Interest in the band was immediate and a short while later they signed to New Jersey based Ferret Records. Their debut full-length, 2003's Make Yourself Sick, was to the shock of some fans much lighter and punk-pop-oriented, but with the same heavy screaming and guitars found on earlier releases. It was shortly after this when drummer Ben Arseneau parted with the band and was replaced by former Fordirelifesake guitarist Brian Southall.
The band's next effort came in the form of 2005's Trainwreck. This release was a somewhat more subdued, experimental concept record based on a man's loss of sanity. It was in this same album where the boys made a brave move by introducing Kara Dupuy, who brought with her not only a fresh, new synth to their sound but female vocals as well. But all good things have to end and after only a short stint with the band they parted ways.
Trainwreck tells the story of a man who murders his wife, with whom he is deeply in love with, all while under the influence of deeply troubling dreams. Upon waking from these dreams, he realizes what he's done and slips into a catatonic state. The remainder of the album follows the man from his release from a psych ward, through his obsession with a song heard only by him. He belives the song influences himself to kill more, so he cuts off both his own hands, to never kill again. The eventual conclusion of the story where he dies from a overdose and a infection from the rusty machine used to cut his hands off. Trainwreck is a tribute to the versatility of Boys Night Out. Their style has evolved and matured, but the components that are explicitly BNO remain in their music.
In early 2006, Kara Dupuy (vocals and synthesizer/keyboard) left Boys Night Out due to her engagement. She has not currently been replaced. Later that year, Andy Lewis, formerly of The Fullblast, joined Boys Night Out on guitar, and Ben Arseneau, the original drummer in the band, re-joined after Brian Southall left to join The Receiving End of Sirens.
Yeah No... I Know...
Boys Night Out Lyrics
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Cause' something's not right
It's all going wrong tonight
In between thebottom of this bottle and you
I think I'm running into rock bottom
This time I'm in over my head from couting times that Ive said
"This time I'm in over my head from counting times that I've said it's over it's over"
Someone call in an ambulance
It took time to fashion this noose
From fine threads of self-abuse
And it fits your neck perfectly. Securely
Your heels hit heavy on the hardwood
Not that it did any good
My love, you've been a constant headache for me
If it came down to this act or one more near heart attack
You wouldn't have a hope in hell my darling
It all comes down to this act
Don't stop the heartbeat countine
I know that I'm responsible for this, and I'll miss you
Maybe in time, I'll find out what it is that I'm supposed to do
I've made a million messes and I'll make a million more
Trust me baby, maybe im not the man you're searching for
Someone call in an ambulance
The lyrics to Boys Night Out's song Yeah No... I Know... explore the dark and murky feelings of despair, self-hatred, and toxic relationships. The song begins with a plea for someone to call an ambulance because something is not right. The singer is going through a difficult time and feels like he's hitting rock bottom. The cause of his distress is between the bottom of a bottle and you, indicating that he may be struggling with substance abuse and a toxic relationship.
The chorus repeats the plea for someone to call an ambulance, emphasizing the sense of urgency in the situation. The singer acknowledges that he's said multiple times that it's over and he's in over his head. However, he's still struggling and finds himself in a situation where he needs help.
The second verse features a shift in perspective, as the singer addresses someone else who is struggling. The imagery of a noose made from threads of self-abuse and the idea that it fits your neck perfectly and securely paints a picture of someone who is suffocating in their own pain. The line "My love, you've been a constant headache for me" is a stark contrast to the endearments of the first verse and shows the toxicity of the relationship. The singer acknowledges that if it came down to this act, one more near heart attack, the other person wouldn't have a hope in hell. The song ends on a resigned note, with the singer admitting responsibility for the situation, expressing regret, and acknowledging that maybe he's not the man the other person is searching for.
Line by Line Meaning
Someone call in an ambulance
The situation is dire and requires immediate attention.
Cause' something's not right
There is an issue that needs to be addressed.
It's all going wrong tonight
Things are not going as planned and it's causing distress.
In between the bottom of this bottle and you
Alcohol and a problematic relationship are my downfall.
I think I'm running into rock bottom
The situation has reached its lowest point.
This time I'm in over my head from counting times that I've said it's over it's over
I am in too deep and cannot seem to walk away from the relationship despite trying multiple times before.
It took time to fashion this noose
The self-destructive behavior has been brewing for a while.
From fine threads of self-abuse
The self-destructive behavior is made up of small but harmful actions.
And it fits your neck perfectly. Securely
The damaging behavior is inherently a part of me and the other person, and it fits us perfectly.
Your heels hit heavy on the hardwood
The other person is struggling just like I am.
Not that it did any good
Despite our struggles, we cannot break free from the codependent relationship.
My love, you've been a constant headache for me
This relationship has been nothing but a source of stress and pain for both parties.
If it came down to this act or one more near heart attack
The choice between ending the destructive relationship or continuing and risking further emotional damage has come to a head.
You wouldn't have a hope in hell my darling
The chances of salvaging the relationship are slim to none.
It all comes down to this act
The final decision to either end or continue the damaging relationship will determine everything.
Don't stop the heartbeat countine
Regardless of the outcome, life goes on and the heart must continue to beat.
I know that I'm responsible for this, and I'll miss you
I understand that I played a role in our current situation, and I will miss the other person if we part ways.
Maybe in time, I'll find out what it is that I'm supposed to do
Perhaps with time, I will understand what my purpose is and how to move forward.
I've made a million messes and I'll make a million more
I have made countless mistakes in the past, and I will inevitably make more in the future.
Trust me baby, maybe I'm not the man you're searching for
Despite our love for each other, I may not be what the other person needs or wants in a partner.
Contributed by Henry F. Suggest a correction in the comments below.