Falling Out of Love
Bright Eyes Lyrics


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Tell me what you wanted to hear
Let me do the right thing
Let me do the wrong thing
And if it's ever this clear

I will only say it once
So turn the amps way up
So you can hear nothing
And if I die tonight then I guess I die tonight

Let me go one
Just say what you wanted to say
I cannot stand these talks dear
They only get us nowhere

It's never resolved
We only run around
You always say that anyone could be just like me




If it was a different time and a different place to be
You would go on

Overall Meaning

Bright Eyes's "Falling Out of Love at This Volume" is a song that explores the complex nature of romantic relationships that have lost their intensity. The lyrics suggest that the singer is aware that their partner has fallen out of love with them and is no longer interested in pursuing the relationship. The singer is seeking clarity from their partner, asking them to be honest about their feelings and desires, even if it means that they will hear things that they don't want to.


The singer's desperation to understand why the relationship has faltered is evident in the lines, "Tell me what you wanted to hear / Let me do the right thing / Let me do the wrong thing." They want to do whatever it takes to save the relationship, even if it means making mistakes or going against their instincts. However, the singer recognizes that the situation is not black and white, and that there may not be a clear explanation for why their partner has fallen out of love.


The chorus of the song, "If it's ever this clear / I will only say it once / So turn the amps way up / So you can hear nothing / And if I die tonight then I guess I die tonight," suggests that the singer has given up trying to control the situation and is willing to face the truth, even if it is painful. The desperation in the lyrics highlights the emotional complexity of relationships that have fallen out of love.


Line by Line Meaning

Tell me what you wanted to hear
Please tell me what you wished I would say


Let me do the right thing
Allow me to act altruistically and honorably


Let me do the wrong thing
Permit me the opportunity to act selfishly or deviously


And if it's ever this clear
And if circumstances are ever this unmistakable


I will only say it once
I will utter it only one time


So turn the amps way up
Amplify the volume of the singers


So you can hear nothing
So you can block out all external sound


And if I die tonight then I guess I die tonight
And if my life ends tonight, then so be it


Let me go one
Allow me to speak plainly


Just say what you wanted to say
Express what you truly wish to communicate


I cannot stand these talks dear
I find these discussions unbearable, my love


They only get us nowhere
They simply lead us down fruitless paths


It's never resolved
It's never truly settled


We only run around
It always feels like we're going in circles


You always say that anyone could be just like me
You frequently claim that there are many others who could be similar to me


If it was a different time and a different place to be
If the circumstances had been different


You would go on
You would continue to live and move forward, regardless




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Written by: OBERST

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Matthew Mohri

@Shea This song inspired what I just wrote. Not sure what to call this one.
"You can talk in circles
About a love song that never
Pans out
I'll talk in multiple dimensions
I've visited on the Astral Plane
To give you keys to freedoms
You never knew existed
Space and distance
Our consciousness
Is resistance
To breaking chains
We were taught to embrace



All comments from YouTube:

Sadie Perry

Conor’s music has always and will always carry me throughout my life. At every point in this timeline of ours, he has created a song for it. I am forever grateful.

Digital_Urn

Yeah yeah yeah we know

Kayla

Perfectly said. 🥲💙

Nathan Mays

So on point for me too…. I like this version more than the original too!

Jan-Michael

Same.

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Chris Denton

Bright Eyes has been the one constant on my list of five or six albums which I have on constant repeat at any given time, and usually it's two or even three bright eyes albums. Up until I heard nothing gets crossed out when I was 20 in 2001, I didn't know that anyone else alive felt like I did and I sobbed for hours afterwards. Now, of course, I know that everyone feels the feels and such but i feel like I only know that because Connor and bright eyes taught me how to be a human. And it's amazing how the songs have constantly transformed and seem to not only have something new to show me but are always immediately relevant to my life. I have it that is because of the authenticity and vulnerability in which they were birthed which enables them to be almost perfect mirrors enabling us each to truly see ourselves and grow in that clarity.

how-to-get-over-the-rainbow

I was skating with the 4star company they made hoodies mostly custom for friends and we all were 16-19 it was great bright eyes stars coco rose and cloud cult tons of grind core my buddy had a band oh captain oh captain I didn't even know it but it was all happening over and over and I finally calm down get a year or two to myself and it seems like I forgot what I was after this hole time I don't know if I want anything again not if it's at the cost of someone else I keep hearing I'm my head the wolf has eyes of pay and the cow eyes for hay but I don't Wana be the killer and Im definitely not into being the pray so where does that really leave me there are lots of different kinds of merchants merchants of poison , time , sword ,sheld I think I was just happy ignorantly doing what made me feel idk what I want or where I'm going but I know that bright eyes was a punk rock some that changed me I'm not sure if it it's what I'll really what in the end but I'm happy I'm not ignoring the world around me anymore I know my actions hurt no matter what but idk where do go if all I can do is step on egg shells maybe if I do it like die hard and go bare foot so it hurt me and the one leaving all the egg shells it's not like I can't just clean my feet later right

Brian Stewart

Always had a soft spot for the original.
This, however, is an unexpected delight.
Full band arrangement to full potential👌🏻

daniel de saussure

i swear this is my fucking favorite song, i’m still speechless. I love you guys, a lot. 💗

Joseph Boyer

Love this! Thank you for re-recording!

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