You Say You Don't Love Me
Buzzcocks Lyrics


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You say you don't love me
Well that's alright with me 'cause I'm in love with you
And I wouldn't want you doin' things, you don't want to do
Oh you know, I've always wanted you to be in love with me
And it took so long to realize, the way things have to be

I wanted to live in a dream that couldn't be real
And I'm starting to understand now the way that you feel
You say, you don't
You say, you don't

You say you don't love me
Well that's alright with me 'cause I have got the time
To wait in case someday, you maybe change your mind
I've decided not to make the same mistakes this time around
As I'm tired of having heartaches, I've been thinking and I've found

I don't want to live in a dream, I want somethin' real
And I think I understand now the way that you feel
You say you don't, you say you don't
You say you don't

You say, you don't
You say, you don't

You say you don't love me
Well that's alright with me, I'm not in love with you
I just want us to do the things, we both want to do
Though I've got this special feelin', I'd be wrong to call it love
For the word entails a few things that I would be well rid of

I've no need to live in a dream, it's finally real
And I hope you now understand this feelin' I feel
You say, you don't
You say, you don't

You say, you don't love me
You say, you don't love me




You say, you don't love me
Hmm

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Buzzcocks's song "You Say You Don't Love Me" reveal a complicated mix of emotions from the singer. The song is addressed to someone who claims not to love the singer in return, and while the singer asserts that it's okay with them, it's clear that they're struggling to fully accept this rejection. The refrain of "you say you don't" emphasizes the disconnect between what the other person is saying and what the singer is feeling.


The opening lines reveal that the singer is "in love with" the other person despite the imbalance in their feelings. They want the other person to be in love with them, but they acknowledge that it's not something they can force. The singer seems to have been holding onto a dream that their love would be reciprocated, but they're beginning to understand that this isn't realistic. The line "the way things have to be" suggests resignation, as if the singer is coming to terms with the fact that they'll never be with this person in the way they truly desire.


Later in the song, the singer asserts that they're not interested in living in a dream anymore. They want something real, and they claim to understand the other person's feelings more fully now. The repetition of "you say you don't" in this section is tinged with sadness; the singer seems to be emphasizing the finality of this rejection.


Line by Line Meaning

You say you don't love me
The singer is acknowledging the other person's statement that they do not love them.


Well that's alright with me 'cause I'm in love with you
The singer is content with their own feelings of love for the other person, even though the feelings are not reciprocated.


And I wouldn't want you doin' things, you don't want to do
The singer values the other person's autonomy and wants them to only do things that they truly want to do.


Oh you know, I've always wanted you to be in love with me
The artist reveals their long-standing desire for the other person to love them in return.


And it took so long to realize, the way things have to be
The artist understands that they cannot force someone to love them and has finally come to terms with this.


I wanted to live in a dream that couldn't be real
The singer had unrealistic expectations and hoped for a love that was unlikely to ever materialize.


And I'm starting to understand now the way that you feel
The singer is developing empathy for the other person's lack of romantic feelings and is beginning to see the situation from their perspective.


You say, you don't
The other person reiterates their lack of love for the artist.


You say, you don't
Again, the other person emphasizes that they do not love the artist.


Well that's alright with me 'cause I have got the time
The artist has patience and is willing to wait for the other person to potentially change their mind about their feelings.


To wait in case someday, you maybe change your mind
The singer is open to the possibility of the other person falling in love with them in the future and is willing to wait to see if that happens.


I've decided not to make the same mistakes this time around
The artist has learned from past heartaches and wants to avoid making the same mistakes again.


As I'm tired of having heartaches, I've been thinking and I've found
The singer is reflecting on the emotional pain they have experienced in the past and has come to a realization about what they truly want.


I don't want to live in a dream, I want somethin' real
The singer no longer wants to hold onto impossible fantasies and desires a genuine and authentic relationship.


And I think I understand now the way that you feel
The singer has gained a better understanding of the other person's perspective and emotions.


You say, you don't
The other person continues to reject the idea of loving the artist.


You say, you don't
Again, the other person emphasizes their lack of love for the artist.


Well that's alright with me, I'm not in love with you
The singer clarifies that they do not necessarily expect the other person to love them and are content with their own feelings of love.


I just want us to do the things, we both want to do
The singer values mutual consent and wants to engage in activities that both parties genuinely enjoy.


Though I've got this special feelin', I'd be wrong to call it love
The artist acknowledges that their emotions towards the other person are complex and perhaps not fully defined as love.


