If You Love Me
Brian Kennedy Lyrics


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There's a place in my mind where
I know, where I go
When it all becomes too much
The words keep returning and
Burning me down

If you love me…(say so)
If you trust me (let go)
Is the answer safe in my heart?
Were you thinking (of me)?
When I was feeling (lonely)
Is the answer still safe in my heart?

Where's the time to be brave
When the world's come apart
While the road ahead's still clear
I can't seem to find what I'm
Wanting to hear

If you love me…(say so)
If you trust me (let go)
Is the answer safe in my heart?
Were you thinking (of me)?
When I was feeling (lonely)
Is the answer still safe in my heart?

I need a million questions answered
While everybody else is dancing
How many times
Have I wasted chances…

If you love me…(say so)
If you trust me (let go)
Is the answer safe in my heart?
Were you thinking (of me)?




When I was feeling (lonely)
Is the answer still safe in my heart?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Brian Kennedy's song "If You Love Me" convey themes of vulnerability, doubt, and the need for assurance in a relationship. The first stanza sets the tone, as the singer describes a mental space where he retreats when overwhelmed by his emotions. He alludes to the pain caused by the words that keep coming back to him, suggesting that he may bear some trauma or unresolved issues. He then poses a series of questions to his partner, asking for confirmation of their love and trust. He wonders if his partner was thinking of him in his moments of loneliness and if the answer is still safe in their heart. This implies that there may have been some doubt or mistrust in the past, and the singer seeks reassurance that the relationship is secure.


The second stanza continues the theme of uncertainty, as the singer laments the challenges of staying brave when the world around him is falling apart. He feels lost, unable to find the answers he is searching for. He contrasts his own predicament with the carefree attitude of others who are dancing without apparent worries. He then repeats the chorus, emphasizing the urgency of his need for answers, and the importance of the reassurance he seeks from his partner.


Overall, the lyrics of "If You Love Me" reveal the emotional depth of the singer, who struggles with unresolved issues from his past and seeks validation and security in his relationship. The song captures the universal experience of doubt and the need for reassurance in love.


Line by Line Meaning

There's a place in my mind where
I have a mental space where I retreat whenever life becomes overwhelming


I know, where I go
I am aware of this mental space and I seek it out when I need to


When it all becomes too much
When life becomes too stressful to handle


The words keep returning and
I keep mulling over certain words and phrases in my head


Burning me down
These words are causing me great emotional distress


If you love me…(say so)
I need you to tell me if you love me


If you trust me (let go)
If you have faith in me, you need to let go of your doubts


Is the answer safe in my heart?
I need to know if my feelings for you are reciprocated


Were you thinking (of me)?
I want to know if you were thinking about me


When I was feeling (lonely)
During the times when I was lonely


Is the answer still safe in my heart?
I need to know if my love for you is still protected and valued


Where's the time to be brave
I feel like there is never a good time to take a risk and show courage


When the world's come apart
Especially when everything is going wrong in the world around me


While the road ahead's still clear
Even when there is a clear path ahead for me


I can't seem to find what I'm
I am struggling to find what I am seeking


Wanting to hear
I want to hear that you love and trust me


I need a million questions answered
I have so many questions I need answered to feel secure in our relationship


While everybody else is dancing
While everyone else seems to be carefree and happy


How many times
I have missed out on so many opportunities


Have I wasted chances…
And now I'm afraid of wasting one more




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