This Modern Love
Bloc Party Lyrics


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To be lost in the forest
To be cut adrift
You've been trying to reach me
You bought me a book
To be lost in the forest
To be cut adrift
I've been paid, I've been paid
To be lost in the forest
To be cut adrift
You've been trying to reach me
You bought me a book
To be lost in the forest
To be cut adrift
I've been paid, I've been weighed, I've been

Don't get offended if I seem absent minded
Just keep telling me facts and keep making me smile
And don't get offended if I seem absent minded
I get tongue-tied
Baby, you've got to be more discerning
I've never know what's good for me
Baby, you've got to be more demanding
I will be yours

I'll pay for you
Anytime

I'll pay for you
Anytime

And you told me you wanted to eat up my sadness
We'll jump right on, surely, and gorge away
And you told me you wanted to eat up my sadness (jump right)

Baby, you've got to be more discerning
I've never know what's good for me and
Baby, you've got to be more demanding (jump left)

What are you holding out for?
What's always (in the way?)
Why so damn absent minded?
Why so scared (of romance?)

This modern love breaks me
This modern love wastes me

This modern love breaks me
This modern love wastes me

Do you want to come over and kill some time?
Do you want to come over and kill some time?
Do you want to come over and kill some time?





Throw your arms around me

Overall Meaning

The song "This Modern Love" by Bloc Party is a beautiful exploration of the complexity of relationships in modern times. The opening lines set the scene of being lost and cut adrift, which create a sense of confusion and uncertainty. The repetition of these lines in the chorus emphasizes this feeling of being lost and uncertain.


The verse then goes on to describe how the other person in the relationship is trying to reach out and make a connection by buying a book. The hint of financial compensation ("I've been paid") adds an interesting layer to the song, as it raises questions about the nature of the relationship and what each partner is willing to give.


The second half of the song deals more with communication issues and the struggle to understand the other person's needs. The lines "Don't get offended if I seem absent-minded / I get tongue-tied" show a vulnerability and hesitancy in expressing oneself. However, the partner is encouraged to be "more demanding" and the singer promises to be "yours". The chorus is repeated again, this time with an added sense of frustration and hopelessness. The final lines, "Do you want to come over and kill some time? / Throw your arms around me" are an invitation for physical connection, but also leave a sense of desperate loneliness.


Overall, "This Modern Love" is a song that captures the confusion and complexity of relationships in the modern world. The lyrics are poetic and insightful, providing a glimpse into the emotional ups and downs of being in love.


Line by Line Meaning

To be lost in the forest
To feel lost, uncertain or disoriented


To be cut adrift
To feel disconnected or without direction


You've been trying to reach me
You've been making an effort to connect with me


You bought me a book
You tried to show me something new or interesting


I've been paid, I've been weighed, I've been
I've been compensated or considered in some way


Don't get offended if I seem absent minded
Please don't take it personally if I seem forgetful or distracted


Just keep telling me facts and keep making me smile
Keep my attention by sharing interesting information or being pleasant


I get tongue-tied
I have trouble expressing myself verbally


Baby, you've got to be more discerning
You need to be more selective or critical


I've never know what's good for me
I lack the ability to make wise or beneficial choices


Baby, you've got to be more demanding
You need to be more assertive or insistent


I will be yours
I am willing to be committed to you or follow your lead


I'll pay for you
I will cover the costs for you


Anytime
Whenever you need it


And you told me you wanted to eat up my sadness
You expressed a desire to help me overcome feelings of sorrow or depression


We'll jump right on, surely, and gorge away
We'll indulge in something pleasurable to distract ourselves from emotional pain


Baby, you've got to be more demanding (jump left)
You need to be more assertive, even if it's uncomfortable or challenging


What are you holding out for?
What are you waiting for or hoping to achieve?


What's always (in the way?)
What's consistently blocking or preventing progress?


Why so damn absent minded?
Why am I so forgetful or inattentive?


Why so scared (of romance?)
Why do I feel apprehensive or fearful about intimacy or love?


This modern love breaks me
The complexities and struggles of contemporary relationships are overwhelming


This modern love wastes me
The difficulties and heartbreak of modern relationships are draining me


Do you want to come over and kill some time?
Do you want to spend casual time together doing anything, even if it's unproductive?


Throw your arms around me
Embrace me tightly and affectionately




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Gordon Moakes, Kele Okereke, Matt Tong, Russell Lissack

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