You Don't Own Me
C&S Lyrics


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If you don't know me by now
You will never never never know me

All the things
That we've been through
You should understand me
Like I understand you
Now girl I know the difference
Between right and wrong
I ain't gonna do nothing
To break up our happy home
Don't get so excited
When I come home
A little late at night
'Cause we only act like children
When we argue fuss and fight

If you don't know me by now
You will never never never know me

We've all got our
Own funny moods
I've got mine,
Woman you've got yours too
Just trust in me like I trust in you
As long as we've been together
It should be so easy to do
Just get yourself together
Or we might as well say goodbye
What good is a love affair
When you can't see eye to eye

If you don't know me by now




You will never
Never never know me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to C&S's song "You Don't Own Me" are about the importance of understanding and trusting one's partner in a relationship. The lines, "If you don't know me by now / You will never never never know me" emphasize the idea that if the singer's partner hasn't taken the time to understand their character and values, then they may never truly know each other.


The singer acknowledges the ups and downs of any relationship, stating "All the things / That we've been through / You should understand me / Like I understand you." But despite their differences, the singer urges their partner to trust them: "Just trust in me like I trust in you / As long as we've been together / It should be so easy to do."


The song also touches on the tendency for partners to fall into immature behavior when disagreements arise: "We only act like children / When we argue fuss and fight." The final lines, "What good is a love affair / When you can't see eye to eye," suggest that mutual understanding and trust are necessary for a relationship to thrive.


Overall, the lyrics to "You Don't Own Me" emphasize the importance of taking time to really know and understand one's partner in order to build a strong, healthy relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

If you don't know me by now
If, after all we've been through, you still can't understand and accept who I am...


You will never never never know me
...then you never will - no matter how hard you try, you'll never be able to truly comprehend me.


All the things
Given all of our shared experiences and history...


That we've been through
...the events and trials we've endured together...


You should understand me
...you ought to be able to understand me...


Like I understand you
...just as thoroughly as I understand and accept you.


Now girl I know the difference
I am aware of and can distinguish between...


Between right and wrong
...what is morally correct and incorrect.


I ain't gonna do nothing
I will not take any action...


To break up our happy home
...that would jeopardize the stability and joy of our home life.


Don't get so excited
Please do not get too worked up or anxious...


When I come home
...when I return home...


A little late at night
...even if it's a little late in the evening.


'Cause we only act like children
After all, we're only acting like children...


When we argue fuss and fight
...in those moments when we're bickering and fighting unnecessarily.


We've all got our
Each of us has...


Own funny moods
...our own peculiar emotional states and moods.


I've got mine,
I, for example, have mine...


Woman you've got yours too
...and female partner, you certainly have yours.


Just trust in me like I trust in you
We need to trust each other just as much as we already do.


As long as we've been together
Given how much time we've spent being intimate and close...


It should be so easy to do
...it should be a relatively simple task.


Just get yourself together
All that needs to happen is for you to gather yourself and your thoughts...


Or we might as well say goodbye
...or else there's no point in us continuing to try and work it out.


What good is a love affair
What is the use of a romantic relationship...


When you can't see eye to eye
...if we fundamentally and completely disagree about everything?


If you don't know me by now
In case you still don't understand me well enough...


You will never
...just know that you never will...


Never never know me
...no matter how much effort you expend to try and do so.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Kenneth Gamble, Leon Huff

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