Based on sales, Boyz II Men is one of the most successful R&B groups of all time, having recorded five #1 pop hits between 1992 and 1997. They have since topped sales of 25 million records. Three of their #1 hits, "End of the Road", "I'll Make Love to You", and "One Sweet Day" (a duet with Mariah Carey), set and broke records for the longest period of time a single remained at #1 on the Billboard Hot 100.
Boyz II Men were originally signed to Motown Records from 1990 to 2000, at which point they were moved to parent label Universal Records. After the 2000 album Nathan Shawn Michael Wanya, Boyz II Men moved to Arista Records. In 2003, Michael McCary left the group due to chronic back problems resulting from scoliosis. As of 2005, Wanya Morris, Shawn Stockman, and Nathan Morris continue to tour and record as a trio.
I Can Love You
Boyz II Men Lyrics
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Turn down the bed
Turn down these voices
Inside my head
Lay down with me
Tell me no lies
Just hold me close
Don't patronize
I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel
Somethin' it wont
Here in the dark,in these final hours
I will lay down my heart
And feel the power if you wont
No you wont
Cause I can't make you love me
If you don't
I'll close my eyes
Then I wont see
The love you don't feel
When your holdin' me
Morning will come
And I'll do whats right
Just give me till then
To give up this fight
And I will give up this fight
I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel
Somethin' it wont
Here in the dark,in these final hours
I will lay down my heart
And feel the power if you wont
No you wont
Cause I can't make you love me
If you don't
In their song "I Can't Make You Love Me," Boyz II Men use powerful imagery and emotive vocals to explore the heartbreak of love unrequited. The singer of the song is pained by the fact that they cannot control their lover's feelings, no matter how deeply they yearn for them to return their love. The opening lines of the song suggest a desperation to escape from the overwhelming thoughts and emotions that are consuming the singer, as they ask to "turn down the lights" and "turn down these voices / inside my head." The stripped-back instrumentation and the soft, soulful harmonies of the group lend an intimate and vulnerable quality to the song, further underscoring the singer's raw emotional state.
As the song progresses, the singer lays bare their desire for their lover to reciprocate their feelings, asking them to "lay down with me, tell me no lies" and to "just hold me close, don't patronize." Yet, despite their pleas, the singer acknowledges that they cannot force someone to love them if they don't feel the same way. This realization is evident in the chorus, where they sing "I can't make you love me if you don't / You can't make your heart feel somethin' it won't." The song's title is a poignant reminder of the powerlessness that comes with unrequited love.
The final lines of the song suggest a bittersweet acceptance of the reality of the situation. The singer knows that they must let go of their hopes for a love that will never be returned, and they find solace in the knowledge that they did all they could. They sing, "I'll close my eyes, then I won't see / The love you don't feel when you're holdin' me / Morning will come and I'll do what's right / Just give me till then to give up this fight." These lines indicate that the singer understands that it is time to move on, even if their heart is still yearning.
Line by Line Meaning
Turn down the lights
Dim the brightness in this room
Turn down the bed
Adjust this bed to a softer position
Turn down these voices
Stop thinking about other people's opinions
Inside my head
Within my mind
Lay down with me
Lie beside me
Tell me no lies
Don't deceive me
Just hold me close
Embrace me tightly
Don't patronize
Don't speak to me as if I'm inferior
Don't patronize me
Don't talk down to me
I can't make you love me if you don't
I'm unable to force you to love me, if you don't feel it naturally
You can't make your heart feel
Even you can't force yourself to feel something that isn't truly there
Somethin' it wont
Something your heart isn't capable of feeling
Here in the dark, in these final hours
In this dimly lit room, during the last moments
I will lay down my heart
I will express my deepest emotions
And feel the power if you wont
Even though you won't reciprocate, I will still feel the strength of my feelings
No you wont
No, you won't love me back
Cause I can't make you love me
As I've said before, I can't make you truly love me
I'll close my eyes
I'll shut my eyes tight
Then I wont see
So I can't watch
The love you don't feel
The affection you don't have for me
When your holdin' me
When you have me in your arms
Morning will come
The sun will rise
And I'll do what's right
I will make the appropriate decision
Just give me till then
Just allow me some time before then
To give up this fight
To stop trying so hard for your love
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Unison Rights S.L., AMPLIFIED ADMINISTRATION, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Allen Shamblin, Michael Reid
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
Teneale Bender
The harmonies are so amazing. Fan from the beginning. My generation of r&b. Grew up with music like this. It just feels like home.
Adrian Ponder
Mike’s vocals in the chorus. 💯🔥
Bessie Lendzy
"Such SMOOTHNESS and INTERLECTUAL ABILITY to use their GOD GIVEN TALENT for the good of MANKIND." BOYZ II MEN, YOU GUYS are the WHOLE THING!!!" "And I am A FAN for LIFE!!"
Bessie Lendzy
"I stand FIRMLY on my OPINION." BOYZ II MEN ARE "THE GREATEST, "and I'll remain SUPPORTIVE, INDEFINITELY!!!
Loliah F
A lot of their "unreleased" songs are available on the Japanese versions of the album's. Japanese fans show them way more love than over here. So that is why they are fortunate to have these songs available to them.
only me
I'm so glad the young generation love our music in our Times it's these kind of groups made our time special and magical with beautiful songs like this and great artists voices were very inspiring for us back then Amen(:
ChadDaFan
I need those albums
FlutePlayer88
I love these types of songs from Boyz ii Men and im a long time fan
Angle Johnson
oh ok me too and im 27
Rubelin W
This is a beautiful song.