Stop Making This Hurt
Bleachers Lyrics


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Daniel puts the kids to bed
They're screaming, "Oh, the gods must be crazy"
Well, Jimmy's on the road tonight
She doesn't recognize her country
My father's in the room next door
Crying with his ma at sixty-five
Well, every time I close my eyes
I just see you written in big lights

You know what it says?

Stop making this hurt
And say goodbye like you mean it
Stop trying on this hurt
Just say goodbye like you mean it
(Just say goodbye like you mean it)

My mamma's in the house tonight
Tryna break free of New Jersey
While the kids are on the street
And they're crying, "Let me live in my country"
But me and Ray
We got the dream and a car, we're like free as the night
So how come every time I take a drive
I just see it written on street signs?

And you know what it says?

Stop making this hurt
And say goodbye like you mean it
Stop trying on this hurt
Just say goodbye like you mean it
(Just say goodbye like you mean it)

But if we take the sadness out of Saturday night
I wonder what we'll be left with, anything worth the fight?
I wanna run from the darkness, wanna shout at the light
It's coming over me now
Two, three, four, five
Oh God, we barely survived

Just say goodbye like you mean it

Stop making this hurt
Say goodbye like you mean it (say goodbye like you mean it)
Just say goodbye like you mean it
Stop making this hurt (say goodbye like you mean it)
Say goodbye like you mean it (say goodbye like you mean it)
Just say goodbye like you mean it

Come on, baby




Baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby
Stop making this hurt

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Bleachers' song Stop Making This Hurt delve into the complexities of life and relationships. The song depicts various individuals in situations in which they feel trapped and unable to move forward. Daniel is shown putting his kids to bed amidst thoughts of the gods and their potential craziness - perhaps suggesting that even the idea of divine intervention feels futile. Jimmy is on the road, disconnected from her country and her true identity. The singer's father is crying in his room with his mother, indicating feelings of helplessness and sadness.


The chorus of the song is a plea for closure and an end to the pain. The lyrics "Stop making this hurt" and "Say goodbye like you mean it" suggest that the pain being experienced is caused by a lack of sincerity or closure. The singer is seeking honesty and genuine closure in order to move forward.


The second verse describes the singer's personal experience of trying to break free and pursue a dream. Despite having a car and the freedom to pursue a better life, the singer is plagued with sadness. The street signs seem to taunt the singer with reminders of the things that are holding them back.


The song ends with a sense of urgency as the singer calls out to their beloved to stop causing pain and say goodbye genuinely. Overall, the song is an anthem for those who are seeking honesty and closure in order to move forward and overcome the obstacles that are holding them back.


Line by Line Meaning

Daniel puts the kids to bed
A father named Daniel is putting his children to bed.


They're screaming, "Oh, the gods must be crazy"
The children are making loud noises which make Daniel think they are screaming about something crazy.


Well, Jimmy's on the road tonight
A person named Jimmy is traveling on the road tonight.


She doesn't recognize her country
Jimmy's traveling companion does not feel familiar with the new place they are in.


My father's in the room next door
The singer's father is in the room next to his.


Crying with his ma at sixty-five
The singer's father is speaking to his mother while crying at the age of sixty-five.


Well, every time I close my eyes
The singer has a recurring thought that appears often.


I just see you written in big lights
This recurring thought is of someone they are attracted to and deeply attracted to.


Stop making this hurt
The singer wants the other person to stop doing something that causes them pain.


And say goodbye like you mean it
They want the other person to say goodbye to them in a meaningful way.


Stop trying on this hurt
The situation is causing the person pain, so they want the other person to stop trying so hard to make it work.


Just say goodbye like you mean it
If the other person wants to leave, they should do it properly, with intention.


My mamma's in the house tonight
The singer's mother is in the same house as them.


Tryna break free of New Jersey
The mother wants to live in a new location, outside of New Jersey.


While the kids are on the street
The singer's siblings are outside.


And they're crying, "Let me live in my country"
The siblings are upset and crying about wanting to live in their own familiar location.


But me and Ray
The singer is talking about someone named Ray.


We got the dream and a car, we're like free as the night
They both have a dream and a car, which makes them feel free.


So how come every time I take a drive
The singer questions why they feel trapped, despite having the freedom to drive anywhere.


I just see it written on street signs?
The thought of the other person keeps appearing in the singer's mind, even during leisure activities like driving.


But if we take the sadness out of Saturday night
If the sadness is removed from a typical night out on Saturdays...


I wonder what we'll be left with, anything worth the fight?
...the singer wonders if there would be anything left to strive for in that enjoyable event.


I wanna run from the darkness, wanna shout at the light
The singer feels like they are in a dark place and wants to escape it, to find happiness and light.


It's coming over me now
The overwhelming feeling of darkness and sadness is currently affecting the singer.


Two, three, four, five
The singer is counting, which could represent bringing a sense of control or structure to their anxious feeling.


Oh God, we barely survived
The singer thinks they barely made it through an especially difficult time.


Come on, baby
The singer wants the other person to make a change.


Baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby
Repeating the word 'baby' emphasizes the need for change by the other person.


Stop making this hurt
The sadness and emotional pain the situation causes needs to stop.


Say goodbye like you mean it (say goodbye like you mean it)
If the other person wants to leave, they should do it properly, with intention.


Just say goodbye like you mean it
The other person needs to face the reality of moving on, so they should do it in a meaningful way.


Stop making this hurt (say goodbye like you mean it)
If the other person wants to leave, they should do it properly, with intention, which will let the singer move on and stop feeling hurt.


Say goodbye like you mean it (say goodbye like you mean it)
If the other person wants to leave, they should do it properly, with intention.


Just say goodbye like you mean it
If the other person wants to leave, they should do it properly, with intention.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Jack Antonoff, Patrik Berger

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Verse 1]
Daniel puts the kids to bed
They’re screaming, “oh, the gods must be crazy”
Well, Jimmy’s on the road tonight
She doesn’t recognize her country
My father’s in the room next door
Crying with his ma at 65
Well every time I close my eyes
I just see you written in big lights

[Pre-Chorus]
You know what it says?

[Chorus]
"Stop making this hurt
And say goodbye like you mean it
Stop trying on this hurt
Just say goodbye like you mean it
(Just say goodbye like you mean it)"

[Verse 2]
My mamma’s in the house tonight
Tryna break free of New Jersey
While the kids are on the street
And they’re cryin’, “let me live in my country”
But me and Ray
We got a dream and a car
We’re like free as the night
So how come every time I take a drive
I just see it written on street signs?

Pre-Chorus]
And you know what it says

[Chorus]
"Stop making this hurt
And say goodbye like you mean it
Stop trying on this hurt
Just say goodbye like you mean it
(Just say goodbye like you mean it)"

[Bridge]
But if we take the sadness out of Saturday night
I wonder what we’ll be left with, anything worth the fight?
I wanna run from the darkness, wanna shout at the light
It’s coming over me now
Two three four five
Oh god, we barely survived
(Just say goodbye like you mean it)

[Chorus]
Stop making this hurt
(Just say goodbye like you mean it)
Say goodbye like you mean it
(Just say goodbye like you mean it)
Stop making this hurt
(Say goodbye like you mean it)
(Just say goodbye like you mean it)
And say goodbye like you mean it
(Just say goodbye like you mean it)

[Outro]
Come on baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby
Stop making this hurt



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