Pretend You Don't See Her
Bobby Vee Lyrics


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Look somewhere above her
Pretend you don't love her
Pretend you don't see her at all

Pretend you don't see her, my heart
Although she is coming our way
Pretend you don't need her, my heart
But smile and pretend to be gay

It's too late for running, my heart
Chin up if a tear starts to fall
Look somewhere above her
Pretend you don't love her
Pretend you don't see her at all

Pretend you don't see her, my heart
Although she is coming our way
Pretend you don't need her, my heart
But smile and pretend to be gay

It's too late for running, my heart
Chin up if a tear starts to fall
Look somewhere above her




Pretend you don't love her
Pretend you don't see her at all

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Bobby Vee's "Pretend You Don't See Her" depict a man who is trying to avoid a woman he still loves. Despite his feelings, he has decided to pretend that he does not see her and that he no longer needs her. He acknowledges her approaching presence and advises his heart to "pretend" while putting on a brave face. He tells himself to look away from her and focus on something else.


The chorus of the song emphasizes this act of pretending. The singer urges his heart to "pretend you don't see her" and to smile even if he is hurting inside. Although he tries to suppress his emotions, he recognizes that it is too late to try to run away from them. Instead, he tells himself to keep his chin up and maintain a façade of contentment and nonchalance.


Through these lyrics, Bobby Vee presents a relatable scenario of individuals trying to hide their emotions from their former loves when they encounter them again. It highlights the pain and confusion that one feels when they still have feelings for someone, but know that the relationship cannot work. The song is an excellent demonstration of how difficult it can be to move on from someone you love.


Line by Line Meaning

Look somewhere above her
Directing the heart to look upwards instead of at the person they love


Pretend you don't love her
Suppressing the feeling of love for the person and acting like it does not exist


Pretend you don't see her at all
Act as if the person does not exist and avoid acknowledging their presence


Pretend you don't see her, my heart
Addressing the heart to pretend that they do not see the person they love


Although she is coming our way
Despite the person approaching the heart, they must continue to pretend not to notice them


Pretend you don't need her, my heart
Suppressing the sense of longing for the person and pretending that they are not important


But smile and pretend to be gay
Putting on a cheerful face and pretending to be happy despite the inner struggle


It's too late for running, my heart
Acknowledging that it is too late to avoid the person and escape the emotions they bring


Chin up if a tear starts to fall
Encouraging the heart to keep their head up even if they feel like crying




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