Your Visits Are Getting Shorter
Bloc Party Lyrics


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I can see it in your eyes now,
You have come to resent me
Condescension in the silence
Your fingers are tired girl,
How they falter against my thigh
Your kisses are pining for the lips of someone else

Your visits getting shorter
Your heart is getting further from me
Your touch is getting colder
Always somewhere you need to be

Boys on your left side, boys on your right
Boys in your maths class who'll do anything you ask
You're pulling the trigger and the gun is in my mouth
A subtle annoyance laced with disgust
When you get older and those boys grow tired of you
You can come find me, I can never hate you

Boys on your left side, boys on your right
Boys by your locker who'll do anything you ask

Lets spend the whole day in bed then
Cause if we don't you'll want to, want to leave




I try to hold something I can
I try to hold something I can never keep

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Bloc Party's song Your Visits Are Getting Shorter depict a relationship that is falling apart. The singer is aware that their partner is growing distant from them, and it is evident in their eyes and gestures. The partner is resentful and condescending towards them, and their touch is getting colder. The singer acknowledges that their partner is looking for something else, and there are other boys in their life who are willing to satisfy their desires. The singer feels that their partner is constantly in a hurry to be somewhere else, and their visits are getting shorter.


The lyrics of the song highlight the challenges and hardships of a deteriorating relationship. The singer can sense that his partner is slipping away from him, and there's nothing he can do to stop it. He is aware that his partner is no longer interested in him, and it's only a matter of time before the relationship ends. However, he still holds onto the hope that she will come back to him someday.


Overall, the song's lyrics are a poignant and heartbreaking depiction of a relationship that is coming to an end. The singer is aware that his relationship is failing, but he cannot let go of the hope that things will get better.


Line by Line Meaning

I can see it in your eyes now,
I can perceive from your gaze that you have started to hold negative feelings towards me.


You have come to resent me
You have started to hold feelings of resentment towards me.


Condescension in the silence
You show a hint of superiority in your silence towards me.


Your fingers are tired girl,
Your fingers show signs of fatigue, my dear.


How they falter against my thigh
They move unsteadily as they make contact with my thigh.


Your kisses are pining for the lips of someone else
Your affectionate actions long for the lips of another person.


Your visits getting shorter
The duration of your visits to me is decreasing.


Your heart is getting further from me
Your emotional attachment to me is dwindling.


Your touch is getting colder
Your physical touch is becoming colder in nature.


Always somewhere you need to be
You always seem to have somewhere else that you need to go.


Boys on your left side, boys on your right
You are surrounded by boys on both your left and right sides.


Boys in your maths class who'll do anything you ask
Boys in your math class are willing to fulfill any of your requests.


You're pulling the trigger and the gun is in my mouth
You are causing harm to our relationship, and I am at the receiving end of it.


A subtle annoyance laced with disgust
Your attitude towards me is a mixture of subtle irritation and disgust.


When you get older and those boys grow tired of you
When you age and the boys lose interest in you,


You can come find me, I can never hate you
You can turn to me for support, as I will never hold hatred towards you.


Boys on your left side, boys on your right
You are still continuously surrounded by boys on both your left and right sides.


Boys by your locker who'll do anything you ask
Boys by your locker are eager to comply with your every demand.


Lets spend the whole day in bed then
Shall we spend the entire day in bed?


Cause if we don't you'll want to, want to leave
Because if we don't, you will have a desire to leave.


I try to hold something I can
I attempt to hold onto something I am capable of holding onto.


I try to hold something I can never keep
But unfortunately, there are certain things I am unable to keep hold of.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: KELE OKEREKE, MATT TONG, RUSSELL LISSACK

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