How Do You Tell a Child That Someone Has Died
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How do you tell a child that someone has died
Innocent visions of youth are only a lie
I tried tell and lord knows I tried
But any way you break it you'll just make em cry

Little Tommy, I have bad news for you today
The teacher you loved Mr. Peterson
Has sadly passed away
He was killed by a motorist in a drunken act of rage
Let em live on in your heart
Now we must turn the page

Little Suzy, your father has passed on
His love for you was relentless as it was strong
If only he knew he'd be gone so soon
He would have tried and spent more time
But he's on God's clock, not yours and mine




Keep him in your heart each and every day
And there he will live on and never fade away

Overall Meaning

The Black Lips's song "How Do You Tell a Child That Someone Has Died" is a poignant and emotional exploration of the difficulty of breaking the news of a loved one's death to a child. The lyrics express the agony of trying to find the right words to tell a child that their world has been shattered, while also acknowledging that no matter how delicately the news is delivered, there is no way to shield a child from the pain of loss. The song is a reflection of the human experience of grief and reminds us how fragile life is.


The song's title and lyrics were inspired by an experience that band member Cole Alexander had as a child. Alexander's father was a minister who frequently had to inform members of the congregation about the deaths of loved ones. In an interview with NPR, Alexander said that he remembered seeing his father struggle to find the right words to say to children who had lost someone, and that memory stuck with him.


The song's lyrics are raw and honest, and they capture the universal experience of grappling with loss. The lines "Innocent visions of youth are only a lie" and "Let em live on in your heart / Now we must turn the page" are particularly moving, conveying the bittersweet reality that life goes on, but that the memory of loved ones lives on too.


Line by Line Meaning

How do you tell a child that someone has died
How can you explain to an innocent young person that somebody they know has passed away?


Innocent visions of youth are only a lie
Children's innocent and pure ideas about the world are just ideals that are not always accurate and true.


I tried tell and lord knows I tried
I attempted to communicate the information, but now I'm not sure how to break it to them.


But any way you break it you'll just make em cry
No matter what method you employ to share the tragic news, it will always cause sadness and tears.


Little Tommy, I have bad news for you today
I have some terrible news to share with you today, Tommy.


The teacher you loved Mr. Peterson
Your beloved instructor, Mr. Peterson.


Has sadly passed away
Unfortunately, he has passed on and left this world.


He was killed by a motorist in a drunken act of rage
A drunk driver was responsible for his awful death.


Let em live on in your heart
Let Mr. Peterson's memory stay with you forever.


Now we must turn the page
Now we must move on from this terrible tragedy.


Little Suzy, your father has passed on
I'm sorry to inform you, Suzy, but your father has left this world.


His love for you was relentless as it was strong
He cared for you deeply and always expressed his love for you.


If only he knew he'd be gone so soon
If only he had an idea that he would leave us so soon.


He would have tried and spent more time
He would have spent more time with you if he only knew that he wasn't given much time.


But he's on God's clock, not yours and mine
His life is in God's hands, and we can't interfere with God's plan.


Keep him in your heart each and every day
Always remember him and never forget the love he had for you.


And there he will live on and never fade away
He will forever live on in your heart, and his memory will never fade.




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