The rules of attraction
Carpathian Lyrics


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Lying here and all I want is to beat my face against this wall
Motionless you drift away, and I'm left wondering
"If it means so little to us why do they fall down you like rain?"
Your hand in mine
I felt explosions for the first time

I realized words are just words
Heartbeats singing us to sleep
Chasing a dream, but some things are never meant to be
The air is filled with a cold uncertainty

Your Beautiful but you don't mean a thing

Why do I even care?

As I take this first breath
Glittering blackness paints me a brand new colour
Forget 'us' this is mine, with eyes like diamonds shine

Swallow me whole sugar
Swallow me whole.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Carpathian's song "The Rules of Attraction" express feelings of confusion, uncertainty, and disappointment. The first verse conveys a sense of frustration, as the singer is feeling stuck and helpless - they want to lash out, but can't. The second verse is more introspective, with the singer reflecting on the complexity of human emotion and relationships. They seem to be questioning why they even bother pursuing something that seems destined to fail.


The chorus is the most straightforward part of the song, with the repeated phrase "Your Beautiful but you don't mean a thing" serving as a kind of refrain. The singer seems torn between their attraction to someone (who is beautiful) and their realization that this attraction is ultimately empty - this person doesn't really "mean" anything to them.


The final verse is the most surreal and psychedelic, with the singer describing a sense of transformation ("Glittering blackness paints me a brand new colour") and a desire to be consumed ("Swallow me whole sugar"). Overall, the lyrics to "The Rules of Attraction" seem to be grappling with the limitations of language and human connection, and the difficulty of truly understanding and connecting with someone else.


Line by Line Meaning

Lying here and all I want is to beat my face against this wall
Feeling frustrated and helpless, wanting to take out my anger on an inanimate object.


Motionless you drift away, and I'm left wondering
Seeing you withdraw emotionally, and I'm left confused and unsure what to do or say.


"If it means so little to us why do they fall down you like rain?"
If our relationship is insignificant, why do others still seem to be drawn to you like a force of nature?


Your hand in mine, I felt explosions for the first time
Holding your hand made me feel an intense emotion or sensation for the first time in my life.


I realized words are just words
Coming to the understanding that words alone can't always convey the depth of our feelings or experiences.


Heartbeats singing us to sleep
The steady rhythm of our heartbeats lulls us into a peaceful slumber as we lay together.


Chasing a dream, but some things are never meant to be
Pursuing a goal or aspiration that may be unattainable, no matter how hard we try.


The air is filled with a cold uncertainty
Feeling a sense of unease or anxiety that permeates the atmosphere around us.


Your Beautiful but you don't mean a thing
Acknowledging your outward attractiveness, but realizing that it doesn't necessarily equate to a deeper emotional connection.


Why do I even care?
Reflecting on the fact that my feelings may not be reciprocated, and questioning why I continue to invest emotionally in this relationship.


As I take this first breath
In a moment of new beginnings, as if starting anew with a fresh perspective.


Glittering blackness paints me a brand new colour
Embracing a darker, more complex side of myself that was previously hidden or ignored.


Forget 'us' this is mine, with eyes like diamonds shine
Realizing that I need to focus on my own self-growth and development, rather than becoming overly fixated on a relationship that may not be healthy for me.


Swallow me whole sugar Swallow me whole.
Desiring to be consumed by an overwhelming emotion or experience, losing oneself entirely to passion or desire.




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