you were good to me
Chelsea Cutler Lyrics


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Lyin' isn't better than silence
Floatin', but I feel like I'm dyin'

Still, no matter where I go
At the end of every road
You were good to me
You were good to me, yeah
I know it's easier to run
After everything I've done
You were good to me
You were good to me

You were good to me
You were good to me

Leavin' isn't better than tryin'
Growin', but I'm just growin' tired

Now I'm worried for my soul
And I'm still scared of growin' old
You were good to me
You were good to me, yeah
And I'm so used to letting go
But I don't wanna be alone
You were good to me
You were good to me, yeah, oh

God only knows where our fears go
Hearts I've broke, now my tears flow
You'll see that I'm sorry
'Cause you were good to me
You were good to me

And now I'm closin' every door
'Cause I'm sick of wantin' more
You were good to me
You were good to me, yeah
Swear I'm different than before




I won't hurt you anymore
'Cause you were good to me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Chelsea Cutler's song "You Were Good To Me" portray the struggle of an individual who realizes the value of a loving relationship after they have lost it. The song highlights the conflict between the desire to move on and the aching sensation of loss. The first verse establishes the theme of regret which runs through the song. The singer recognizes that silence is not superior to lying, despite the emptiness of their words, and floating through life is no substitute for feeling alive.


The pre-chorus tackles the complexities of human emotions. The singer knows they have made mistakes and caused hurt, making it easier to walk away. However, they remember how kind and loving their former partner was, and at every turn, they see reminders of their kindness. They acknowledge that leaving is no better than staying and trying.


The chorus acknowledges the love and care that the singer received in the relationship, that they are now looking back on with appreciation. They recognize that the pain and regret of their actions do not diminish the goodness in their partner's heart. The second verse delves deeper into the singer's insecurity and fears of aging and being alone, which drives them to question their choices.


In the bridge, the singer reflects on the damage they have caused and how it has led to tears, heartbreak, and a loss of trust. The chorus's repetition emphasizes the need to process that guilt and say sorry to their former partner. In the final verse, the singer acknowledges that recognizing their mistakes has transformed them, and they are determined not to hurt their partner again.


Line by Line Meaning

Lyin' isn't better than silence
Holding back the truth is not better than avoiding it altogether


Floatin', but I feel like I'm dyin'
Even though life seems to be going well, I am still struggling internally


Still, no matter where I go
Despite my efforts to move on and leave the past behind


At the end of every road
Regardless of what journey I take


You were good to me
You treated me with kindness and love


I know it's easier to run
I admit that it is simpler to escape from the problems that I have created


After everything I've done
Despite all the hurt and disappointment that I have caused


Leavin' isn't better than tryin'
Giving up and walking away from a situation is not always the best solution


Growin', but I'm just growin' tired
Although I may be maturing, I am becoming weary from the process


Now I'm worried for my soul
My actions have led me to a place of spiritual concern


And I'm still scared of growin' old
I am afraid of aging and the unknowns that come with it


And I'm so used to letting go
I have become accustomed to releasing those closest to me


But I don't wanna be alone
I recognize that I do not want to be by myself


God only knows where our fears go
Only a higher power truly understands the depths of our fears


Hearts I've broke, now my tears flow
The consequences of my actions have led to a broken heart and tears


You'll see that I'm sorry
I hope you can forgive me for my mistakes


'Cause you were good to me
I acknowledge that you treated me with kindness and I am grateful for that


And now I'm closin' every door
I am shutting out my past and seeking a new start


'Cause I'm sick of wantin' more
Desiring more has led me to a place of unhappiness


Swear I'm different than before
I vow to change and become a better person


I won't hurt you anymore
I am committed to not causing you any more pain


'Cause you were good to me
I remember the way you treated me with kindness and affection




Lyrics © Ultra Tunes, Universal Music Publishing Group, Songtrust Ave
Written by: Chelsea Emily Cutler, Dylan Gins McDougle, Jeremy Scott Zucker

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@chzphc

Lying, isn't better than silence
Floating, but I feel like I'm dying

Still no matter where I go
At the end of every road
You were good to me
You were good to me, yeah
I know it's easier to run
After everything I've done
You were good to me
You were good to me

