same humility. Privately he was shy and was determined that we didn’t grow up to be Hollywood brats. In the summer he had his children working 14-hour days on his ranches baling alfalfa and vaccinating cattle. It was hard manual labour. I always longed for summer to end so I could go back to school. I learned golf so that I could spend more time with him. Dad’s happiest days were any that were spent on a golf course. And the happiest times of my childhood were spent on the golf course with him. I was very aware of his mortality… and wanted to spend every moment with him that I could. From the age of 12 I’d wake at 6am to spend time with him as he sat with insomnia and a pot of coffee reading the newspaper. He wanted to enjoy his golf, not lecture me,” says Nathaniel, who went on to play hundreds of rounds with his father and began competing in tournaments. “Dad would watch me through binoculars from a fairway away to avoid attracting a crowd. I think dad’s legacy has been neglected and there is so much for new generations to discover – his hundreds of hits, his movies and TV shows.”

I’d also like to add that Bing did not stop singing in his jazz style due to his voice deepening, in fact there are many jazz recordings of him after his voice deepened. The main reason was that the record producer, Jack Kapp, had his do more ballads and expand the genres of songs he recorded to basically become the first popular singer. It just so happened to coincide with his voice deepening as Bing joined Decca, Kapp’s new label, in 1934 and by 1938 he sounded very similar to the voice we know today.



@gerrygeorge1468

We were all beaten like that; it was ever-thus - mainly by our mothers, Nannies, Governesses and Schoomarms - in those days ! In my near-Gothic, scalding experiences, and that of my peers, female-floggers more than men; mostly, were culpable of it !

Indeed, at home and school it was women who clearly-enjoyed what they did, as witness the gleeful expressions on their faces, and the triumphant attendant-parlance that they used - on the slightest cooked-up pretext - to intimidate their young, vulnerable-and-trembling repentant male victims; that going for mothers, step-mothers and school-marms...this, especially before WWI, when history will prove that they possessed carte blanche with impunity to strip-and-sadistically-thrash, mainly *boys-only*; and brazenly-so, in mixed-gender classrooms, to the evident titterng-coyly-concealed delight of the female pupils !

In retrospect, I forgive these culpable-crones; most of them, crushed-velvet sheathed, lecherous Harridans in Marcel-waves and Eugene Perms, because what I think was going on here - especially with covertly, routinely-battered housewives, or abused women in failed marriages - was that in embarrassing and thrashing those vulnerable little boys, they were getting-back at their often bombastic and unacceptably-cruel, over-demanding and possessive husbands; many of whom were nothing more than callous jailers !

Sadly, most of their naive juvenile quarries never realised that, so most of them reportedly took their bottled-up, self-righteous indignation with them, to the grave.

Dixie Deane - Bing's first wife - as the first Crosby-kid's, heavily-embroidered biog shows - did her fair-share of the stripping and thrashing, so suspend your attacks, if only attributed to the always, in-house sullen Bing Crosby; until, that is, you have researched that purple-penned aspect of the post-mortem Crosby reportage. Dixe - a beautiful woman and an exemplary stage-performer - suffered the most, from being near-permanently ignored and crushed by her much-adored hubby, and that evinces what I have cited above; this clearly absolving Dixie's failing, as a steadily-worsening chronic alcoholic !

That said, do please check-out with any now really-old lady, who will substantiate what I have related here, on the beating-issue, since, truth-be-told, that was standard-procedure in my WWII boyhood, and I reckon (although some folks are now *in denial*), that savage practise still persisted until 1965 -- by which time such unforgivable abuse was legally-outlawed - where until then, that was par-for-the-course in many English, Australian, South African, New Zealand, Netherlands, and French homes; not to mention, in the Third World, until a few years ago !

The outbreak of WWII, in Germany put a stop to it, but - before then - Deutschland unequivocally-held the Blue Ribband for this brand of abuse - at its excessively-sadistic worst ! Adolph Hitler was repeatedly and sadistically thrashed by his Local Government Officer father, while his heroic mother, used to shield her traumatised son with her own body, and got punched in the face and bosom, and kicked in the process. No small wonder that this terrorised Fuher-in-Waiting was palpably-insecure, and emotonally-unbalanced as a result !

Indeed, as all the woodcuts and early sketches - and later photographs - will readily-evince the undeniable-fact that such castigations on defenceless children, had been in more than common practise from the mid-16th Century until the outbreak of WWII; by which time it ceased for the duration, and was never permitted to raise its ugly-head again !



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@GrungeHQ

What's your favorite Bing Crosby song?

@crimson2641

Sam's song with Dean Martin

@katiedeluise2345

White Christmas.The classic one .

@Bigbadwhitecracker

@Evil Villian I prefer the version with Gary Crosby

@thomasewing2656

O Holy Night.

@terrykelly6113

Hawaiian Christmas day

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@Insomnious8

Mary Crosby has for years tried to rehabilitate her father's image and tried to shift the focus to Dixie's alcoholism. The sons from Bing's first marriage had warm memories of their mother as loving and nurturing. They had memories of ritualized beatings from Bing that included being beaten with a plank or a cane until they would bleed.

@normangabbard8816

From the time of my Childhood ..
Bing Crosby has filled the air with His songs of Christmas.
To learn of the heartaches His Family and himself went through is heartbreaking.
What a Guy .

@itravisoni

He treated His Son's with Dixie differently from the other kids from second marriage.

@nancywood9531

I believe Bing Crosby was very giving to his sons. its hard to try to help your grown children who are alcoholic and have emotional problems. Gary Crosby bought gas at my father's Standard Station in Ottumwa Iowa as he traveled . He used Bings Stardard Oil gas credit card. He had only great things to say about his dad. It most likely shattered his older boys when he started having a second family...and had more time and money to spend on them than what he had as their father. Jealousy and feeling of rejection in his will would destroy them I'm sure. It was a sad thing. Noone really knos fact from rumor except them.

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