For My Brother
Blue October Lyrics


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It would simply say everything,
If you would, take a pen and
Write my name on friend,
Who never cared to let me inâ?¦

Then take a fast ravine,
That for three years swimmin' straight up stream,
And the wind,
The wind will drag me down in the endâ?¦

You live inside my wall, and I,
I reach back and hit you harder than God fallsâ?¦
Christ amen, amen, amenâ?¦

You're such a line to break, but I'm,
I'm so scared to make a fucking mistake
In the endâ?¦
But I just want to be happy again,
Againâ?¦.

Until it all falls down,
And where does that leave me?
With things, things,
I've got so many things to sayâ?¦
And with a broken heart,
And a straight face,
I'm saying brotherâ?¦
Help meâ?¦
Brother would you help me?

It's just a natural phase that I,
I go through, and then it's taken away,
And then bam, bam I'm fixed,
I'm fixed, I'm fixed, I'm fixedâ?¦

But I'm in another place to be where I,
I can't sleep without the thought
Of me being so,
So damn sick,
But I'm sick, I'm sick, I'm sickâ?¦

So take this song, take this song awayâ?¦
Until it all falls down,
And where does that leave me?
With things, things,
I've got so many things to sayâ?¦
And with a broken heart, and a straight faceâ?¦
And he always said,
Reach for the girl, reach for the girl,
And hold her closeâ?¦

Believe you can shine when you're silver,
And I promise you gold,
I promise you goldâ?¦
And whenever you're dark inside,
Don't let goâ?¦

Remember there's rain,
And there's candy,
And Christmasy winter snow,
The snow, the snowâ?¦

And remember I love you the same,
And I'll strangle your painâ?¦
And he tells me to sing,
So I sing, and I sing for my brother,
Who keeps me sane,
And tells me everything will be,
Okayâ?¦

I'm never alone,
No I'm never alone,




I'm not alone,
Not aloneâ?¦

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Blue October's song For My Brother is a heartfelt tribute to the relationship between two brothers. The opening lines of the song speak to the singer's hurt and regret for not being close to his brother, and the hope that his brother will one day reach out and take notice of him. The following verses paint a picture of the singer's feelings of isolation and desperation, through his struggles with mental illness.


In the chorus, the singer asks his brother for help, and reassures him that despite his perceived shortcomings, he still loves him and values their relationship. The bridge of the song is a plea for hope and resilience in the face of life's challenges, with the singer promising his brother that things will work out in the end.


The final stanza is a poignant tribute to the singer's brother, who is his main source of comfort and strength in times of hardship. The song ends on a hopeful note, with the singer realizing that he is never alone as long as he has his brother by his side.


Overall, the song is a powerful testament to the bond between siblings, and the enduring strength of that bond in the face of life's struggles.


Line by Line Meaning

It would simply say everything, If you would, take a pen and Write my name on friend, Who never cared to let me inâ?¦
The singer requests someone to remember him by simply writing his name on a friend, who was never interested in welcoming him.


Then take a fast ravine, That for three years swimmin' straight up stream, And the wind, The wind will drag me down in the endâ?¦
The singer tells someone to imagine a fast-moving stream where he has been struggling for three years. The trials of his experience will ultimately beat him.


You live inside my wall, and I, I reach back and hit you harder than God fallsâ?¦ Christ amen, amen, amenâ?¦
The singer accuses someone of living inside his wall and strongly hits back with more force than God could fall. He emphasizes this message with a reference to Christ.


You're such a line to break, but I'm, I'm so scared to make a fucking mistake In the endâ?¦ But I just want to be happy again, Again
The artist believes someone else is making him go astray but is too fearful to make a wrong choice on his own. He desires to be happy once more.


Until it all falls down, And where does that leave me? With things, things, I've got so many things to sayâ?¦ And with a broken heart, And a straight face, I'm saying brotherâ?¦ Help meâ?¦ Brother would you help me?
The artist knows that at some point, everything will come crashing down, and he'll have to face the truth. He has a lot to share, but his heart is broken. He turns to his brother as he begs for help.


