When I Was Your Man
Bruno Mars(브루노 마스) Lyrics


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Same bed but it feels just a little bit bigger now
Our song on the radio but it don't sound the same
When our friends talk about you, all it does is just tear me down
'Cause my heart breaks a little when I hear your name

It all just sounds like ooh, ooh ooh hoo hoo
Mm, too young, too dumb to realize
That I should have bought you flowers
And held your hand
Should have gave you all my hours
When I had the chance
Take you to every party 'cause all you wanted to do was dance

Now my baby's dancing
But she's dancing with another man

My pride, my ego, my needs, and my selfish ways
Caused a good strong woman like you to walk out my life
Now I never, never get to clean up the mess I made, oh
And it haunts me every time I close my eyes

It all just sounds like ooh, ooh ooh ooh ooh
Mm, too young, too dumb to realize
That I should have bought you flowers
And held your hand
Should have gave you all my hours
When I had the chance
Take you to every party 'cause all you wanted to do was dance

Now my baby's dancing
But she's dancing with another man

Although it hurts
I'll be the first to say that I was wrong
Oh, I know I'm probably much too late
To try and apologize for my mistakes
But I just want you to know

I hope he buys you flowers
I hope he holds your hand
Give you all his hours
When he has the chance
Take you to every party
'Cause I remember how much you loved to dance
Do all the things I should have done
When I was your man




Do all the things I should have done
When I was your man

Overall Meaning

The song "When I Was Your Man" by Bruno Mars is a poignant expression of regret by a man who lost the love of his life due to his own selfishness and immaturity. The lyrics draw attention to the little things that the man failed to do, like buying her flowers, holding her hand, and taking her to parties just so she could dance. The contrast between the past and the present is conveyed through the imagery of the same bed that now feels a little bit bigger, the song on the radio that no longer sounds the same, and the fact that his baby is now dancing with another man.


The chorus of the song emphasizes the man's realization that he was "too young, too dumb to realize" the importance of these small gestures, and how they could have made a big difference to his relationship. He acknowledges that his pride, ego, and selfishness caused a good woman to walk out of his life and that he will never have the chance to clean up the mess he made. This is a deeply moving song that speaks to anyone who has ever lost a great love due to their own mistakes, and the pain and regret that follows.


Line by Line Meaning

Same bed but it feels just a little bit bigger now
Although we sleep in the same bed, it seems a little more spacious; perhaps because we are emotionally distant.


Our song on the radio but it don't sound the same
Hearing our song on the radio doesn't evoke the same feelings as it once did; it reminds me how we've grown apart.


When our friends talk about you, all it does is just tear me down
More than anything, hearing about you from mutual friends just brings sadness and distress.


'Cause my heart breaks a little when I hear your name
Even just hearing your name causes a small part of me to feel a sense of heartbreak and loss.


It all just sounds like ooh, ooh ooh hoo hoo
Everything related to our past love just sound like a collection of non-distinct sounds, rather than the meaningful moments they once were.


Mm, too young, too dumb to realize
Looking back, I wasn't mature or thoughtful enough to realize just how much you meant to me at that time, and how important it was to cherish our relationship.


That I should have bought you flowers
Giving you a token of affection like flowers would have been a simple gesture to show how much you meant to me.


And held your hand
I wish I had taken the time to hold your hand and show you physical affection more often.


Should have gave you all my hours
I should have given you more of my time and attention, rather than keeping it exclusively for my own pursuits.


When I had the chance
Looking back, I recognize that I had a chance to be a better partner, but I failed to live up to that opportunity.


Take you to every party 'cause all you wanted to do was dance
I should have encouraged you to go to parties more often, and respected your desire to dance and socialize.


Now my baby's dancing
Despite my previous shortcomings, you are still out there living your life and enjoying yourself.


But she's dancing with another man
However, seeing you with another man hurts me deeply and reminds me of my mistakes.


My pride, my ego, my needs, and my selfish ways
My own personal insecurities and selfishness prevented me from being the kind of partner you deserved.


Caused a good strong woman like you to walk out my life
As a result of my own shortcomings, you had no choice but to end our relationship and move on to someone who treated you better.


Now I never, never get to clean up the mess I made, oh
Sadly, I can never go back and fix the mistakes I made or the hurt I caused you.


And it haunts me every time I close my eyes
The regret I feel for my past actions is an ongoing source of pain, and something that I can't shake from my mind.


Although it hurts
Despite the pain of reflecting on our past, I know it's important to confront and address the mistakes I made.


I'll be the first to say that I was wrong
In order to move forward and start to heal, I need to take responsibility for my own failings and admit fault.


Oh, I know I'm probably much too late
Although I recognize my mistakes now, I also know that it's unlikely I can make things right with you at this point in time.


To try and apologize for my mistakes
Even though it's difficult, I need to try and make amends for the hurt I caused you, even if it may ultimately be fruitless.


But I just want you to know
Even if we can't go back and fix the past, I still want you to know that my feelings for you were genuine, and that I'm sorry for the hurt I caused.


I hope he buys you flowers
Although I messed up, I still hope that you are treated well by whoever is lucky enough to be with you now.


I hope he holds your hand
I hope that your partner is attentive and affectionate towards you in all the ways that I failed to be.


Give you all his hours
I hope that your partner is generous with their time and attention, and can provide you with everything that I was not able to offer.


Take you to every party
And above all, I hope that your new partner is mindful of your wants and needs, in a way that I never was.


'Cause I remember how much you loved to dance
Despite my imperfections, I still remember and appreciate all the wonderful things about you, and how full of life you were.


Do all the things I should have done
Even though I can't go back and do things over again, I hope that you know that my intentions towards you were always pure, and that I deeply regret how I fell short as a partner.


