When You
Bobby Vee Lyrics


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Come back when you grow up, girl
You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
Livin' ain't easy, lovin's twice as tough
So come back, baby, when you grow up

You look real good like a woman now
Your mind hasn't gotten the message somehow
So if you can't take it 'n' the goin' gets rough
Come back, baby, when you grow up

I want you girl but your wide-eyed innocence
Has really messed up my mind, yeah
I'd rather you get your very first heartbreak
Somewhere else along the line

Come back when you grow up, girl
You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
Some day be a woman ready to love
Come back, baby, when you grow up

Come back when you grow up, girl
You've still got a lotta time left in the world




You'll some day be a woman ready to love
Come back, baby, when you grow up

Overall Meaning

Bobby Vee’s 1967 hit “Come Back When You Grow Up” is a song that encapsulates the confusion and complexity of young love. It’s a ballad featuring a soothing melody with a timeless message that still resonates with listeners today. The song tells the story of a young girl who’s clueless about the way the world works, living in a fairy-tale world instead of embracing the harsh realities of life. The singer in the song, presumably a love interest, urges her to come back when she finally grows up and experiences the heartbreaks and challenges of adulthood.


The lyrics reveal a deep frustration with the girl’s wide-eyed innocence, which has blinded her to the realities of life. The singer recognizes that loving someone in this world is no easy task, and the girl’s naivety would only make things tougher for both of them. He’d rather she gets her first heartbreak somewhere else along the line instead of with him because he’s aware that this love would not work out. As such, he urges her to come back when she’s a woman, when she’s ready to love.


Overall, “Come Back When You Grow Up” is a classic hit that navigates the complexities of young love, urging the girl to come back when she’s mature and ready to love. It’s a gentle reminder that although fairy tales are nice, they’re not always the reality of life.


Line by Line Meaning

Come back when you grow up, girl
I think you're not mature enough yet, come back once you are.


You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
You're living in an unrealistic, juvenile world.


Livin' ain't easy, lovin's twice as tough
Living is difficult and loving someone is even more difficult.


So come back, baby, when you grow up
Therefore, I suggest you come back once you're more mature.


You look real good like a woman now
You've grown up and look attractive.


Your mind hasn't gotten the message somehow
However, you still act immature.


So if you can't take it 'n' the goin' gets rough
Therefore, if things get tough and you can't handle it,


Come back, baby, when you grow up
I suggest you come back when you're more mature.


I want you girl but your wide-eyed innocence
I'm attracted to you, but your naivety makes it difficult.


Has really messed up my mind, yeah
Your lack of experience confuses me.


I'd rather you get your very first heartbreak
I'd prefer you to experience your first heartbreak elsewhere.


Somewhere else along the line
At some other time or with someone else.


You've still got a lotta time left in the world
You're still young and have a lot of time ahead of you.


You'll some day be a woman ready to love
One day, you will mature and be ready to love.


Come back, baby, when you grow up
So come back once you're more mature.




Lyrics © SHAPIRO BERNSTEIN & CO. INC.
Written by: M. SHARP

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@petewiththebeat007

I was 11 years old living in Detroit Lakes, Minnesota. Bobby Vee was from Fargo, North Dakota, just 45 miles away. He married a girl from Detroit Lakes and was always hanging around DL. We had a pavilion where the best bands would play. The Yardbirds, The Beau Brummels, the Buckinghams, Roy Orbison. And of course, Bobby Vee. I would stand outside and listen because I wasn't old enough to go inside. It was the best time of my life.

@tjops1000

RIP Bobby. I am 68 and this song will be my favorite till I die. Anita Jackson, SA

@JohnDoe-ot3zd

Back then we had great music. I'm so happy I got to grow up in that time. Kids today will never get experience what we did when we were kids.

@hawkeye1836

How many thousands of times have we all sang along with Bobby Vee
well, I'll start off the next thousand. R.I.P. Brother, Thanks for the Love.

@ladonnaghareeb4609

Such a beautiful song. Bobby Vee will ALWAYS be missed. Thank you for sharing your wonderful talent with the world.

@bamagirl6647

This brings back so many memories... what I would give for a time machine.

@roseloose1013

Was so devastated to hear of Bobby Vee's passing. So enjoyed listening to all of his greatest songs. Gone but never will be forgotten. RiP Bobby.

@robertroudi5879

Never Rose he was so underrated God bless Bobby !!!!

@traceysellers7945

This song reminded me what it would of been. My late husband was 21 years older than me. I was just being born . He was 21. I dearly miss him... I wish we would of had more time together.

@pattyj5846

The best time of my life was the 60s. Thank you

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