Before And After
Chad & Jeremy Lyrics


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HE WEARS A SMILE, I WEAR A FROWN
AND I CAN TELL WHENEVER HE'S AROUND
AND ALL THE EYES OF EVERYONE ARE STARING
AND I KNOW THAT THEY'RE COMPARING THE TWO WHISPERING AND SAYING WHEN THEY DO SEE THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE OLD AND NEW BEFORE AND AFTER, LOSING YOOOOOU,
LOSING YOOOOOU
HIS FUTURE'S BRIGHT, MY FUTURE'S DIM
AND ALL THE DREAMS WE SHARED YOU SHARE WITH HIM
AND I KNOW THAT THEY'RE COMPARING THE TWO WHISPERING AND SAYING WHEN THEY DO SEE THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE OLD AND NEW BEFORE AND AFTER, LOSING YOOOOOU,
LOSING YOOOOOU

I USED TO BE HAPPY AS HE, TILL I LOST YOU SOMEHOW THOUGH I DON'T SHOW IT, YOU WOULDN'T KNOW IT
TO LOOK AT ME NOW
HE WEARS A SMILE, I WEAR A FROWN




HE MAKES YOU HAPPY WHEN HE'S AROUND HE WEARS A SMILE, I WEAR A FROWN
HE MAKES YOU HAPPY WHEN HE'S AROUND

Overall Meaning

The lyrics describe the singer's feelings of inferiority and jealousy towards his former lover's new significant other. The first lines of the song set up the contrast between the two men: the singer wears a frown while the other man wears a smile. It is clear that the other man is more popular and well-liked, as evidenced by the stares and whisperings of those around them who are comparing and contrasting the two. The singer knows that he is not as good as the other man, which is why he feels like he is losing his former lover: "Before and after, losing you."


The second verse describes how the singer once shared dreams and a future with his former lover, but now those dreams are being shared with the other man. While the singer's future looks bleak, the other man's future is bright, which only adds to the singer's feelings of inadequacy. The bridge of the song reveals that the singer used to be happy like the other man, but losing his former lover has turned his world upside down. Despite this, the other man continues to make the former lover happy, hence why he continues to wear a smile while the singer wears a frown.


Overall, the lyrics of "Before and After" speak to the universal themes of jealousy and heartbreak, and how losing a loved one can affect self-esteem and confidence.


Line by Line Meaning

HE WEARS A SMILE, I WEAR A FROWN
Comparing myself to him, I feel inferior


AND I CAN TELL WHENEVER HE'S AROUND
My insecurities are obvious in his presence


AND ALL THE EYES OF EVERYONE ARE STARING
People are watching us and noticing our differences


AND I KNOW THAT THEY'RE COMPARING THE TWO
I'm aware of the constant comparisons between us


WHISPERING AND SAYING WHEN THEY DO
People talk about us behind our backs


SEE THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE OLD AND NEW
Our differences are visible and notable


BEFORE AND AFTER, LOSING YOOOOOU
I'm losing you and things will never be the same


HIS FUTURE'S BRIGHT, MY FUTURE'S DIM
He has a promising future while I struggle


AND ALL THE DREAMS WE SHARED YOU SHARE WITH HIM
The dreams we had together are now his as well


I USED TO BE HAPPY AS HE, TILL I LOST YOU SOMEHOW
I was content with myself until you left me


THOUGH I DON'T SHOW IT, YOU WOULDN'T KNOW IT
I try to hide my sadness and insecurities around you


TO LOOK AT ME NOW
My appearance and mood have changed drastically


HE MAKES YOU HAPPY WHEN HE'S AROUND
You are happier with him than with me


HE WEARS A SMILE, I WEAR A FROWN
The contrast between us is stark


BEFORE AND AFTER, LOSING YOOOOOU
Losing you has changed everything in my life


HE MAKES YOU HAPPY WHEN HE'S AROUND
Although it hurts, I accept that he brings you happiness


HE WEARS A SMILE, I WEAR A FROWN
It is what it is, and I can't change my feelings or my face




Lyrics © VAN MCCOY MUSIC, INC.
Written by: VAN MCCOY

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