You were good to me
You were good to me

Leaving, isn't better than trying
Growing, but I'm just growing tired

Now I'm worried for my soul
And I'm still scared of growing old
You were good to me
You were good to me, yeah
And I'm so used to letting go
But I don't wanna be alone
You were good to me
You were good to me, yeah, oh

God only knows, where our fears go
Hearts I've broke, now my tears flow
You'll see, that I'm sorry
'Cause you were good to me
You were good to me

And now I'm closing every door
'Cause I'm sick of wanting more
You were good to me
You were good to me, yeah
Swear I'm different than before
I won't hurt you anymore
'Cause you were good to me



@danielkay2925

Imagine you are in your 60s, still alive and you're on a trip somewhere around the world.
You are lying in a large land out in the country and your staring up at the night sky.
The moon, the stars are shining bright and you are reminiscing about your younger days.
You think about how you have made it to the point that you are at now.
You think about all of the people that came in and went out of your life.
You think about the different life choices you could have made and how it would have effect the future that you are in now.
Flashback is gone and now your back in reality asking yourself what comes after life, now that you have made it to this age.
To all my youngins still in school, stay in school and be a good person.
I promise we can all help make the world a better place starting with ourselves by being nice to other people and maybe, just maybe it can chain react, one person to another and so on.
Cherish your life now because you'll get to that point in time where you'll be wishing you can relive those days again.

Oh yeah, some of you may hate your school lunch now but i promised ya will miss those school lunches.



@jonathandoss3367

this song is the only reason i survived covid.

major panic attacks and anxiety for the future really set me on edge mid 2020. i couldnt handle the uncertainty that covid brought, and to combat that i went through music. this album and this song in general came to me at just the perfect time in my life, and for that i am forever grateful :)

thank you

and to everyone that felt the same, im proud of you for still being here

thank you



@gwnmagdie_4074

"you were good to me"♡

Lying, isn't better than silence
Floating, but I feel like I'm dying

Still no matter where I go
At the end of every road
You were good to me
You were good to me, yeah
I know it's easier to run
After everything I've done
You were good to me
You were good to me

You were good to me
You were good to me

Leaving, isn't better than trying
Growing, but I'm just growing tired

Now I'm worried for my soul
And I'm still scared of growing old
You were good to me
You were good to me, yeah
And I'm so used to letting go
But I don't wanna be alone
You were good to me
You were good to me, yeah, oh

God only knows, where our fears go
Hearts I've broke, now my tears flow
You'll see, that I'm sorry
'Cause you were good to me
You were good to me

And now I'm closing every door
'Cause I'm sick of wanting more
You were good to me
You were good to me, yeah
Swear I'm different than before
I won't hurt you anymore
'Cause you were good to me

Edit: Thank you all for the likes, have a great day x



All comments from YouTube:

@GoldCoast_Music

Breathtaking, no better word describes this amazing track!

@richardkim2446

Give these some lit lyrics

@imjakepaul4497

Gold Coast Music yes

@kepler337

clik bait

@cresteoffyargente8125

💙

@aerenh_

Did a mini cover of this song on my channel check if u like ❤️

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@ethancole8422

I guess my interpretation of this song is somewhat simple. A couple broke up but neither of them really wanted to but they were pressured or circumstances made it feel like there was no choice but both of them desperately regret it. They were always good to eachother there was not a specific event where someone was lying, cheating, mean or hateful. It’s sadder when there isn’t a big good reason for the end of a relationship. When you can’t pinpoint what EXACTLY went wrong. That’s how I feel this song.

@Twisted.C6

That happened to me about 2 years ago and it still pains me.

@maitram4456

this me right here

@fulinelite3163

Yep. Happened to me. We were good to each other and we still loved each other but distance forced us to break up. This is probably the most painful kind of break up because in theory I should still be with the person, but I'm not. The relationship was in a good place. Nothing can prepare you for the heartbreak with someone that you're supposed to be with still because y'all were good sans extraneous circumstances.

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