It's just a natural phase that I, I go through, and then it's taken away, And then bam, bam I'm fixed, I'm fixed, I'm fixed, I'm fixedâ?¦
The singer experiences a natural cycle of ups and downs, and suddenly he is fixed, with no indication of what caused it.


But I'm in another place to be where I, I can't sleep without the thought Of me being so, So damn sick, But I'm sick, I'm sick, I'm sickâ?¦
The singer finds himself in an unfamiliar location where he can't sleep because he's unwell. He acknowledges that he's sick.


So take this song, take this song awayâ?¦ Until it all falls down, And where does that leave me? With things, things, I've got so many things to sayâ?¦ And with a broken heart, and a straight faceâ?¦ And he always said, Reach for the girl, reach for the girl, And hold her closeâ?¦
The artist asks the listener to take the song away until everything falls apart. He has a lot to say, but his heart is shattered. He recollects some advice he got to pursue the girl and cherish her.


Believe you can shine when you're silver, And I promise you gold, I promise you goldâ?¦ And whenever you're dark inside, Don't let goâ?¦
The artist assures the listener that they can be valuable, even when they feel insignificant. He takes a promise to uplift them when they fall.


Remember there's rain, And there's candy, And Christmasy winter snow, The snow, the snowâ?¦
The artist reminds the listener that life has a mixture of elements, both good and bad: rain, sweets, and lovely winter snow.


And remember I love you the same, And I'll strangle your painâ?¦ And he tells me to sing, So I sing, and I sing for my brother, Who keeps me sane, And tells me everything will be, Okayâ?¦
The singer emphasizes unconditional love, promising to get rid of his brother's pain. He continues to sing as his brother preserves his sanity and assures him that everything will be alright.


I'm never alone, No I'm never alone, I'm not alone, Not aloneâ?¦
The artist asserts that his brother is always with him and will never abandon him. He repeats himself for emphasis.




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Written by: JUSTIN S FURSTENFELD

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Levon Arabyan

This song helped keep me together in my darkest times. For those who may be experiencing those, there’s a chance life gets better. I didn’t believe it was possible for me, but it happened. “Whenever your dark inside, don’t let go. No, Don’t let go. Remember there’s rain and there’s candy and Christmasy winter snow.”

Levon Arabyan

@Paul Motea Hey mate. If it's really bad, I would say seek help. I know it sounds cliche. But a psychologist (talk therapy) or psychiatrist (medication) may be what you really need. I was categorically opposed to taking medication before, but when life is that dark, what is there to lose?? I decided to try it and it saved my life.

Paul Motea

It’s so bad to be in the darkness of the devil at the moment God will help you know I pray it night to get it right and broken

Paul Motea

@Yvonne van der linden That was absolutely beautiful couldn’t of said it any better way I am I am in dark side of my life right now yes I cry a lot still crying now

Yvonne van der linden

1.30: "i reach back and hit you harder" & " 5.04:" I am so alone " try not to cry but here i go. Thank you for posting your words

DNHXC Gaming

I literally can’t listen to this song without having a cry. This one is for you my big bro 💯🍺

IRISH-GOYZER!

One of my favourite songs.. I dedicate it to my young brother who passed away today due to a heart issue..
My tears sting my face as my heart breaks...
Love you and miss you so much kid..
I always said I could tell you anything and you'd take it too the grave...
RIP NOEL...16-05-2019

joecrew

@IRISH-GOYZER! Thank you, kind sir.

IRISH-GOYZER!

@joecrew
It's a tough gig mate..
Time really does help ease the pain... but it can never erase it.

Sorry for your loss sir 🙏

joecrew

Lost my "little brother" 6 years ago today. Miss him every minutes. RIP Chip. Your brothers love you!

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