Stranger
Black Lips Lyrics


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Hey pretty baby, why am I feeling so despised (despised)
I lay down to rest but my eyes are open wide (wide)
Jealousy’s so strong, gunna take me to my grave
Gunna keep on holding off and going to turn you into a slave (slave)
And now you gotta stop

Looking for a stranger (stranger), looking for me
Looking for a stranger (stranger), looking for me (me-me-me-me-me)
Looking for a stranger (stranger), looking for me
Looking for a stranger (stranger), looking for me

Your nose is like a tower, like the one in Lebanon (Lebanon)
Your breath smells like some flowers
65 queens and lady concubine (concubine)
Gotta keep you hanging around cause you gotta help drink my wine (wine)
And now you gotta stop

Looking for a stranger (stranger), looking for me
Looking for a stranger (stranger), looking for me (me-me-me-me-me)




Looking for a stranger (stranger), looking for me
Looking for a stranger (stranger), looking for me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to the Black Lips’ song Stranger are quite cryptic, but seem to be about jealousy and possessiveness in a relationship. The opening lines, “Hey pretty baby, why am I feeling so despised / I lay down to rest but my eyes are open wide,” suggest that the singer is struggling with feelings of mistrust and paranoia. He then declares that “jealousy’s so strong, gonna take me to my grave” and that he’s going to “keep on holding off and going to turn you into a slave.” This suggests that the singer is so consumed with jealousy that he’s willing to do whatever it takes to control his partner and prevent her from leaving him.


The chorus of the song, which repeats the phrase “Looking for a stranger (stranger), looking for me,” reinforces the idea that the singer is feeling alienated and disconnected from his partner, as if he’s searching for someone else to connect with. The second verse contains some more odd imagery, with the singer comparing his partner’s nose to a tower and her breath to flowers. He seems to view her as a sort of exotic object, referring to her as a “concubine” and saying that he needs her to help him drink his wine.


Overall, the lyrics to Stranger create a portrait of a toxic and possessive relationship, with the singer struggling to control his feelings of jealousy and pushing his partner away in the process.


Line by Line Meaning

Hey pretty baby, why am I feeling so despised (despised)
Addressing someone, questioning why the singer is experiencing such strong negative feelings.


I lay down to rest but my eyes are open wide (wide)
Despite trying to rest, the singer is still very alert and anxious.


Jealousy’s so strong, gunna take me to my grave
The intensity of the emotion of jealousy is unbearable for the singer.


Gunna keep on holding off and going to turn you into a slave (slave)
The artist will play hard-to-get to manipulate their love interest into being more devoted.


And now you gotta stop
The artist is giving a command, but the reason for this is unclear.


Looking for a stranger (stranger), looking for me
The singer is actively seeking out new experiences or relationships.


Your nose is like a tower, like the one in Lebanon (Lebanon)
The singer is complimenting their love interest's nose for being prominent and attractive, using a specific reference.


Your breath smells like some flowers
The artist is noting a pleasant scent about their love interest's breath.


65 queens and lady concubine (concubine)
This phrase is likely meant to show the love interest's power and desirability.


Gotta keep you hanging around cause you gotta help drink my wine (wine)
The artist expects their love interest to stick around and participate in their lifestyle or habits.




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