Where Do You Start?
Brad Mehldau Trio Lyrics


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Where do you start? How do you separate the present from the past?
How do you deal with all the thing you thought would last? That didn't last
With bits of memories scattered here and there
I look around and don't know where to start

Which books are yours?
Which tapes and dreams belong to you and which are mine?
Our lives are tangled like the branches of a vine that intertwine
So many habits that we'll have to break
And yesterday's we'll have to take apart

One day there'll be a song or something in the air again
To catch me by surprise and you'll be there again
A moment in what might have been

Where do you start? Do you allow yourself a little time to cry?
Or do you close your eyes and kiss it all goodbye? I guess you try
And though I don't know where and don't know when
I'll find myself in love again




I promise there will always be a little place no one will see
A tiny part within my heart, that stays in love with you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Brad Mehldau Trio's "Where Do You Start?" are a poignant representation of the complexity and confusion that accompany the end of a relationship. The song reflects on the aftermath of a breakup and the inability to distinguish between past and present, memories and realities, and what belongs to whom. The artist makes use of a series of questions to convey the sense of loss and despair, asking the listener if they know where to begin and how to separate themselves from the past. The uncertain attribution of memories and possessions makes it harder to move on, and the connection between two people is portrayed as a tangled vine, whose branches are difficult to unravel.


The artist also acknowledges the sorrow that comes with a breakup, asking if it's okay to give in to tears or whether it's better to shut the door completely. The song seems to suggest that there is no easy answer to these questions, and every person has to find their path to healing. The final verse expresses the idea that despite everything, love remains, albeit in a hidden place within oneself, waiting for the possibility of a reconnection that might never come.


Overall, "Where Do You Start?" is a powerful reflection on the aftermath of a breakup, and the feelings of confusion and loss that can come with it. The artist's use of questions and metaphors paints a vivid picture of the situation, allowing the listener to connect with the message on a more personal level.


Line by Line Meaning

Where do you start? How do you separate the present from the past?
How do you begin to move on? How do you distinguish what is currently happening from what has already happened?


How do you deal with all the thing you thought would last? That didn't last
How do you cope with things in your life that you believed would be permanent but ended up changing?


With bits of memories scattered here and there
With fragments of memories haphazardly placed throughout your life


I look around and don't know where to start
I'm overwhelmed and unsure of how to begin


Which books are yours?
Which books belong to you specifically?


Which tapes and dreams belong to you and which are mine?
Which shared experiences belong to each of us individually?


Our lives are tangled like the branches of a vine that intertwine
Our lives have become intertwined and complex, like the tangled branches of a vine


So many habits that we'll have to break
There are numerous habits we need to break in order to move forward


And yesterday's we'll have to take apart
There are things from the past that we must dismantle to move forward


One day there'll be a song or something in the air again
One day, there will be a moment that causes me to recall a memory


To catch me by surprise and you'll be there again
This moment will take me by surprise, and it will remind me of you


A moment in what might have been
A moment that makes me think about what could have been if things had gone differently


Where do you start? Do you allow yourself a little time to cry?
How do you begin to heal? Do you let yourself grieve?


Or do you close your eyes and kiss it all goodbye? I guess you try
Or do you force yourself to move on without properly processing what has happened? I suppose you attempt to do so


And though I don't know where and don't know when
Even though I'm uncertain about the future


I'll find myself in love again
I know that I will love again in the future


I promise there will always be a little place no one will see
I vow to always keep a part of myself that is private and hidden from others


A tiny part within my heart, that stays in love with you
A small portion of my heart will always be in love with you




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: ALAN BERGMAN, JOHNNY MANDEL, MARILYN BERGMAN

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