Letter to My Son
Bloc Party Lyrics


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I find myself
At the point where we kissed first
On a rooftop
Overlooking the East London mosque

They said, they said, they said, they said
You can't go around breaking young girl's hearts
I said, I said, I said, I said
Keep at casual, easy thing

And you looked so right
In that red dress

Oh how I'd love
To be a rock for you
To be anything
You could rely on

So I'll try, I'll try, I'll try, I'll try
But I'll get caught out
So we'll try, we'll try, we'll try, we'll try
But we'll forget the lines, forget the lines

And you looked so thwarted
In the back of the car
Like you could thwart
A hundred wars

Save my letters
Where we can first call
By the bedroom door
And kitchen floor
(I tried, I tried, I tried)

All my letters
I'm too young
To be the father
To a son
(I tried, I tried, I tried)





Forgive me Oscar

Overall Meaning

Bloc Party's song "Letter To My Son" is a poignant and contemplative piece, with haunting melodies and lyrics that explore themes of love, responsibility, regret, and growing up. The song begins with the singer reminiscing about the place where he first kissed his lover, on a rooftop overlooking the East London mosque. This detail is significant, as it sets the scene for a story unfolding against a diverse backdrop of cultures, traditions, and beliefs.


The first verse describes how the singer initially tried to keep things casual and easy, but found himself falling deeper in love with this person in the red dress. He longs to be a rock for her, something she can rely on, but he acknowledges that he'll make mistakes along the way. The second verse reveals that the singer has a son, but he feels too young and unprepared to be a proper father. He asks for forgiveness from his son, Oscar, and promises to be there for him as best he can.


The chorus is a refrain of the words "I tried", repeated multiple times as if in anguish, lamenting the difficulty of maintaining relationships and living up to the expectations of others. The final lines of the song suggest that the letters he has saved from their early days together are a symbol of hope and connection, reminders of a time when love was simpler and easier to understand.


Overall, "Letter To My Son" is a powerful reflection on the complexities and challenges of love, parenthood, and the human condition. It invites listeners to empathize with the singer and his struggles, and to contemplate their own experiences of love and loss.


Line by Line Meaning

I find myself
Starting the song in a reflective mood, the singer is reminiscing about the beginning of his romantic relationship with the person he's addressing in the song.


At the point where we kissed first
The singer remembers the exact location where he first kissed the person he's addressing in the song.


On a rooftop / Overlooking the East London mosque
The singer provides a specific setting for the location of the kiss, romanticizing the location while also providing context for the song's location and storyline.


They said, they said, they said, they said / You can't go around breaking young girl's hearts
The singer is repeating an adage he's heard before to suggest he may have made mistakes in the relationship with the person he's addressing, and wants to acknowledge this.


I said, I said, I said, I said / Keep at casual, easy thing
The singer is acknowledging the advice he's received, but also trying to justify his actions by saying they were just trying to keep things casual and easygoing.


And you looked so right / In that red dress
The singer is paying a compliment to the person he's addressing by remembering a particular outfit they wore that made them look attractive.


Oh how I'd love / To be a rock for you / To be anything / You could rely on
The singer is expressing his desire to be a source of stability and reliability for the person he's addressing.


So I'll try, I'll try, I'll try, I'll try / But I'll get caught out
The singer is acknowledging that he'll make mistakes along the way while trying to be a reliable person for the person he's addressing.


So we'll try, we'll try, we'll try, we'll try / But we'll forget the lines, forget the lines
The singer is acknowledging that the relationship will be full of trying and making mistakes, but also the importance of moving past them and establishing common ground.


And you looked so thwarted / In the back of the car / Like you could thwart / A hundred wars
The singer is reflecting on a particular memory where the person he's addressing looked upset and putting into words how they often have a powerful presence when they're unhappy.


Save my letters / Where we can first call / By the bedroom door / And kitchen floor / (I tried, I tried, I tried)
The singer is suggesting the importance of holding onto sentimental items from throughout their relationship, creating a scrapbook of sorts filled with important memories.


All my letters / I'm too young / To be the father / To a son / (I tried, I tried, I tried)
The singer is acknowledging that they are still young and inexperienced in life, but still trying their best. He also references being a father, which is a metaphorical reference to the responsibility he feels in being accountable to the person he's addressing.


Forgive me Oscar
The singer is using a final line to ask for forgiveness, acknowledging that they may have done things to wrong the person he's addressing.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: GORDON MOAKES, KELE OKEREKE, MATT TONG, RUSSELL LISSACK

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+Raudel Ibarra

My take

It begins with him reminiscing about their first kiss. He then brings up the criticism from others about his relationship "you can't go around breaking young girls hearts" it is obvious that he is serial lover/dater. His response? "It is just a casual, easy fling" So nothing to worry about, we are in a casual relationship.

The next few verses are about him actually wanting to be in this relationship. He wants to be the rock, he wants it to work, but it doesn't. He isn't good at relationships. They try but they "forget the lines" of what it takes to be in a stable relationship.

Then it ends. She looks "wanton in the back of the cab" she is angry, she could "start a hundred wars"

But there is a problem "See the trouble that we could both cause by the bedroom door, the kitchen floor" The trouble? A son, due to there sexual exploits by the bedroom door and the kitchen floor.

He then leaves, he can't be a father to this son. He leaves it unto them. We don't know who that is but, it isn't him.

I think there is some debate about the name at the end. Autumn or Oscar. So he is either apologizing to his son Oscar (this song be a the a letter written to him) Or he is apologizing to Autumn, the woman he abandoned with the child.

TLDR: It is about a father leaving a mother and child and then him being sorry for it.



All comments from YouTube:

Franco Cavecchia

God, I swear this hits me harder as the years go by. Miss the good ol' days...

A C

same, same

Muhammad Afzal

Pirnt vido full

moosesnWoop123

3:07 is one of the saddest/ most emotive parts I have heard in a song. That bass riff and guitar picking is moving beyond words. I think the context of the lyrics give it a sad meaning.

RIP BP

moosesnWoop123

@Ben yes, it's such a great riff. I leart the guitar and bass parts - I think what really makes it special is Gordon's bass riff at that part.

Ben

My favourite musical part of any Bloc Party song, ever.

pablo binch calvo

remind me why people hate intimacy? cos this is amazing

Pentex Sucks

Because the album is a mess, Ares is such a God awful song, and it's even worse that it's the opener, the tracklist flops from 1/2 good songs to an awful one. It's not bad, but super inconsistent. Also it doesn't help that bloc party fucking suck at making tracklistings. The initial release of this isn't worth buying at all, but the rerelease with this songs, Talons, and Your Visits are Getting Shorter is amazing. It's just messy

Luke S.

And it ain't on Intimacy

ivy ginger

Still can't get enough of this song. It's something else

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