Family
Björk Lyrics
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Where I can pay respects
For the death of my family?
Show some respect
Between the three of us
There is the mother and the child
Then there is the father and the child
No triangle of love
So where do I go to make an offering?
I fall on my knees
Lay my flowers (burn the incense)
Light the candles
So where do I go to make an offering
To mourn our miraculous triangle?
Father, mother, child
Father, mother, child
How will I sing us out of this sorrow?
Build a safe bridge for the child out of this danger
I raise a monument of love
There is a swarm of sound
Around our heads
And we can hear it
And we can get healed by it
It will relieve from the pain
It will make us a part of
This universe of solutions
This place of solutions
This location of solutions
Björk's song "Family" is a deeply personal and emotional reflection on the dissolution of her family unit. It speaks of the pain and confusion that come with the breaking apart of a family, and the need to find a way to mourn, honor, and heal. The song is structured around the idea of a triangle, representing the traditional family unit of a mother, father, and child, but with the absence of a loving relationship between the parents. The singer is left wondering where to turn to make an offering, as there seems to be no clear place for her to grieve the loss of her family.
The lyrics are rich with metaphors and imagery, evoking a sense of both darkness and hope. The idea of falling to one's knees, laying flowers, lighting candles, and burning incense suggests a religious or ceremonial act of mourning, while the desire to "sing us out of this sorrow" speaks of the power of music to heal and uplift. The image of a safe bridge is a symbol of hope, of finding a way to navigate the dangerous waters of life and protect the vulnerable child. The final stanza suggests a sense of interconnectedness and possibility, of being part of a universal solution that can ease the pain and bring healing.
Overall, "Family" is a poignant and powerful song, with lyrics that are both deeply personal and widely relatable. It speaks of loss, grief, and healing, and the importance of finding a way to honor the past and move forward with hope.
Line by Line Meaning
Is there a place
Is there somewhere that I can go
Where I can pay respects
To show my respect for my family members who have passed away
For the death of my family?
Because my family members have died
Show some respect
I want others to show respect as well
Between the three of us
Among the mother, father, and child in our family
There is the mother and the child
A relationship between a mother and her child
Then there is the father and the child
A relationship between a father and his child
But no man and a woman
However, there is no romantic relationship between a man and a woman in our family
No triangle of love
No love triangle exists in our family
So where do I go to make an offering?
Where can I go to make a tribute to my family members
I fall on my knees
I show my humility and emotion by falling on my knees
Lay my flowers (burn the incense)
I leave flowers and incense as an offering to my family members who have passed away
Light the candles
I light candles as a symbol of hope and love for my family members
How will I sing us out of this sorrow?
How can I express my sorrow about our family situation
Build a safe bridge for the child out of this danger
I will create a safe and nurturing environment for the child and protect them from any harm or danger that may come their way
I raise a monument of love
I create a lasting symbol of love to honor and remember our family
There is a swarm of sound
There is a collective energy or vibe created by the sounds around us
Around our heads
Surrounding us in a meaningful way
And we can hear it
We can sense and feel the positive energy around us
And we can get healed by it
It can help us heal emotionally and spiritually
It will relieve from the pain
It will alleviate our suffering
It will make us a part of
We will become connected to something larger than ourselves
This universe of solutions
A space where problems can be resolved
This place of solutions
A physical or mental location where solutions can be found
This location of solutions
A specific geographic or interpersonal location where solutions can be found
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Bjork Gudmundsdottir, Alejandro Ghersi
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
KELEO2000
Is there a place
Where I can pay respects
For the death of my family?
Show some respect
Between the three of us
There is the mother and the child
Then there is the father and the child
But no man and a woman
No triangle of love
So, where do I go
To make an offering?
I fall on my knees
Lay my flowers (Burn incense)
Light the candles
So, where do I go
To make an offering?
To mourn our miraculous triangle?
Father, mother, child
Father, mother, child
How will I sing us
Out of this sorrow?
Build a safe bridge
For the child out of this danger
I raise a monument of love
There is a swarm of sound
Around our heads
And we can hear it
And we can get healed by it
It will relieve us from the pain
It will make us a part of
This universe of solutions
This place of solutions
This location of solutions
Pâmela
Lyrics
Is there a place
Where I can pay respects
For the death of my family
Show some respect
Between the three of us
There is the mother and the child
Then there is the father and the child
But no man and a woman
No triangle of love
So where do I go
To make an offering
I fall on my knees
Lay my flowers
Light the candles
So where do I go
To make an offering
To mourn our miraculous triangle
Father, mother, child
Father, mother, child
How will I sing us
Out of this sorrow
Build a safe bridge
For the child
Out of this danger, danger
I raise a monument of love
There is a swarm of sound
Around our heads
And we can hear it
And we can get healed by it
It will relieve us from the pain
It would make us a part of it
This universe of solutions
This place of solutions
This location of solutions
Sabine Zigelstein
so many people have said her music is alien or otherworldly, yet this is the most human thing I've ever witnessed. I felt a rainbow of emotions and experiences
hiddenpenguin11
This! I feel the exact same way. When i listen to her music all my basic human emotions and instincts reorganize and get validated
LOS SOLES TRUNCOS PR
Me too.
Joshua Jackson
I feel all of her music expresses all kinds of things about being human at a primal level, then everyone calls her alien and I just think they’re missing the point completely.
Lola Rosa
completely agree!
inkajoo
We are alienated from ourselves from all the time we have spent trying to fool ourselves. To run from our responsibilities and the consequences of our actions as a species.
Valentinol Vigos
I think we all agree that the end of this song is fucking magical, breathtaking, trascendental. Those chords, and strings and her voice; the atmosphere it generates is so lovely, sad, nostalgic but encouraging at the same time. It makes me feel things that i never felt before, Björk is just magical; a mistic of sound and emotions from another dimension.
AND/OR/NOT
its so rooted on this planet! Makes it so good! Why do humans deny this?
Jeremiah Mason
I cry every time. Literally the only artist in this world to bring me to tears. I discovered her while serving in the US Navy on deployment. Bjork is very special to me. Her music has gotten me through so much. This album.......I truly felt the pain.
i shall remain calm
Björk is the reason I'm not afraid of pain. She made me feel strong in ways I didn't even ask for.