Soon You Will Be Leaving Your Man
Bright Eyes Lyrics


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He always gets so mad things you laugh at
"Don't get so worked up" you'd say, but on the back deck you admit
That you haven't felt much like laughing lately anyway
And so I say, that could change

I noticed how you waste no time making your way across the room
You leave a wake of tongues still waving after you
And it isn't no coincidence where you finally choose to stand
I guess soon you will be leaving your man

It's a sweet smile and then a denial
Hey, you are just trying to be nice
But there is a meaning to every fleeting action you unconsciously decide
The clocks, they chime, now it's time

I know you try and play it cool but there are some thoughts
You just can't hide, only in your closest friends do you confide
The way you say you'll be seeing me, oh, like it's so offhand
I guess soon you will be leaving your man

You stare at me so boldly now, you have no lack of confidence
It's just those lessons on subtlety you missed




I know you dream of saving me like I'm some plane that you could land
But when you fly you'll be leaving your man

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Bright Eyes’ song “Soon You Will Be Leaving Your Man” describe a situation where the singer has noticed that the woman he desires is unhappy with her current partner. The man she is with is insecure and gets mad at things she laughs at, while she admits that she hasn’t felt like laughing lately. The singer observes how she wastes no time making her way across the room, leaving a wake of tongues still waving after her, and how she unconsciously chooses where to stand. He knows that she is trying to play it cool but there are some thoughts that she just can’t hide, and only in her closest friends does she confide. She tells the singer that she’ll be seeing him, but she says it so offhand that he knows she’ll be leaving her man soon.


The lyrics are filled with metaphors and allegories that portray the woman’s feeling and the singer’s perception of them. For example, the clocks chime, indicating that time is running out for her to make a decision. The woman’s dream of saving the singer like he is some plane that she could land reveals her desire to be with him.


Overall, the lyrics of “Soon You Will Be Leaving Your Man” paint a picture of a woman who feels trapped in her current relationship and is looking for a way out. The singer is there for her, offering her love and support, but ultimately he knows that she must make the decision to leave her man on her own.


Line by Line Meaning

He always gets so mad things you laugh at
You find his temper unreasonable and childish, unable to take a joke.


"Don't get so worked up" you'd say, but on the back deck you admit
You try to placate him, but privately you acknowledge how exhausting it is to deal with his anger.


That you haven't felt much like laughing lately anyway
His behavior has caused you to lose your sense of humor and joy in life.


And so I say, that could change
As your friend, I offer hope that things could improve with time.


I noticed how you waste no time making your way across the room
You move with purpose, drawing attention and leaving an impression wherever you go.


You leave a wake of tongues still waving after you
People can't help but talk about you after you've passed by, wondering who you are and what you're about.


And it isn't no coincidence where you finally choose to stand
You strategically position yourself in a way that maximizes your impact and influence.


I guess soon you will be leaving your man
Your behavior suggests that you're considering leaving your current partner.


It's a sweet smile and then a denial
You often use a charming facade to deflect attention or criticism.


Hey, you are just trying to be nice
You don't want to come across as rude or unapproachable, even if you're not interested in the other person.


But there is a meaning to every fleeting action you unconsciously decide
Your actions, even if done on impulse, have deeper intentions behind them.


The clocks, they chime, now it's time
The timing of events seems to be aligning in a way that suggests change is imminent.


I know you try and play it cool but there are some thoughts
You attempt to hide your true feelings about things, but they still slip out in unguarded moments.


You just can't hide, only in your closest friends do you confide
Your true self is only visible to those you trust the most and feel comfortable around.


The way you say you'll be seeing me, oh, like it's so offhand
You invite me to spend time with you in a casual manner, but I sense that there's something more significant behind it.


I guess soon you will be leaving your man
Your actions suggest that you're contemplating leaving your current partner and pursuing something new.


You stare at me so boldly now, you have no lack of confidence
You look at me directly and with purpose, displaying a confidence and assertiveness that's attractive and intriguing.


It's just those lessons on subtlety you missed
You sometimes lack finesse or tact when it comes to expressing yourself or dealing with others.


I know you dream of saving me like I'm some plane that you could land
You have a desire to rescue or fix others, including me, as if we're helpless or in need of your guidance.


But when you fly you'll be leaving your man
You can't help others until you've taken care of yourself first, starting with making the necessary changes in your own life.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: OBERST, Conor Oberst

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