For the word entails a few things that I would be well rid of
The artist recognizes that love can involve negative elements and they do not want to bear those burdens in their relationship.


I've no need to live in a dream, it's finally real
The artist has come to terms with reality and is now focused on creating a genuine and healthy relationship.


And I hope you now understand this feelin' I feel
The singer wants the other person to acknowledge and respect their emotions, even if they do not love them in return.


You say, you don't
The other person once again expresses their lack of love.


You say, you don't
Again, the other person emphasizes that they do not feel romantic love for the singer.


You say, you don't love me
The song ends with the repetition of the other person's statement that they do not love the singer.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Peter Shelley

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@dougsmith7083

Imagine the insanity of this EXCELLENT album, featuring possibly best song he ever wrote "I Believe" and, exceptional tunes like this one and the title track as well as Steve's solid contributions...an album that is THAT GREAT...not to mention that the band was often tripping balls on psychedelics quite often during this period (and, still melting faces live and, writing albums THIS GREAT)!

Now, taking ALL of that in and contemplating it a bit...you pretty much HAVE TO come to the realization that THIS is their WEAKEST album!!

That is pretty freakin scary IMO.

Imagine writing and recording an album that is as incredible as this album...it would be universally heralded as an exceptional accomplishment...career defining...

The Buzzcocks were THAT good.

Yes, Pete Shelley could write a great song



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You say you don't love me
Well that's alright with me 'cause I'm in love with you
And I wouldn't want you doin' things, you don't want to do
Oh you know, I've always wanted you to be in love with me
And it took so long to realize, the way things have to be

I wanted to live in a dream that couldn't be real
And I'm starting to understand now the way that you feel
You say, you don't
You say, you don't

You say you don't love me
Well that's alright with me 'cause I have got the time
To wait in case someday, you maybe change your mind
I've decided not to make the same mistakes this time around
As I'm tired of having heartaches, I've been thinking and I've found

I don't want to live in a dream, I want somethin' real
And I think I understand now the way that you feel
You say you don't, you say you don't
You say you don't

You say, you don't
You say, you don't

You say you don't love me
Well that's alright with me, I'm not in love with you
I just want us to do the things, we both want to do
Though I've got this special feelin', I'd be wrong to call it love
For the word entails a few things that I would be well rid of

I've no need to live in a dream, it's finally real
And I hope you now understand this feelin' I feel
You say, you don't
You say, you don't

You say, you don't love me
You say, you don't love me
You say, you don't love me
Hmm



@fiolove08

You say you don't love me
Well that's alright with me 'cause I'm in love with you
And I wouldn't want you doin' things, you don't want to do
Oh you know, I've always wanted you to be in love with me
And it took so long to realize, the way things have to be

I wanted to live in a dream that couldn't be real
And I'm starting to understand now the way that you feel
You say, you don't
You say, you don't

You say you don't love me
Well that's alright with me 'cause I have got the time
To wait in case someday, you maybe change your mind
I've decided not to make the same mistakes this time around
As I'm tired of having heartaches, I've been thinking and I've found

I don't want to live in a dream, I want somethin' real
And I think I understand now the way that you feel
You say you don't, you say you don't
You say you don't

You say, you don't
You say, you don't

You say you don't love me
Well that's alright with me, I'm not in love with you
I just want us to do the things, we both want to do
Though I've got this special feelin', I'd be wrong to call it love
For the word entails a few things that I would be well rid of

I've no need to live in a dream, it's finally real
And I hope you now understand this feelin' I feel
You say, you don't
You say, you don't

You say, you don't love me
You say, you don't love me
You say, you don't love me



All comments from YouTube:

@miracles4u

This is one of the finest songs ever written and I feel sorry for anyone who hasn't or doesn't choose to. Love u always Pete u r one of the greatest song writers and seeing you at Cropredy was surprisingly the best gig I've been to. Peace

@bluebuzzdog

I love how this song progresses from accepting that he has unrequited love but moves on in three verses.

@gorgon1863

the man was a genius. No really.

@anneliamohara2842

Always loved the Buzzcocks ! seen them in Dublin 1978 ,and later in New York great band best band to come out of Manchester !☘️

@rvtelevision2274

For me one of the very best pop love songs of all the time. R. I. P Pete shelley, one of a kind.

@MadderMel

One of their best songs for sure !

@miracles4u

10/10

@AtondroMahmud

Pop or punk?

@ThatAdultCrash24

Forever the soundtrack of my youth. And life

@mikecummings3149

Amazing bass on the whole album..

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