Bully
Cat Power Lyrics


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Boy, you’re a bully
Through the grass and the river you chase
You were cruel, you were so mean
Laughing right in my face
All the while you had my back, my best friend
I can still feel that smile on my face
27 was a good year, the best
The back of the bar watching me dance in a dress
Remember that night in Paris, all those candles you lit
You and all the alcohol
Sleeping on the street, sleeping on a ...
Looking like a crook for trying to come back home
With a twist of your tongue and a devilish smile on your face
When you get sick
You were through with fun and games
Now that the times have all changed
I can’t find you,
I can’t put you back into place
Nothing could be done
For this young, wild son
Standing on the street in a hoswital sheet
All on the run from the police
Dumb girl on your arm
That look on your face
And all those crazy things you said to me
I can never forget
Everything you have to go through
With a smile on your face




Everything we now know, with a smile on our face
I, I can never forget

Overall Meaning

The song Bully by Cat Power is a track that explores themes of aggression, violence, and power dynamics in relationships. The first verse highlights the tumultuous relationship between the singer and their partner. The singer acknowledges that they have been the victim of verbal and emotional abuse at the hands of their partner, who is described as a 'bully'. The lyrics suggest that the partner had been both supportive and hostile at times, which made the abuse more confusing and harder to leave.


The second verse of the song details a time in the past where the relationship was more positive. The singer recalls a night in Paris where they were happy together. However, as the song progresses, it becomes clear that things have changed. The partner has become addicted to alcohol and drugs and is now in trouble with the law. The song ends with the singer reflecting on the past and expressing sadness at the loss of the relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Boy, you’re a bully
You are a person who intimidates and hurts others, typically those who are weaker than you.


Through the grass and the river you chase
You relentlessly pursue and chase your victims through any obstacle, be it grass or a river.


You were cruel, you were so mean
You were malicious and unkind to me.


Laughing right in my face
You took pleasure in mocking and ridiculing me while looking at my face directly.


All the while you had my back, my best friend
Despite being cruel at times, you were still my closest friend who had my back.


I can still feel that smile on my face
I remember the kind and genuine moments when you made me smile.


27 was a good year, the best
The age of 27 was the happiest year of my life.


The back of the bar watching me dance in a dress
You were watching me dance in a dress from the back of a bar.


Remember that night in Paris, all those candles you lit
I still remember the intimate night we spent in Paris with you lighting candles to create a romantic ambiance.


You and all the alcohol
You were drinking alcohol that night.


Sleeping on the street, sleeping on a ...
You slept on the street and perhaps on other uncertain places.


Looking like a crook for trying to come back home
You appeared suspicious while attempting to return to your residence.


With a twist of your tongue and a devilish smile on your face
You had a manipulative and sly expression on your face while speaking cunningly.


When you get sick
When you become unwell or weak.


You were through with fun and games
You were no longer interested in engaging with others or having a good time.


Now that the times have all changed
Times have changed and things are different now.


I can’t find you, I can’t put you back into place
I cannot locate you and return you to the way you used to be.


Nothing could be done
I was helpless and could not change the situation.


For this young, wild son
For a young and untamed individual like you.


Standing on the street in a hospital sheet
You were standing outside of a hospital in a sheet, perhaps due to a hospital gown.


All on the run from the police
You were on the run from law enforcement.


Dumb girl on your arm
You had a foolish girl accompanying you.


That look on your face
The expression on your face was questionable or suspicious.


And all those crazy things you said to me
You said multiple insane or irrational things to me.


I can never forget
I will never be able to forget those moments.


Everything you have to go through
All of the struggles and hardships you must face.


With a smile on your face
Despite your challenges, you face them with a smile on your face.


Everything we now know, with a smile on our face
Despite the harsh truths we have come to learn, we face them with a positive attitude.


I, I can never forget
I will always remember.




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@gpeddino

Boy, you’re a bully
Through the grass and the river you chase
You were cruel, you were so mean
Laughing right in my face

All the while you had my back, my best friend
I can still feel that smile on my face
27 was a good year, the best
The back of the bar watching me dance in a dress
Remember that night in Paris, all those candles you lit
You and all the alcohol
Sleeping on the street, sleeping on a train
Looking like a crook with a cane
You come back home with a twist of your tongue
And a devilish smile on your face

When you got sick
You were through with fun and games
Now that the times have all changed
I can’t find you
I can’t put you back into place

Nothing could be done
For this young, wild son
Standing on the street in a hospital sheet
On the run from the police
A dumb girl on your arm
That look on your face
And all those crazy things you said to me
I can never forget

Everything you have to go through
With a smile on your face
Everything we now know
With a smile on our face

I can never forget



All comments from YouTube:

@nnnnnnnnnnnnmmm

After years, I just can’t help coming back to this to rewatch and read the comments to see if anyone still feels as touched by this as I do. It’s really remarkable how she makes you feel all she’s feeling through those facial expressions. It’s really gotten stuck with me. I think I’ll be coming back to this until the end of my days. It cuts really deep for me.

@williamhobbs7693

Very beautiful & touching song. I love Cat Power. Lovely Voice , full of emotion.
Looks like she means all she's singing.

@jasperdrak

Me too. It breaks my heart. Every time I come back the song resonates with me even more, deeper.

@kiaibi

Same.

@wilyinfidel1091

@Rafael a
You have perfectly expressed it’s affect on me too.

@steveboyd3551

She's unique, authentic, passionate

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@timinno

Whenever I'm feeling a little lost I like to return to this performance. Beautiful.

@LucidDream

That made me cry. She's tough to be able to go up there and share a piece of her like that, I think. I've always admired her. Her honesty and realness. I love her writing too...she has a profound way with words. 

@jessicariccio0

I got to witness her perform Bully live in Montreal. It had to be one of the most captivating performances I ever witnessed. I never heard a room get so quiet. The entire audience was captivated and lost in her voice and the words of this song. Kudos Chan! We love you.

@SuperMickyChow

I've watched this video hundreds of times over the years and yet I still find myself breathless with anticipation, awaiting her first line to be breathed into life. She's a true artist.

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