Shop Around
Captain & Tennille Lyrics


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When I became of age my mother called me to her side,
She said,"Son, you're growing up now pretty soon you'll take a bride.
And then she said, "Just because you've become a young man now,
There's still somethings that you don't understand now,
Before you ask some girl for her hand now
Keep your freedom for as long as you can now."

My mama told me, "You better shop around, (shop, shop)
Oh yeah, you better shop around." (shop, shop around)

Ah, there's somethings that I want you to know now.
Just as sure as the winds gonna blow now
The women come and the women gonna go now
Before you tell em that you love em so now.

My mama told me, "You better shop around, (shop, shop)
Oh yeah, you better shop around." (shop, shop around)

A-try to get yourself a bargain son.
Don't be sold on the very first one.
A-pretty girls come a dime a dozen,
A-try to find one who's gonna give you true lovin'

Before you take a girl and say I do, now,
Make sure she's in love with-a you now.
My mama told me, "You better shop around."

Ooh yeah, a-try to get yourself a bargain son.
Don't be sold on the very first one.
A-pretty girls come a dime a dozen,
A-try to find one who's gonna give you true lovin'.

Before you take a girl and say I do, now,
Make sure she's in love with-a you now.
Make sure that her love is true now.
I hate to see you feelin' sad and blue now."

My mama told me, "You better shop around (shop, shop)
Don't let the first one get you
Oh no cause I don't want to see her with you
Before you let her hold you tight, ah yeah make sure shes alright




Before you let her take your hand my son
Understand my son, be a man my son I know you can I love you"

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Captain & Tennille's "Shop Around" are about the importance of shopping around for the right partner before settling down. The song begins with the singer's mother advising him to keep his freedom and not rush into a commitment before finding a suitable partner. She encourages him to shop around and not to be taken in by the first girl he meets, as there are many pretty girls out there but only a few who will offer true love.


The chorus of the song reinforces the idea of shopping around, with the singer's mother warning him to be careful and not to let the first girl get him. She wants her son to find someone who will make him happy and not leave him feeling sad and blue.


The second verse reinforces the message of the first, with the singer's mother warning him that women come and go and that he should make sure that the one he chooses is in love with him and capable of giving him true love. The bridge of the song encourages the singer to be a man and to take his time finding the right partner, not to rush into anything that might leave him feeling unhappy.


Overall, the message of this song is one of caution and advice to young men who are considering settling down. The lyrics encourage them to take their time and to be careful in choosing a partner, to avoid heartache and disappointment.


Line by Line Meaning

When I became of age my mother called me to her side
Upon reaching adulthood, my mother insisted on having a conversation with me that she deemed to be important


She said,"Son, you're growing up now pretty soon you'll take a bride.
My mother emphasized that reaching adulthood meant that marriage was on the horizon


And then she said, "Just because you've become a young man now,
My mother warned that despite becoming a young man, there are still many things that I'm as yet unaware of


There's still somethings that you don't understand now,
My mother acknowledged that there may be certain aspects of adulthood and relationships that I might not comprehend yet


Before you ask some girl for her hand now
My mother warned that before I pop the question to any girl, I should take heed of her advice


Keep your freedom for as long as you can now."
My mother emphasized the need to exercise my freedom as an individual before committing to marriage


Ah, there's somethings that I want you to know now.
There are additional pieces of advice that my mother wants to share with me


Just as sure as the winds gonna blow now,
As certain as the wind blowing, there are some relationships that will come and go


The women come and the women gonna go now
There will be women who will enter and exit your life


Before you tell em that you love em so now.
Don't be too quick to profess your love to any woman


A-try to get yourself a bargain son. Don't be sold on the very first one.
Take your time to explore your options and don't settle for the first woman that comes your way


A-pretty girls come a dime a dozen, A-try to find one who's gonna give you true lovin'
Beautiful women are plentiful, but seek out someone who will love you genuinely


Before you take a girl and say I do, now, Make sure she's in love with-a you now.
Be certain that the woman you marry loves you equally


Ooh yeah, a-try to get yourself a bargain son.
Don't rush into things when searching for a partner, take your time


Don't be sold on the very first one.
Don't be too eager and settle for the first woman that comes your way


Before you let her hold you tight, ah yeah make sure shes alright
Before you get too physical with a woman, make sure she's right for you


Before you let her take your hand my son
Before entering into a life-long partnership, make sure that it's the right decision for you


Understand my son, be a man my son I know you can I love you
My mother encouraged me to be mature in my decisions and assured me of her love and support


My mama told me, "You better shop around (shop, shop) Don't let the first one get you Oh no cause I don't want to see her with you
My mother reiterated the importance of exploring my options and not being too hasty in choosing a partner, so as to not make a regrettable decision


Make sure that her love is true now.
Ensure that the woman you choose to spend your life with truly loves you


I hate to see you feelin' sad and blue now."
My mother implored me to listen to her advice, as she doesn't want me to be unhappy in the future




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Berry Gordy Jr, William Robinson Jr.

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