Just a Dream
Carrie Underwood Lyrics


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It was two weeks after the day she turned eighteen
All dressed in white, going to the church that night
She had his box of letters in the passenger seat
Sixpence in her shoe
Something borrowed, something blue
And when the church doors opened up wide
She put her veil down trying to hide the tears
Oh, she just couldn't believe it
She heard the trumpets from the military band
And the flowers fell out of her hands

Baby, why'd you leave me, why'd you have to go
I was counting on forever, now I'll never know
I can't even breathe
It's like I'm looking from a distance
Standing in the background
Everybody's saying, he's not coming home now
This can't be happening to me
This is just a dream

The preacher man said let us bow our heads and pray
Lord, please lift his soul and heal this hurt
Then the congregation all stood up
And sang the saddest song that she ever heard
Then they handed her a folded-up flag

And she held on to all she had left of him
Oh, and what could've been
And then guns rang one last shot
And it felt like a bullet in her heart

Baby, why'd you leave me, why'd you have to go
I was counting on forever, now I'll never know
I can't even breathe
It's like I'm looking from a distance
Standing in the background
Everybody's saying, he's not coming home now
This can't be happening to me
This is just a dream

Baby, why'd you leave me, why'd you have to go
I was counting on forever, now I'll never know
Oh, I'll never know
It's like I'm looking from a distance
Standing in the background
Everybody's saying, he's not coming home now
This can't be happening to me
This is just a dream





Oh, this is just a dream
Just a dream, (yeah, yeah)

Overall Meaning

Carrie Underwood's song Just a Dream tells a heartbreaking story of a young bride whose soldier fiancé dies during active service, leaving her all alone to mourn the loss of the future they had planned. The first verse describes the bride's wedding day and how she is filled with hope and excitement, but also sadness as she carries a box of letters from her fiancé who is overseas at war. As she walks down the aisle, wearing white, she has something borrowed and something blue, and a sixpence in her shoe. But when the church doors open and she hears the trumpets of the military band, she realizes he will never come home. She breaks down in tears as flowers fall from her hands.


The chorus is a heart-wrenching lament over the loss of her love, the unanswered question of why he had to leave her, and how she can't believe this is really happening. She feels lost and disconnected from the world, looking from a distance as people tell her he will never return. She is left with only her memories and a folded-up flag as a last symbol of her fiancé's sacrifice. The final gunshot is like a physical blow to her heart, emphasizing the finality of his death.


This song captures the emotional turmoil of losing someone to war, especially someone you love and were planning to spend a lifetime with. It speaks to the grief and confusion, the sense of disbelief and helplessness, that many people experience in this situation. Just a Dream is a moving tribute to those who serve their country and to the families who must cope with the reality of war.


Line by Line Meaning

It was two weeks after the day she turned eighteen
The story begins when the young woman in question is just eighteen years old.


All dressed in white, going to the church that night
She is dressed in a white bridal gown, which suggests that she is going to her wedding ceremony.


She had his box of letters in the passenger seat
The bride has her fiance's box of letters in the car with her, which implies that he is away fighting in a war.


Sixpence in her shoe
The young woman has a sixpence in her shoe as part of the wedding tradition of wearing something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue.


Something borrowed, something blue
She is following the old wedding adage of wearing something borrowed and something blue.


And when the church doors opened up wide
The story continues with the opening of the church doors.


She put her veil down trying to hide the tears
The bride is crying and tries to conceal her tears with her veil.


Oh she just couldn't believe it
She is feeling disbelief at what is happening.


She heard the trumpets from the military band
She hears the sound of trumpets, which suggests that there is a military presence.


And the flowers fell out of her hands
She drops the flowers that she was holding.


Baby, why'd you leave me, why'd you have to go
The bride is addressing her fiance, questioning why he had to leave her.


I was counting on forever, now I'll never know
She had hoped for a lifetime together with her fiance, but now she feels that this is impossible.


I can't even breathe
The young woman is feeling suffocated by her pain.


It's like I'm looking from a distance,
She feels disconnected from reality.


Standing in the background
The bride feels like she is on the periphery of her own life.


Everybody's saying, he's not coming home now,
The people around her are telling her that her fiance will not be coming back.


This can't be happening to me
She is in a state of shock and disbelief.


This is just a dream
The young woman is hoping that what is happening is not real and is just a dream.


The preacher man said let us bow our heads and pray
The preacher asks everyone to pray.


Lord please lift his soul and heal this hurt
The prayer is asking for the young woman's fiance's soul to be lifted and for her to find healing.


Then the congregation all stood up
The congregation rises.


And sang the saddest song that she ever heard
The song that follows is a sad and emotional one.


