That's Not Me
Brian Wilson Lyrics


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I had to prove that I could make it alone
But that's not me
I wanted to show how independent I'd grown now
But that's not me
I could try to be big in the eyes of the world
What matters to me is what I could be to just one girl
Just one girl
I'm a little bit scared
Cause I haven't been home in a long time
You needed my love
And I know that I left at the wrong time
My folks when I wrote them
Told 'em what I was up to said that's not me
I went through all kinds of changes
Took a look at myself and said that's not me
I miss my pad and the places I've known
And every night as I lay there alone I will dream, I will dream
I once had a dream
So I packed up and split for the city
I soon found out that my lonely life wasn't so pretty
I'm glad I went now I'm that much more sure that we're ready
I once had a dream
So I packed up and split for the city
I soon found out that my lonely life wasn't so pretty
I once had a dream
So I packed up and split for the city
I soon found out that my lonely life wasn't so pretty

I once had a dream
So I packed up and split for the city

Overall Meaning

The song "That's Not Me" is a introspective look at the artist, Brian Wilson's life journey. The first verse speaks to the need to prove oneself and show independence, while the following verse focuses on what really matters in life. The chorus of the song, with the line "That's not me" emphasizes the fact that the artist's persona and true self are not aligned, and he is trying to reconcile these two parts of his identity.


The second verse of the song reflects on the fear of returning home after a long period of time, as well as the regret of leaving when someone needed his love. The line "Took a look at myself and said that's not me" highlights the artist's moment of self-realization, in which he recognizes that the version of himself he had become was not authentic. The latter half of the song speaks to the dreams he once had and his journey to the city to pursue them, realizing that the "lonely life" he found was not what he had hoped. The repetition of "I once had a dream, So I packed up and split for the city" represents the artist's desire to hold onto his dreams and continue to pursue them despite feeling lost.


Line by Line Meaning

I had to prove that I could make it alone
I felt like I needed to show that I was self-sufficient and didn't need anyone else's help.


But that's not me
But deep down, I know that's not who I really am.


I wanted to show how independent I'd grown now
I wanted others to see how much I'd grown and changed as a person.


I could try to be big in the eyes of the world
I could focus on achieving fame and success on a grand scale.


What matters to me is what I could be to just one girl
But what really matters to me is the impact I can have on one special person.


I'm a little bit scared
I'm feeling anxious and unsure about my current situation.


Cause I haven't been home in a long time
I've been away for too long and I'm starting to feel homesick.


You needed my love
I know that someone important to me needed my support and affection.


And I know that I left at the wrong time
But unfortunately, I wasn't there for them when they needed me the most.


My folks when I wrote them
When I wrote to my parents to let them know what I was up to,


Told 'em what I was up to said that's not me
they told me that the person I was trying to become wasn't the real me.


I went through all kinds of changes
I went through a lot of personal growth and transformation.


Took a look at myself and said that's not me
But after some soul-searching, I realized that the person I was becoming wasn't really who I wanted to be.


I miss my pad and the places I've known
I really miss my home and familiar surroundings.


And every night as I lay there alone I will dream, I will dream
Every night, as I try to fall asleep by myself, I can't help but daydream about the things I miss and the things I hope for.


I once had a dream
I used to have a clear vision of what I wanted to achieve and who I wanted to be.


So I packed up and split for the city
That's why I decided to leave my old life behind and move to the big city.


I soon found out that my lonely life wasn't so pretty
But once I got there, I quickly realized that being alone and pursuing fame wasn't as satisfying as I had hoped.


I'm glad I went now I'm that much more sure that we're ready
But going through that experience helped me to learn more about myself and what really matters, and now I feel more prepared for the future.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BRIAN WILSON, TONY ASHER

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