You Got To Know How
Bonnie Raitt Lyrics


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You can make me do what you wanna do
But you got to know how,
You can make me cry, you can make me sigh,
But you got to know how,
You can make me do like this, you can make me do like that,
Woh, baby, but you got to know how.

Once a pal of mine stole a guy of mine,
But I got him back, now,
It's the same old song, she couldn't keep him long,
'Cause she didn't know how.
Well, I love my man, I make him holler,
Woh, my,
Yessir, I really know how.

Technique ain't tough, if you care enough,
You can learn to know how,
I might drop a hint how to strike my flint
If you yearn to know how,
Well, don't tell me about the life you led,
Don't try to drink me into bed,
No, baby, no, that ain't the way how.

You got to take your time, you know it ain't no crime
If it lasts all night.
I think you'll be ideal when you begin to feel
That you're doin' right.

When you love me right, you hear me holler,
Woh, my,
Yessir, when you really know how.

(instrumental break)

And if you stay with me, who knows how it will be
When we finally know how,
We'll get a house in town, no need to move around
When we really know how,
Well, there's tricks that I don't even know,
Ones we'll make up as we go.




Woh, mister, when we really know how.
Yes, mister, when we really know how.

Overall Meaning

The song "You Got To Know How" by Bonnie Raitt talks about the importance of knowing how to please your partner in a relationship. The lyrics suggest that having the ability to make someone do what you want them to or make them cry is not enough, but one must know how to do it. The phrase "you got to know how" is repeated throughout the song, emphasizing how crucial it is to have the right skills in a relationship.


Bonnie Raitt uses an anecdote to illustrate her point, recalling how a friend of hers failed to keep a guy because she didn't know how to please him. Raitt, on the other hand, claims to know how to make her man holler, indicating that she has the skills necessary to keep a relationship strong.


The song also touches on the importance of taking the time to know each other's needs and not rushing things. Raitt suggests that it is not a crime to take all night and that it is essential to get to a point where both partners know how to please each other.


Overall, the song stresses the importance of knowing what your partner likes and dislikes and how to please them. It implies that good communication, patience, and effort are essential in a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

You can make me do what you wanna do But you got to know how,
You have the power to make me do anything, but to do so you must possess the knowledge and skill required to execute your desired actions upon me.


You can make me cry, you can make me sigh, But you got to know how,
You have the ability to bring me to tears and make me feel sadness or grief, but you must have the know-how to elicit these emotions within me.


You can make me do like this, you can make me do like that, Woh, baby, but you got to know how.
You can take different approaches to manipulating me, but whichever you choose, you must possess the necessary skill and knowledge to bring about the desired result.


Once a pal of mine stole a guy of mine, But I got him back, now, It's the same old song, she couldn't keep him long, 'Cause she didn't know how.
A friend of mine once stole my man, but I managed to get him back. She was unable to keep him for long because she lacked the necessary knowledge and skill to maintain his love.


Well, I love my man, I make him holler, Woh, my, Yessir, I really know how.
I deeply love my man, and I know exactly how to give him pleasure and satisfaction in our relationship.


Technique ain't tough, if you care enough, You can learn to know how,
The techniques required to please me are not difficult to master, provided you put in the effort to learn and pay attention to my needs.


I might drop a hint how to strike my flint If you yearn to know how,
I may provide subtle indications or clues on how to arouse my passions and ignite my ardor, if you express a desire to learn how to please me.


Well, don't tell me about the life you led, Don't try to drink me into bed, No, baby, no, that ain't the way how.
Do not attempt to impress or seduce me with tales of your past or by getting me drunk. These tactics are ineffective and do not address my deeper needs.


You got to take your time, you know it ain't no crime If it lasts all night.
Take your time and do not rush our physical experiences. There is no shame in spending the entire night pleasing each other.


I think you'll be ideal when you begin to feel That you're doin' right.
I believe that you will be perfect in pleasing me once you begin to intuitively sense what actions bring me pleasure, and you execute them perfectly.


When you love me right, you hear me holler, Woh, my, Yessir, when you really know how.
When you please me perfectly, I cannot help but vocally express my pleasure, saying things like 'woh' or 'yessir', and this will happen once you demonstrate that you truly know how to make me happy.


(instrumental break)
Musical interlude that plays without lyrics.


And if you stay with me, who knows how it will be When we finally know how, We'll get a house in town, no need to move around When we really know how,
If you stay with me and we both learn how to please each other, we could have a happy long-term relationship without needing to move from place to place. The conditions we can achieve when we truly know how to love each other are infinite.


Well, there's tricks that I don't even know, Ones we'll make up as we go. Woh, mister, when we really know how. Yes, mister, when we really know how.
There are things I do not yet know when it comes to physical intimacy, and those we will discover together through experimentation and exploration. When we both really know how to please each other, the results will be pure ecstasy.




Lyrics © ACORN PUBLISHING
Written by: JACK VIERTEL, SIPPIE WALLACE

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