Then they handed her a folded up flag
The soldier's flag is given to the bride.


And she held on to all she had left of him
The young woman clings onto what she has left of her fiance.


Oh, and what could've been
The song sentimentalizes what could have happened if he had stayed alive.


And then guns rang one last shot
The sound of gunfire is heard one last time.


And it felt like a bullet in her heart
The young woman feels extreme pain and heartbreak.


Oh I'll never know
She realizes that she will never know what could have been if her fiance had lived.


Oh, this is just a dream
The young woman is still hoping that this is all just a bad dream.


Just a dream, (yeah, yeah)
The song emphasizes that this was not real and is just a sad dream.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Gordie Sampson, Hillary Lindsey, Steven Mcewan

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@ciannamccoy6253

Welcome to the family. :) I got more camo around me than Si's duck blind. It takes a very special woman to marry into this community. You have the entire community of the most badass warriors watching your six. I used to house Marines in transition, Its a very confusing time. You will be shocked when you realize how vey strong you are. My nephew joined at 17. He is now retiring.. (it feels a bit strange saying that... most of us used "retired" for men in their 60s) He is now 28, he made rank last month, will retire as a MSsgt. The last group I housed were just the most incredible humans. It was such an honor to have a 5 men that protect us, selflessly. I had the safest, protected house! The Sniper in the group, Danger Dave insisted on renting the room st the front of the house. From that vantage point, he could see the street and neighbors. His weapon at the window the entire time he was with me, They called me MaMa Bear. Their mothers all called when they heard where they were staying. As they went through the transition, they slowly found their way as civies.

Im so going to cry typing this ut I try to help and bring new members of the family some piece of mind. Lean on your sisters. We serve at home, while they serve out there. Quick story, as it shows the hearts and souls of these men. My favorite boy (shhh don't ell the others!) was a Terminal Lance. Huge bear of a soft sweet man. This group served together. They did 3 tours. He came to me during meal prep in the mess. . (they literally renamed everything. The "barracks" upstairs, and the mess, that they put me in charge of.) Their moms, "send them home fat and happy!" And that was my goal.

They came home from all deployment, whole and physically unscathed. The only injury sustained was my Terminal Lance tripped over razor wire, had a scratch on his right ankle. "its just a flesh wound!" He stood next to me at the stove. Showed me a tattoo that all have. A shamrock, with "Untouchables". He pulled up his sleeve and said, " The guys and I want you to get this tattoo. You're our Mama bear." I was overwhelmed with emotions, these boys, my boys. However, I didn't feel I deserved the tattoo, I never served, and I wasn't their mother. Sure, they called me MamaBear, but I wasn't their mom. It almost felt like it would be Stolen Valor of the women who birthed heroes. He said, "you take such good care of us. I think we all gained a bunch of weight since separating. We wanted to give you this." The other guys came down to chill. They each came up and hugged me, "we love you. Youre our Second mom." By the time the 5th Marine hugged me I was crying uncontrollably. they all told me how they wanted me to get the tattoo. Finally the sniper found a compromise; I hated turning them down, but I was so convicted, I steadfastly refused. My Grim Reaper said, "Then put Untouchables Mama." The other guys.. "yup! do it for us" And I did,. I have worn this tattoo with so much humility, and appreciation of what and who it represents. They gave me a poem written about a service mom. Has hung on my wall the last 7 years. The tattoo is on my back, so I will never forget they will have my back always.

Im sorry this is so long, I like to let the new ladies know that they can depend on us. Her Corps Sisters. A bit of "A day in the life of a Marine Mom" as it were.

Have you been to the Birthday Ball? The shenanigans.. LOL Their boots hang in the rafters of a friends bar. oorah Semper Fi!



All comments from YouTube:

@layceejo5650

“And it felt like a bullet in her heart”.... gets me every time

@loganbivins4866

For real same here

@tuckermurrell6761

AMBER POND hey me to

@shelbydykstra9954

Laycee Jo honestly same.

@nicolelatham979

Same

@nicolelatham979

Same here. I have that line stuck in my head after a guy who was about to become my bf suddenly turned me down.

@nightmareajbusheysomeonesy7499

At first it seemed like a wedding song.

Then it became a song about grief.

This is a military spouse's worst nightmare

@melswanson502

Amen to that. I watched my husband go to Iraq, Kuwait, Afghanistan, etc, etc. It was something every year. I let him go without anything ever even happening. Thankfully he retired. Now it's 2 of my 4 sons.

@emilymartin1878

Agreed

@melswanson502

@Abigail Forget He's in our prayers! It's very hard, but you do get used to it.

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