Breaking Up Is Hard To Do
Carole King Lyrics


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You tell me that you're leavin',
I can't believe it's true!
Girl, there's just no livin' without you.
Don't take your love away from me.
Don't you leave my heart in misery.
'Cause if you go, then I'll be blue,
Breakin' up is hard to do.
Remember when you held me tight,
And you kissed me all through the night.
Think of all that we been through,
And breakin' up is hard to do.

They say that breakin' up is hard to do,
Now I know, I know that it's true.
Don't say that this is the end.
Instead of breakin' up I wish that
We were makin' up again.

I beg of you don't say goodbye,
Can't we give our love just one more try?




Come on baby, let's start anew,
Breakin' up is hard to do.

Overall Meaning

Carole Kings’ Breaking Up Is Hard To Do is a classic song about heartbreak and lamenting its consequences. The song was released in 1975 and it has stood the test of time as a universal tune for anyone who has ever experienced a breakup. The main message of the song is that breaking up is not as easy as one may think it is. The song begins with the singer not believing that his relationship with his lover is really over. He expresses his innermost feelings, claiming that he cannot live without her. He pleads with her not to take her love away and leave him in misery. The chorus then sets in, and he talks about how blue he will become if his lover leaves. As he remembers all the memories they shared together, he clearly sees how hard it is to move on from this relationship.


As the song continues, he talks about how hard it is to break up with someone you love, and when he says, "they say breaking up is hard to do, now I know that it's true" he is trying to come to grips with the reality of his situation. The singer then pivots to explain that he wishes that they could start anew and build a new foundation for their love because he believes that breaking up is hard to do. He then ends the song by pleading with his lover to give him one more chance, and try to make it work.


In summary, this song is about the difficulty of ending a relationship and highlights the duality of emotions that come with letting go of someone you love.


Line by Line Meaning

You tell me that you're leavin',
You inform me that you are departing


I can't believe it's true!
I am unable to accept its legitimacy


Girl, there's just no livin' without you.
My existence is incomplete without your presence


Don't take your love away from me.
Please do not withdraw your affection from me.


Don't you leave my heart in misery.
Please do not abandon me in a state of despair.


'Cause if you go, then I'll be blue,
If you leave, then I will be melancholic,


Breakin' up is hard to do.
It is arduous to separate from a loved one.


Remember when you held me tight,
Can you recall when you embraced me closely


And you kissed me all through the night.
And kissed me unceasingly throughout the night.


Think of all that we been through,
Contemplate all the challenges that we have surmounted.


And breakin' up is hard to do.
And acknowledge that it is intricate to break apart.


They say that breakin' up is hard to do,
It is reputed that disengagement is troublesome


Now I know, I know that it's true.
I realize that it is factual.


Don't say that this is the end.
Please avoid ending our relationship.


Instead of breakin' up I wish that
Preferably, I aspire


We were makin' up again.
To reconcile our differences once more.


I beg of you don't say goodbye,
I implore you not to utter farewell.


Can't we give our love just one more try?
Is it not possible to rekindle our love once again?


Come on baby, let's start anew,
Coaxing you to begin afresh with me.


Breakin' up is hard to do.
It is challenging to part ways.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: HOWARD GREENFIELD, NEIL SEDAKA

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