Just Friends
Burt Bacharach Lyrics


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You and me
We've traded hearts
I guess that's how
It always starts out
And then I guess it always ends

Look at us
(Now)
Sayin'
I don't think that you and me
Can just be friends
Maybe this is how the whole thing
Has to just end

And if we could
Have loved enough
(La la dee, la la dee dah dah, la la dah, la la dah, la la dah, la)
We would have handled
When it got rough
But one of us let go too soon

So here we are
(Here we are)
Now sayin'
I don't think that you and me
Can just be friends
Maybe this is how the whole thing
Has to just end

I wish you'd understand

It's funny how
When love has gone
There's only one left holdin' on




When someone's always hurtin' more
Still lonely for the other

Sayin'
I don't think that you and me
Can just be friends
(Hmm)
I don't ever wanna feel so much again
Feel again
Unless it's you
You, again
(La la dee, la la dee dah dah, la la dah, la la dah, la la dah, la)
I guess that's how it always starts out
And then I guess
It always ends

Look at us
(Look at us)
(Now)
Now sayin'
I don't think that you and me
Can just be friends
(Hmm)
Maybe this is how the whole thing
Has to just end?

La la dee, la la dee dah dah, la la dah, la la dah, la la dah, la

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Burt Bacharach's song "Just Friends" delve into the complexities of a romantic relationship that has ended, yet the lingering emotions and desire for more remain. The song explores the dynamic between two individuals who have traded hearts but find themselves unable to maintain a friendship after their romantic connection has dissipated.


The opening lines suggest that the relationship began by exchanging hearts, indicating a deep emotional bond from the start. However, as the lyrics progress, it becomes apparent that this connection was not sustainable, as it always ends in separation. The singer reflects on the difficulty of transitioning from lovers to friends, acknowledging that this may be the inevitable fate of their relationship.


One of the most poignant aspects of the song is the admission that if they had loved each other enough, they would have been able to overcome the challenges faced along the way. However, one of them let go too soon, implying that the timing or commitment was not equal, leading to the ultimate breakdown of the relationship.


The chorus repeats the refrain of not being able to be "just friends," emphasizing the impossibility of maintaining a platonic relationship after such intense romantic involvement. The singer expresses a desire to move on, not wanting to experience that level of emotion again unless it is with this particular person.


Overall, the lyrics of "Just Friends" capture the conflicting emotions of love lost, longing, and the struggles of transitioning from lovers to friends. It highlights the pain and challenges that often arise when attempting to forge a different type of connection after a romantic relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

You and me
Both of us


We've traded hearts
We have exchanged our feelings


I guess that's how
I suppose that's the way


It always starts out
Every time it begins


And then I guess it always ends
And then I suppose it always concludes


Look at us
Observe the two of us


(Now)
(At this moment)


Sayin'
Expressing


I don't think that you and me
I believe that you and I


Can just be friends
Can only maintain a platonic relationship


Maybe this is how the whole thing
Perhaps this is how the entire situation


Has to just end
Needs to come to a conclusion


And if we could
And in the event that we were able to


Have loved enough
Have experienced sufficient affection


(La la dee, la la dee dah dah, la la dah, la la dah, la la dah, la)
(Melodic interlude)


We would have handled
We would have managed


When it got rough
During difficult times


But one of us let go too soon
Yet one of us released their grasp prematurely


So here we are
Thus, this is our current situation


(Here we are)
(In this place)


Now sayin'
Currently expressing


I don't think that you and me
I believe that you and I


Can just be friends
Can only maintain a platonic relationship


Maybe this is how the whole thing
Perhaps this is how the entire situation


Has to just end
Needs to come to a conclusion


I wish you'd understand
I desire for you to comprehend


It's funny how
It is ironic how


When love has gone
Once love has vanished


There's only one left holdin' on
There is solely one remaining, clinging on


When someone's always hurtin' more
When one person is consistently in more pain


Still lonely for the other
Still longing for the other's company


Sayin'
Expressing


I don't think that you and me
I believe that you and I


Can just be friends
Can only maintain a platonic relationship


(Hmm)
(Thoughtful pause)


I don't ever wanna feel so much again
I never want to experience such intense emotions again


Feel again
Experience those emotions once more


Unless it's you
Unless it is specifically you


You, again
You, once more


(La la dee, la la dee dah dah, la la dah, la la dah, la la dah, la)
(Melodic interlude)


I guess that's how it always starts out
I suppose that's how it consistently begins


And then I guess
And then I suppose


It always ends
It always concludes


Look at us
Observe the two of us


(Look at us)
(Consciously examine us)


(Now)
(At this moment)


Now sayin'
Currently expressing


I don't think that you and me
I believe that you and I


Can just be friends
Can only maintain a platonic relationship


(Hmm)
(Thoughtful pause)


Maybe this is how the whole thing
Perhaps this is how the entire situation


Has to just end?
Needs to come to a conclusion?


La la dee, la la dee dah dah, la la dah, la la dah, la la dah, la
(Melodic interlude)




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: BURT BACHARACH, CAROLE BAYER SAGER

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