New #1
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You, yeah, you always haul my ball and chain right
To there, the place where I get lost inside of
You, yeah, I see your face and hear your voice right
Through that which seems so hopeless and confusing

Sometimes I try too hard to separate the
Good times from sadness that we've had together
Balancing, I need to keep it all in some perspective
Calm me down, I need you more than you will ever comprehend

I don't want this to end, I can't lose one more friend

I go through my regrets and I return the compliments and
Hope I find that innocence, I've got to be here no matter what happens

Slow down, you say that time will tell the story, it
Goes around, but no one else could know what's here
Between us, I sense this tension that I know so
Well, but the calm I feel is being with you, near you constantly

I can't wash this away, it's here to stay

I need to cleanse my soul, these thoughts will make me lose control
So if I lose control, don't leave me, you've got to be here, no matter what happens

Trust me, I'm here for you with good intentions
Trust in me, despite some times when I don't trust
Myself, in myself, in my head, in my own confusion
My confusion gets the best of me, my illusions set me free

Free to dream about what I really need to set me
Free, is it you, is it me, what can I do to set you
Free, to be real, to be with me when I need you
Are you listening, are you listening to me

Forgive me when I lose control (sometimes I forget myself)
Forgive me for the thoughts I have (sometimes I think just like you)




Maybe I can't trust myself (I know that I can trust in you)
But I can't keep it to myself (I feel just like you)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Bob Mould's song New #1 are about emotional dependence and the difficulties of maintaining a relationship. The singer describes how his partner is the only one who can calm him down and make him feel less hopeless and confused. He acknowledges that he needs to keep things in perspective and not let his emotions get the best of him. However, he also admits that he can't control his erratic thoughts and impulses, and he needs his partner to be there for him, no matter what happens. The singer tries to reconcile his own doubts and insecurities with his deep affection for his partner, recognizing that their relationship is far from perfect but also indispensable to his emotional well-being. He concludes by asking for forgiveness and understanding, both from himself and from his partner, as they navigate the challenges of their complex emotions.


Overall, the song New #1 is a powerful exploration of the struggle to balance personal freedom and emotional attachment, as well as an ode to the importance of empathy and mutual support in a relationship. The lyrics are deeply introspective and confessional, revealing the inner turmoil of the singer's psyche and his attempts to come to terms with his own vulnerability. The song is also notable for its driving guitar riff and catchy chorus, which highlight Mould's distinctive punk-rock influences and his ability to infuse personal lyrics with a sense of urgency and energy.


Line by Line Meaning

You, yeah, you always haul my ball and chain right
You always take care of me and help me with my problems


To there, the place where I get lost inside of
You take me to a place where I feel lost and overwhelmed


You, yeah, I see your face and hear your voice right
I feel a sense of comfort and familiarity when I see and hear you


Through that which seems so hopeless and confusing
Even in difficult and confusing situations, I find clarity and hope through you


Sometimes I try too hard to separate the
I struggle to differentiate between the good and bad times we've had


Good times from sadness that we've had together
I find it difficult to balance the happy and sad memories we've shared


Balancing, I need to keep it all in some perspective
I need to find a way to keep everything in balance and not let the sadness overcome me


Calm me down, I need you more than you will ever comprehend
Your presence and support is so important to me, you have no idea how much I need you


I don't want this to end, I can't lose one more friend
I don't want to lose you or our friendship, I can't handle another loss


I go through my regrets and I return the compliments and
I reflect on my past mistakes and try to make up for them by giving you compliments


Hope I find that innocence, I've got to be here no matter what happens
I hope to find a sense of innocence or purity in our relationship, and I will be here for you through anything


Slow down, you say that time will tell the story, it
You remind me to take it slow and let time reveal the truth of our situation


Goes around, but no one else could know what's here
Our relationship is private and no one else could understand what we have


Between us, I sense this tension that I know so
I feel a tension between us that I am very familiar with


Well, but the calm I feel is being with you, near you constantly
Despite the tension, I feel a sense of peace and comfort when I am with you


I can't wash this away, it's here to stay
The tension and complicated nature of our relationship is something that can't be easily erased


I need to cleanse my soul, these thoughts will make me lose control
I need to address my own inner turmoil or else I will spiral out of control


So if I lose control, don't leave me, you've got to be here, no matter what happens
If I have a breakdown or lose my way, please don't leave me, I need you to stay by my side


Trust me, I'm here for you with good intentions
You can trust me, I'm here to support and help you with genuine motives


Trust in me, despite some times when I don't trust
Please trust me, even when my own doubts or insecurities get in the way


Myself, in myself, in my head, in my own confusion
I struggle to trust myself and my own thoughts because of my inner turmoil and confusion


My confusion gets the best of me, my illusions set me free
I often let my confusion or warped perceptions cloud my judgement and make me feel free or liberated


Free to dream about what I really need to set me
I am free to daydream or fantasize about what I really need to feel happy or fulfilled


Free, is it you, is it me, what can I do to set you
I want to be free and happy, but I don't know if it's because of you or because of myself


Free, to be real, to be with me when I need you
I want to be free to be my true self and for you to be with me when I need you the most


Are you listening, are you listening to me
Are you really paying attention to me and my needs?


Forgive me when I lose control (sometimes I forget myself)
Please forgive me if I ever act out of line or forget who I really am


Forgive me for the thoughts I have (sometimes I think just like you)
Forgive me if my thoughts ever cause problems, even if those thoughts are similar to your own


Maybe I can't trust myself (I know that I can trust in you)
I doubt my own judgement and trustworthiness, but I know that I can trust you


But I can't keep it to myself (I feel just like you)
I need to express my feelings and thoughts to you, even if they mirror your own




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Written by: BOB MOULD

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Comments from YouTube:

LEE DOHSE

One of the perfectly hidden treasures in songwriting history!

LEE DOHSE

Bob has the true #1 killer voice in music! He sings with so much power and grace while kicking your ass! This song is such a gem!

Greg Selvin

Truly a great song. Soul searing.

Rich B

Love this album!

Kelly Hopkins

Great song. I dig the lyrics and can relate.

Heather Homner

Could the lyrics be more brilliant? How could this song not touch ones soul?

THOMAS BICE

I used to have this one on “repeat” (multi CD player 🙂) for hours at a time. I was so heartbroken at the time. She was it and this great song articulated my feelings perfectly.

razorbax68

5900 views?!?! a travesty!  One of my faves. It should be on everyone's fave list

Brian McManus

So fucking heartbreaking. Takes me right back to '98.

Michael Belsky

My favorite Bob Mould song!!!

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