When I was your man
Ultimately, I wish that I could go back to a time when we were still together, and make the most of the opportunity to love you and treat you right.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., Universal Music Publishing Group, Downtown Music Publishing
Written by: ANDREW WYATT, ARI LEVINE, BRUNO MARS, PHILIP LAWRENCE, PETER GENE HERNANDEZ

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@graceys9735

Lyrics:

Same bed but it feels just a little bit bigger now
Our song on the radio but it don't sound the same
When our friends talk about you, all it does is just tear me down
'Cause my heart breaks a little when I hear your name

It all just sounds like oooooh…
Mmm, too young, too dumb to realize
That I should've bought you flowers
And held your hand
Should've gave you all my hours
When I had the chance
Take you to every party
'Cause all you wanted to do was dance
Now my baby's dancing
But she's dancing with another man

My pride, my ego, my needs, and my selfish ways
Caused a good strong woman like you to walk out my life
Now I'll never, never get to clean up the mess I made, ohh…
And it haunts me every time I close my eyes

It all just sounds like oooooh…
Mmm, too young, too dumb to realize
That I should've bought you flowers
And held your hand
Should've gave you all my hours
When I had the chance
Take you to every party
'Cause all you wanted to do was dance
Now my baby's dancing
But she's dancing with another man

Although it hurts
I'll be the first to say that I was wrong
Oh, I know I'm probably much too late
To try and apologize for my mistakes
But I just want you to know

I hope he buys you flowers
I hope he holds your hand
Give you all his hours
When he has the chance
Take you to every party
'Cause I remember how much you loved to dance
Do all the things I should have done
When I was your man
Do all the things I should have done
When I was your man



@prod.Stylus

It’s 2020. It’s been 7 years. It has been touching people’s hearts since day one. This song is special.

Update:

She was ugly af. I don't know wtf I was sad about.

On a real note tho, when I wrote this I was a heartbroken mess. I was a suicidal, depressed junkie who closed himself from every imaginable thing. The bathroom was my new home because it felt like a place of respected privacy, I only left to eat and go to school. This song kept me going because of the "hope' he sang about. Even though he's hoping for her. If she can move on, then one day I could too.

2/2/2023

I truly know that I've found the love of my life.

She definitely ain't ugly tho I'm fr this time. Source: Trust me bro. Nah fr she's beautiful. Anyways.

I'm in a fabulous and healthy relationship. I'm now doing exceptionally well in college and I'm chasing my dreams and passions. It will get better.

The only thing you have to do.... is to continue living. Much love to everyone struggling. I pray you decide to choose life. We care. We don't want you dead bro.



@rawiyaniraziq7985

Same bed but it feels just a little bit bigger now
Our song on the radio but it don't sound the same
When our friends talk about you, all it does is just tear me down
'Cause my heart breaks a little when I hear your name
It all just sounds like ooh, ooh, ooh, hoo
Mm, too young, too dumb to realize
That I should have bought you flowers
And held your hand
Should have gave you all my hours
When I had the chance
Take you to every party 'cause all you wanted to do was dance
Now my baby's dancing
But she's dancing with another man
My pride, my ego, my needs, and my selfish ways
Caused a good strong woman like you to walk out my life
Now I never, never get to clean up the mess I made, oh
And that haunts me every time I close my eyes
It all just sounds like ooh, ooh, ooh, hoo
Mm, too young, too dumb to realize
That I should have bought you flowers
And held your hand
Should have gave you all my hours
When I had the chance
Take you to every party 'cause all you wanted to do was dance
Now my baby's dancing
But she's dancing with another man
Although it hurts
I'll be the first to say that I was wrong
Oh, I know I'm probably much too late
To try and apologize for my mistakes
But I just want you to know
I hope he buys you flowers
I hope he holds your hand
Give you all his hours
When he has the chance
Take you to every party
'Cause I remember how much you loved to dance
Do all the things I should have done
When I was your man
Do all the things I should have done
When I was your man



@Todayharryisgoodboy

Same bed but it feels just
A little bit bigger now
Our song on the radio
But it don't sound the same
When our friends talk about you all
it does is just tear me down
'Cause my heart breaks a little
When I hear your name
It all just sounds like (oooooh)
Mmm too young too dumb to realize
That I

Should have bought you flowers
And held your hand
Should have gave you all my hours
When I had the chance
Take you to every party
'Cause all you wanted to do was dance
Now my baby is dancing
But she's dancing with another man

My pride my ego my needs and my selfish ways
Caused a good strong woman like you to walk out my life
Now I never, never get to clean up the mess I made
Ooh and it haunts me every time I close my eyes
It all just sounds like (oooooh)
Mmm too young too dumb to realize
That I

Should have bought you flowers
And held your hand
Should have gave you all my hours
When I had the chance
Take you to every party
'Cause all you wanted to do was dance
Now my baby is dancing
But shes dancing with another man

Although it hurts
I'll be the first to say
That I was wrong
Oh I know I'm probably much too late
To try and apologize for my mistakes
But I just want you to know

I hope he buys you flowers
I hope he holds your hand
Give you all his hours
When he has the chance
Take you to every party
'Cause I remember how much
You loved to dance
Do all the things I should have done
When I was your man
Do all the things I should have done
When I was your man



All comments from YouTube:

@giulialeone6964

if we’re still listening to this in 2021 we’re not legends.
we’re just heartbroken.

@annienach5754

True

@CanadianCoati

Meh it’s just a good song.

@trainyplayer4522

Not a heartbroken, Because this is my favorite music.

@aikomasaki726

FACTS

@Niikolas_Viibes

I’m not heartbroken it’s a great song tho

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@papum7614

12 years later, if you're watching this beautiful song, you are a legend

@damarisscamacho6740

😌

@leafgang7439

yup

@nabinaaman1809

😌😌😌

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