You Don't Always Do What's Best For You
Black Lyrics


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Your tender-eyes me with those baby browns,
'Til I can't get around.
The fact that I still love you
And I'm not supposed to,

This is supposed to be over.
I'm not supposed to care.
I wanted not to
But you don't always do

What's best for you.
I no wanted to
But you don't always do
What's best for you.

What's best for you.
Was your first name "lover",
Was your second "nomore".
What the hell were we lovers for

Just to end up this way?
Now I feel that I can't go forward
And I can't go back.
And I wanted to

But you don't always do
What's best for you.
And I wanted to
But you don't always do

What's best for you,
What's best for you.
I curl up inside when I remember
All the times I was weak

And the drinks seem to fly
By like all passing years,
Buying dear and selling cheap,
Oh, selling cheap.

You tried to make me so jealous,
I resented your point of view.
I wanted not to
But you don't always do

What's best for you.
And I wanted to
But you don't always do,
You don't always do,

What's best for you.
And I wanted to
But you don't always do,




You don't always do,
What's best for you.

Overall Meaning

The song "You Don't Always Do What's Best For You" by Black is a compelling depiction of a difficult breakup. The lyrics describe the conflicting emotions that one can feel when they still love someone who they know is no good for them. The singer is torn between their feelings for their ex and the reality that they need to move on. Despite their desire to let go, they are unable to escape their emotions, and the memories of their past relationship continue to haunt them.


The song's lyrics repeatedly mention the phrase "you don't always do what's best for you," suggesting that the singer's ex is someone who struggles to make wise decisions. This indicates that the relationship was likely fraught with difficulties, and that the singer's feelings may be a result of trying to fix someone who is not fixable. The line "and the drinks seem to fly by like all passing years, buying dear and selling cheap" further emphasizes this point, suggesting that the singer may have been stuck in a cycle of unhealthy behavior.


Despite the challenging themes explored in the song, the melody is gentle and melancholic, providing a sense of acceptance and peace amid the heartbreak. It is a testament to Black's skills as a songwriter that they are able to evoke such complex emotions through simple and evocative lyrics.


Line by Line Meaning

Your tender-eyes me with those baby browns,
You look at me with such love and affection in your eyes that it's impossible for me to resist you.


'Til I can't get around.
Your gaze is so intense that I can't help but feel drawn towards you.


The fact that I still love you
Despite everything that's happened, I still have strong feelings of love for you.


And I'm not supposed to,
Society and my rational mind tell me that I shouldn't love you anymore, but my heart refuses to listen.


This is supposed to be over.
Our relationship was supposed to have ended, but the emotions and the memories remain.


I'm not supposed to care.
According to the logical course of action, I shouldn't feel any affection for you, but I can't help it.


I wanted not to
I wished that my feelings for you would disappear and I could move on with my life.


But you don't always do What's best for you.
However, our heart doesn't always take us in the direction of what is best for us.


Was your first name 'lover',
You were the person I called 'lover' in the past.


Was your second 'nomore'.
Now you're someone I can no longer be in love with.


What the hell were we lovers for
What was the purpose of us being in a romantic relationship when it has ended up like this?


Just to end up this way?
Was all of this pain and heartache really worth it?


Now I feel that I can't go forward
I feel lost and uncertain and don't know how to move on.


And I can't go back.
At the same time, I can't go back to the person I was before we met.


I curl up inside when I remember
When I recall what we've been through, it's like a part of me begins to shrink and collapse.


All the times I was weak
I am remembering all the moments when I was vulnerable and gave in to you.


And the drinks seem to fly By like all passing years,
Drinking has become a way to forget the pain and the time seems to be moving very fast.


Buying dear and selling cheap,
I made the mistake of valuing cheap thrills more than my own self-worth.


Oh, selling cheap.
I cheapened myself by settling for less than I deserved.


You tried to make me so jealous,
You deliberately tried to make me feel envious and insecure.


I resented your point of view.
Your behaviour made me angry and frustrated.


You don't always do What's best for you.
Despite our efforts to do the right thing, we don't always make choices that bring us happiness and fulfillment.


You don't always do, You don't always do, What's best for you.
We are all flawed and sometimes we end up doing things that we regret and that ultimately harm us.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: COLIN VEARNCOMBE

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