Hold on for Dear Love
Bridgit Mendler Lyrics


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I've been staring at the ceiling
Watching the fans flow around, round and round
'Cause I can't hear my breathing
The words we said are still so loud, loud, loud

And we been drifting off so far
And I don't even know where we are
Before we jump, before we leave
And all is lost for you and me, yeah

If we're not stupid
We'll both hold on for dear love
Find our way through this
It's not worth just giving up
'Cause I've got some fire left in me
And I don't see us ending this way
If we're not stupid
We'll both hold on for dear love, love

I've been weighed down by the silence
All these words that don't come out, out
Been tempted just to write it
And say I'm sorry without a sound, sound, sound

'Cause we been drifting off so far
That I don't even know where we are
But we can try and we can speak
Before we're lost indefinitely

If we're not stupid
We'll both hold on for dear love
Find our way through this
It's not worth just giving up
'Cause I've got some fire left in me
And I don't see us ending this way
If we're not stupid
We'll both hold on for dear love, love

I been terribly human
Using you like a punching bag
And you been terribly angry
Taking out all your worst words on me
And I see what we were
And I know that we've hurt
But I know that it's worth it to fight
For all our love tonight

If we're not stupid
We'll both hold on for dear love
Find our way through this
It's not worth just giving up
'Cause I've got some fire left in me
And I don't see us ending this way
If we're not stupid




We'll both hold on for dear love, love
Love, love, love

Overall Meaning

Bridgit Mendler's song "Hold on for Dear Love" is a song that deals with the struggles of a relationship that is falling apart. Mendler sings of feeling isolated, unable to hear her own breathing, as she watches the ceiling fan turn round and round. The relationship that she is in has reached a point where the words they have said to each other are incredibly loud, and they are both unsure of where they stand.


The chorus of the song is a call to action, with Mendler asking her partner (and herself) not to give up. The lyrics are about holding on to dear love, even when things get tough. The chorus is a reminder that the fight for love is always worth it, and that it's not stupid to hold on when things get tough. The song is also a acknowledgement of the mistakes they have made in the relationship; Mendler confesses that she has used her partner as a punching bag and that her partner has been terribly angry. However, she also recognizes that these are just moments in a bigger picture and that it's still worth fighting for.


Overall, "Hold on for Dear Love" is an inspiring song that emphasizes on perseverance and hope. It reminds listeners that no matter how difficult things may seem, there is always a chance to save a relationship if both people are willing to hold on and keep trying.


Line by Line Meaning

I've been staring at the ceiling
I have been lying in bed, looking upwards with nothing but my thoughts.


Watching the fans flow around, round and round
As I lay, my gaze shifts to the ceiling fan rotating in a circular motion.


'Cause I can't hear my breathing
My thoughts are so loud, I am unaware of the sound of my own breathing.


The words we said are still so loud, loud, loud
The words we exchanged during past altercation still linger so loud in my mind.


And we been drifting off so far
Our relationship has strayed far off course.


And I don't even know where we are
I do not know where we stand with each other.


Before we jump, before we leave
Before we rashly end things or make a difficult decision.


And all is lost for you and me, yeah
Before we lose each other completely.


If we're not stupid
If we are smart and think rationally.


We'll both hold on for dear love
We will hold on to the love we have, despite the difficulties.


Find our way through this
We will find our way out of this difficult time in our relationship.


It's not worth just giving up
Giving up on each other is not an option.


'Cause I've got some fire left in me
I still have strength and passion for this relationship.


And I don't see us ending this way
I do not envision our relationship ending in such a negative way.


I've been weighed down by the silence
I have been burdened by the lack of communication between us.


All these words that don't come out, out
There are so many things I want to say, but I cannot find the words.


Been tempted just to write it
I have thought about writing my feelings down instead of speaking them.


And say I'm sorry without a sound, sound, sound
I would apologize to you without speaking, in hopes of renewing our relationship.


But we can try and we can speak
We can make an effort to speak to each other and work on repairing our relationship.


Before we're lost indefinitely
Before we lose each other for good.


I been terribly human
I have acted purely on my emotions, making mistakes along the way.


Using you like a punching bag
I have taken out my frustrations on you unfairly.


And you been terribly angry
You have been rightfully upset with me.


Taking out all your worst words on me
You have responded with harsh words, attempting to hurt me back.


And I see what we were
I remember what our relationship once was.


And I know that we've hurt
I acknowledge that we have both caused pain to each other.


But I know that it's worth it to fight
I believe that it is worth it to put in the effort to save our relationship.


For all our love tonight
Our love is worth fighting for, especially tonight.


Love, love, love
Our relationship is based on love, which is what is driving me to save it.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BRIDGIT CLAIRE MENDLER, FREDDY WEXLER, DONNELL SHAWN JR. BUTLER

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