Strangers
Cass Fox Lyrics


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Father, you have taken so long
Didn't you see I was hurting here?
Father, didn't you want me to grow like I did?

But mother, you are scared, and I recognise myself
And brother, you're lost and I see myself in you
Do you see?
Do you, do you see?

And to hurt each other like this
We need to be, to be like
Strangers
And to break each other like this
We need to be, to be like
Strangers

Skin-close thing, don't know where to begin
And I can't see colours
And I can't hear a thing
In this world I'm not scared to realise I need help
And use my strength to reach out

I need to find some reality

'Cause to hurt each other like this
We need to be, to be like
Strangers
And to break each other like this
We need to be, to be like
Strangers

We can't carry on
We're going nowhere in this storm
As the day starts to clear
The Sun comes through when everything looks like a mountain

To hurt each other like this
We need to be, to be like
Strangers
And to break each other like this
We need to be, to be like
Strangers
And to hurt each other like this
We need to be, to be like
Strangers
'Cause to hurt each other like this




We need to be, to be like
Strangers

Overall Meaning

The song "Strangers" by Cass Fox is a powerful reflection on the pain and distance that can exist within a family. The opening lines address the absent father, lamenting how his absence and lack of attention caused pain. The next lines turn to the mother and brother, recognizing the fear and confusion they experience and the ways that the singer sees herself reflected in them. The chorus repeats the phrase "to hurt each other like this, we need to be like strangers," suggesting that perhaps it is the familiarity and closeness that breeds this pain between family members.


The second verse seems to take a more introspective turn. The singer notes that she is "skin-close" to something but unsure where to begin. She cannot see colors or hear anything, perhaps suggesting a sense of disorientation or confusion. But she also notes that she is not scared to realize that she needs help and to use her strength to reach out. The final lines return to the chorus, again emphasizing the idea that sometimes the only way to avoid hurting each other is to retreat into a sense of distance and unfamiliarity.


Overall, "Strangers" is a poignant and emotional song that speaks to the complex dynamics within families. It suggests that even those we love most deeply can sometimes hurt us the most, and that perhaps the only way to avoid this cycle of pain is to create a sense of distance and separation.


Line by Line Meaning

Father, you have taken so long
Father, your absence and lack of help for so long has been hard for me


Didn't you see I was hurting here?
I was hurting and needed you, why didn't you notice?


Father, didn't you want me to grow like I did?
I grew despite your absence, didn't you wish to be a part of that growth?


But mother, you are scared, and I recognise myself
Mother, I understand your fear and I see that same fear within myself


And brother, you're lost and I see myself in you
Brother, you are lost and I can relate and see myself in your struggles


Do you see?
Do you truly understand and see the connections and similarities between us?


Do you, do you see?
I am asking again, do you truly see?


And to hurt each other like this
The pain we inflict on each other


We need to be, to be like Strangers
We need to emotionally detach ourselves from one another to cause such hurt


Skin-close thing, don't know where to begin
Our relationship is complex and it can be hard to know where to start fixing it


And I can't see colours
I am blinded by my emotions and cannot see the situation clearly


And I can't hear a thing
I am deaf to any possible solutions or advice


In this world I'm not scared to realise I need help
In this current context, I am not afraid to admit that I need help in order to move forward


And use my strength to reach out
I will use my inner strength to ask for help and support


I need to find some reality
I need to find a way to ground myself and address the situation as it is, not as I fear it to be


We can't carry on
Things cannot continue as they are


We're going nowhere in this storm
Our current situation is chaotic and not leading us anywhere productive


As the day starts to clear
With time and effort, things may start to become clearer


The Sun comes through when everything looks like a mountain
Even in the darkest moments, hope and solutions may arise




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