Bridges
Boy & Bear Lyrics


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Get up and dance girl
I'm in a rock and roll band
That makes me more of a man
Didn't you know?

'Cause I been hard to stand
'Cause I'm drunk and I'm easy
But I'm in need of your body
And nothing more

It's up to you now honey
So what am I dreaming of now?
I got the best now honey
So what am I dreaming of now?

And all my friends think I'm selfish
Some kind of idiot dreamer
I'm burning bridges like bomb hits ba-by
I'm in no mood to try anymore

It's up to you now honey
So what am I dreaming of now?
White picket fence now honey
But what are you dreaming of now?

Another cocaine footprint
But what are you dreaming of now?
I've had the best now honey
So what am I dreaming of now?

Oh and I need to be wanted
'Cause my Kingdom come-
Is a-coming undone...

It's up to you now honey
So what am I dreaming of now?
White picket fence now honey
But what am I dreaming of now?

Another cocaine footprint
But what are you dreaming of now?




I've had the best now honey
So what am I dreaming of now?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Boy & Bear's song Bridges appear to tell the story of a man who is struggling with his own identity and self-worth. The opening lines, "Get up and dance girl, I'm in a rock and roll band, that makes me more of a man, didn't you know?" suggest that he may be using his career as a way to feel more masculine or validated. However, he admits that he has been difficult to deal with due to his tendency to drink and his need for physical intimacy, even though he doesn't want anything more from the person he is with.


The chorus, "It's up to you now honey, So what am I dreaming of now? White picket fence now honey, But what are you dreaming of now? Another cocaine footprint, But what are you dreaming of now? I've had the best now honey, So what am I dreaming of now?" seems to highlight the disconnect between what he thinks he wants - a stable life with a white picket fence - and what his actions indicate he actually wants - a life of hedonism and excess.


Line by Line Meaning

Get up and dance girl
Encouraging the girl to dance and have fun


I'm in a rock and roll band
Stating that the singer is a musician


That makes me more of a man
Implying that being in a band increases his masculinity


Didn't you know?
Asking if the girl was aware of this fact


'Cause I been hard to stand
Acknowledging that the artist can be difficult to deal with


'Cause I'm drunk and I'm easy
Admitting that he is both intoxicated and sexually available


But I'm in need of your body
Expressing the singer's desire for physical intimacy


And nothing more
Clarifying that he is not looking for an emotional connection


It's up to you now honey
Putting the decision in the girl's hands


So what am I dreaming of now?
Wondering about the future


I got the best now honey
Suggesting that he is content in the present moment


And all my friends think I'm selfish
Acknowledging that his friends have negative opinions of him


Some kind of idiot dreamer
Describing the singer in a self-deprecating way


I'm burning bridges like bomb hits ba-by
Comparing his behavior to an act of destruction


I'm in no mood to try anymore
Admitting that he is not interested in making an effort


White picket fence now honey
Mentioning a common symbol of the American Dream


But what are you dreaming of now?
Asking the girl about her own desires


Another cocaine footprint
Referring to a past addiction or habit


I've had the best now honey
Claiming that the singer has already experienced the best things in life


Oh and I need to be wanted
Expressing a desire to be desired


'Cause my Kingdom come-
Referencing a line from the Lord's Prayer


Is a-coming undone...
Suggesting that the artist's life is falling apart




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They should have millions of views by now... not 3600.... 

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