You're A Big Girl Now
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You're a big girl now
With a big girl's needs
And a big girl's dreams
And promises.

Why don't you accept yourself,
Accept your desires
And meet your needs,
Deny your problems?

And don't
Cry, cry, don't cry,
Oh, you're a big girl now.
It's so hard to be humble

When you know you're worth more
To live and learn
Is all we can hope for.
And attraction of pasts

Like the blindness of the summer sun
Oh, but what will you do,
Oh, when the rain comes through.
If it's to be then don't

Cry, cry, don't cry,
And don't
Cry, cry, don't cry.
Why don't you accept yourself,

Oh, accept your desires
And meet your needs,
Deny your problems?
If it's to be then don't

Cry, cry, don't cry,
Oh, you're a big girl now.
And don't
Cry, cry, don't cry,





Oh, you're a big girl now.
Don't cry.

Overall Meaning

In "You're A Big Girl Now," Black urges the song's protagonist to grow up and take charge of her life. The singer believes that the woman in question is capable of handling her own problems and suggests that she should take responsibility for her needs and desires rather than denying them. As someone who has lived and learned, Black recognizes the challenges that come with life, but also understands that each person must face these challenges and make the best of what they have.


The chorus of the song is particularly poignant, as Black echoes the sentiment that it's difficult to be humble when you know that you're worth more. Despite the hardships that life brings, Black reminds us that living and learning is all we can hope for. The reference to the "blindness of the summer sun" suggests that sometimes we must accept the good things in life for what they are, without letting them blind us to potential dangers or pitfalls.


Line by Line Meaning

You're a big girl now
You have grown up and it's time to take responsibility for your own life.


With a big girl's needs
You have desires and requirements that should be acknowledged and fulfilled.


And a big girl's dreams
You have aspirations that should be pursued with passion and determination.


And promises.
You made commitments that you should honor and keep.


Why don't you accept yourself,
You should embrace who you are and love yourself unconditionally.


Accept your desires
You should be honest with yourself about what you truly want and need in life.


And meet your needs,
You should take care of yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually.


Deny your problems?
You should confront your challenges and find solutions to overcome them instead of denying their existence.


And don't Cry, cry, don't cry, Oh, you're a big girl now.
You should be strong and face difficulties with courage because you are capable of handling them.


It's so hard to be humble When you know you're worth more
It's challenging to remain modest when you know your true value and potential.


To live and learn Is all we can hope for.
The best we can do in life is to continue to grow and gain new knowledge and experience.


And attraction of pasts Like the blindness of the summer sun
The allure of the past can be blinding and prevent us from moving forward in life.


Oh, but what will you do, Oh, when the rain comes through.
Challenges will inevitably arise, and it's important to be prepared to face them.


If it's to be then don't Cry, cry, don't cry,
If something is meant to happen, don't be deterred by setbacks or obstacles.


Why don't you accept yourself, Oh, accept your desires And meet your needs, Deny your problems?
This repetition emphasizes the importance of loving yourself, acknowledging your desires and needs, and confronting your challenges.


And don't Cry, cry, don't cry, Oh, you're a big girl now.
Once again, the message is to be strong and confident in your ability to handle whatever comes your way.


Don't cry.
This final line serves as a gentle reminder to stay strong and keep moving forward.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: COLIN VEARNCOMBE

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