Dear John Letter
Bobby Bare Lyrics


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Dear John oh how I hate to write dear John I must let you know tonight
That my love for you has died away like grass upon the lawn
And tonight I wed another dear John

I was overseas in battle when the postman came to me
He handed me a letter and I was just as happy as I could be
Cause the fighting was all over and the battles have all been won
But then I opened up the letter and that started dear John
Won't you please send back my picture my husband wants it now
When I tell you who I'm wedding you won't care dear anyhow
And it hurts me so to tell you that my love for you has gone
But tonight I wed your brother dear John





And tonight I wed another dear John

Overall Meaning

The song "Dear John Letter A" by Bobby Bare is a heart-wrenching ballad depicting a woman's decision to end her relationship with John through a letter. The song starts with her informing John how much she hates to write this letter, but she is compelled to let him know that her love for him has withered away, much like the grass on the lawn. Adding insult to injury, the woman informs John that she is getting married to another man the same night.


The second verse takes an even more gut-wrenching turn as the woman admits that she had received the letter while she was fighting overseas. Her initial excitement turned to heartbreak upon reading that her love was no more, and that was the beginning of the "dear John" letter. She concludes by telling him to send back her picture, as the man she is marrying now wants it. She hesitates to mention that she is marrying John's brother and that her love for him has vanished.


Overall, the song portrays the theme of heartbreak and betrayal. The woman is unable to continue her relationship with John and has found someone else to love. The use of the letter format adds an emotional depth to the song, painting a picture of the woman's regret and sadness.


Line by Line Meaning

Dear John oh how I hate to write
I feel sad to write this letter to you, John


dear John I must let you know tonight
I must inform you tonight, John


That my love for you has died away like grass upon the lawn
My love for you has vanished, John


And tonight I wed another dear John
I am getting married to someone else tonight, John


I was overseas in battle when the postman came to me
I was away in war when I received the letter


He handed me a letter and I was just as happy as I could be
I was thrilled to receive a letter from you


Cause the fighting was all over and the battles have all been won
I thought I could finally enjoy some peace after the war


But then I opened up the letter and that started dear John
I read the letter and realized that it was a 'Dear John' letter


Won't you please send back my picture my husband wants it now
Can you please return my picture? My husband wants it now


When I tell you who I'm wedding you won't care dear anyhow
I know you won't care when you find out who I am marrying


And it hurts me so to tell you that my love for you has gone
It pains me to admit that I no longer love you


But tonight I wed your brother dear John
Tonight, I am marrying your brother, John




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: BILLY BARTON, CHARLES FUZZY OWENS, LEWIS A. TALLEY

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rockymontana1951

Skeeter
Dear John, oh how I hate to write
Dear John, I must let you know tonight
That my love for you has died away like grass upon the lawn
And tonight I wed another, dear John.

Bobby
I was overseas in battle when the postman came to me
He handed me a letter and I was just as happy as I could be
Cause the fighting was all over and the battles have all been won
But then I opened up the letter and that started, dear John
Won't you please send back my picture my husband wants it now
When I tell you who I'm wedding you won't care dear anyhow
And it hurts me so to tell you that my love for you has gone
But tonight I wed your brother, dear John.

Skeeter
And tonight I wed another, dear John.



All comments from YouTube:

Samuel A Turay

These two people are indeed fantastic,this album "Tunes for Two" is indeed worthy hearing as it reminds of two wonderful people singing togather binding other lovers together

Daddy Tjeuw

I still listen to this on 2020..i listened this on my childhood from my Mom's cassette

Benjamin Amanze

This music is inspiring,I play it over and over everyday and never get tired to listening to it. Benjamin Amanze

Arcs n Sparks

One of the best that isn't heard very often these days. I bought the 45 rpm record back then.

Donald Carr

Beautiful duet.

Felicity George george

Very very beautiful song.. my fav in the year 1970.. keep listenin 2 it endless times.. very touchy.. all the best 👍🙌❤💪

Juliet Egbule

Oh dear, my late dad always play this song back in early 90s. I just have to listen to it today and damn it was a sad song 😢 I didn’t even know the lyrics as a kid

DSF

I heard this so much as a child because my parents loved country music. Childhood memories. I love it.

Rose Kyriacoudes

What a sad song But she sings it so beautifull..... Rose

rjsmth

What a great song. Good harmony.....Sad song though, but love it just the same. Thanks for posting...

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