Come Back When You Grow Up
Bobby Vee Lyrics


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Come back when you grow up, girl
You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
Livin' ain't easy, lovin's twice as tough
So come back, baby, when you grow up

You're lookin' real good, like a woman now
Your mind hasn't gotten the message somehow
So if you can't take it when the goin' gets rough
Come back, baby, when you grow up

I want you, girl, but your wide-eyed innocence
Has really messed up my mind, yeah
I'd rather you get your very first heartbreak
Somewhere else along the line

Come back when you grow up, girl
You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
Some day be a woman ready to love
Come back, baby, when you grow up

Come back when you grow up, girl
You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
Livin' ain't easy, lovin's twice as tough
So come back, baby, when you grow up

Come back when you grow up, girl
You've still got a lot of time left in the world
You'll some day be a woman ready to love
So come back, baby, when you grow up

Come back when you grow up, girl




You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
Livin' ain't easy, lovin's twice as tough

Overall Meaning

The song "Come Back When You Grow Up" by Bobby Vee is a classic example of a young man's plea to a girl he likes to mature before they start a romantic relationship. The song is riddled with metaphors that describe the girl's lack of maturity and inability to handle the complexities of love. The opening line of the first verse, "Come back when you grow up, girl," sets the tone for the entire song as the singer is telling the girl that she is not yet ready for a serious relationship.


The second line, "You're still livin' in a paper-doll world," indicates that the girl is still living in an imaginary world and has not yet faced the harsh realities of life. The third line, "Livin' ain't easy, lovin's twice as tough," suggests that life and love are complex matters that require maturity and understanding to handle. The chorus is a plea to the girl to grow up and become a woman who is ready to love.


The second verse highlights the singer's dilemma. He likes the girl but cannot pursue her because of her childlike innocence, which has messed up his mind. He wishes that she experiences her first heartbreak so that she can mature emotionally. The final verse reiterates the plea for the girl to grow up and become a woman ready to love.


Overall, the song "Come Back When You Grow Up" by Bobby Vee is a poignant plea to a girl to grow up and become a woman ready to take on the complexities of life and love.


Line by Line Meaning

Come back when you grow up, girl
Please wait until you are mature enough to handle what I am asking of you.


You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
You haven't experienced enough of the real world yet.


Livin' ain't easy, lovin's twice as tough
Life is already hard enough, and love only makes it harder.


So come back, baby, when you grow up
Therefore, I urge you to wait until you are better equipped before we pursue a relationship.


You're lookin' real good, like a woman now
You have grown and matured physically.


Your mind hasn't gotten the message somehow
However, you may not have fully grasped the realities of the world yet.


So if you can't take it when the goin' gets rough
Therefore, if you are unable to deal with difficult situations that may arise,


Come back, baby, when you grow up
I suggest that you wait until you are more experienced.


I want you, girl, but your wide-eyed innocence
I am attracted to you,


Has really messed up my mind, yeah
But I am concerned that your naivety might hurt us.


I'd rather you get your very first heartbreak
I would prefer that you experience your first heartbreak with someone else.


Somewhere else along the line
At some point in the future with someone more suitable.


Some day be a woman ready to love
One day, I hope you will be a mature, capable woman who is ready for a romantic relationship.


You've still got a lot of time left in the world
You are still young and inexperienced.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Martha Sharp

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@petewiththebeat007

I was 11 years old living in Detroit Lakes, Minnesota. Bobby Vee was from Fargo, North Dakota, just 45 miles away. He married a girl from Detroit Lakes and was always hanging around DL. We had a pavilion where the best bands would play. The Yardbirds, The Beau Brummels, the Buckinghams, Roy Orbison. And of course, Bobby Vee. I would stand outside and listen because I wasn't old enough to go inside. It was the best time of my life.

@tjops1000

RIP Bobby. I am 68 and this song will be my favorite till I die. Anita Jackson, SA

@JohnDoe-ot3zd

Back then we had great music. I'm so happy I got to grow up in that time. Kids today will never get experience what we did when we were kids.

@hawkeye1836

How many thousands of times have we all sang along with Bobby Vee
well, I'll start off the next thousand. R.I.P. Brother, Thanks for the Love.

@ladonnaghareeb4609

Such a beautiful song. Bobby Vee will ALWAYS be missed. Thank you for sharing your wonderful talent with the world.

@bamagirl6647

This brings back so many memories... what I would give for a time machine.

@roseloose1013

Was so devastated to hear of Bobby Vee's passing. So enjoyed listening to all of his greatest songs. Gone but never will be forgotten. RiP Bobby.

@robertroudi5879

Never Rose he was so underrated God bless Bobby !!!!

@traceysellers7945

This song reminded me what it would of been. My late husband was 21 years older than me. I was just being born . He was 21. I dearly miss him... I wish we would of had more time together.

@pattyj5846

The best time of my life was the 60s. Thank you

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